About me: How many times must I play this game? How many times must I start over when I meet someone? Used cars, that’s what we are all to each other. No one is new or sparkling clean. But why do we all try to mislead? I’m done with it…
So here I go again, searching for a special lady. I am a broad minded, wise, college educated, ex-soldier looking to find a great mate in a woman and hopefully settle down one day. No, I’m not looking for an overnight relationship. Yes, I am looking too actually to get to know a woman as best as I can. I have every intention of taking my time, enjoying any and all time with this new interest and taking any appropriate dating risks to see where the situation goes. This is an adult man that is seeking an educated woman. No not necessarily, a grad student or degree holder. But not to discourage anyone, I am not seeking someone that cannot speak proper English. If she speaks with excessive slang or thinks catch phrases like “you know what I’m saying" is cool or anything like that then we will not be a nice match.
I'm looking for: My goal is to find someone classy. A woman that can dress well. Not a woman that thinks that she has a rich and top of the line wardrobe because she has a predominant Tommy Hilfiger clothing line in her closet. A woman with a taste in several things. A woman that is not petty. Meaning that she can get upset, be slightly bothered, experience something in a man that slightly upsets her and the world does not end. Yes, I’m seeking a reasonable, calm, understanding woman. Not some add dynamite chemical explosion when someone looks at her the wrong way.
She will have goals in life. Even if they are cartoonish and or a planned out strategy. Hopefully her goals won’t be something as typical as becoming a music artist or a poet. If so, please don’t reply. My goals include becoming independent with my own business and getting my daughter into college when shes old enough. It's a bit challenging for me to finish given current events. Furthering my computer business and putting my daughter into a good college. Since we are all used cars, she will have good past relationship management skills. She won’t have 15 ex-boyfriends still calling and be surprised when a new interest in her life chooses to leave her alone because of it. My basement is clean; none of my ex-flames have any access to my life to disrupt anything.
A woman that understands the value of space. Now I’m not saying that I do not love the company of a woman that I interested in. But there comes a time when I like to do things and so should she. More of this should be directed toward a woman that has hobbies or something that she enjoys so that she is mentally independent.
Finally, I am not looking for a mother or a judge. My life is not perfect nor is anyone else's. I learned a long time ago that looks are not everything but you'd have to be a fool to think there should not be some sort of physical attraction between two people. The woman I seek will not judge me in any aspect of my life.