About me: I enjoy having a good time, I love to be around people and make people laugh. I have a huge heart and very caring, just looking for someone to care for and share a new chapter of my life with. I'm not conceited, but I do think I look good and I have a one of a kind personality that would make anyones heart melt. I am nurturing and compassionate. I am also honest, spontaneous, adventurous, genuine, intellectual and very active (not in that way). I am openly gay, I have no problem with telling people if they ask, but I do respect and carry myself properly around crowds. I have my masculine side yet I do have my feminine side that comes out every once in awhile. I am very respectful when it comes to peoples religious beliefs, morals and values and respect opinions. I think of it as you can either accept me for the person I am, and not my sexual orientation, or you can not accept me and who I am. So many people to welcome into my life and I'm not changing who I am for anyone.
I have learned to let go of the past, forgive and forget and realize that the past is the past, you cant go back and if you dwell on the past, it will haunt you so the best thing to do is just let it go. I also learned that people who like to talk, lie, and start rumors are either jealous or down on themselves about something going on in their life, so I shouldnt be mad at them. I know the truth and that's all that matters and people who want to believe the rumors and not the facts I dont need those type of people in my life whatsoever.
I'm looking for: I used to go by looks and honestly, dating someone just for their looks will never work out. You got to dig deep and open yourself up to people so they can get a better perspective on who you are as well as who they are. Don’t get me wrong I want someone who is attractive, but attractive in my eyes. That’s not just physical features but as well as personality as well.
My ideal match would have to be someone who understands me, wants to get to know me for me, not for what I have, who I am friends with, where I live, or the people I share my social life with. I want to be with someone who wants me for all the things I have to offer to them. I want my match to be open enough to share things with and have a trust bond so tight that even if we share things about our past, we don’t hold that against one another. Someone who can relate to things I have gone through, but they don’t have to be exactly. I would just want them to be able to understand and be nurturing, caring, and protective and show me that it’s not bad to let it all out. I want my ideal match to open their hearts and be able to invite me into their life by not being ashamed of who I am, what I am, or what I do with my life. Someone who is proud, now having pride is okay, but too much pride is a turnoff. I want someone who is caring, nurturing, protective as I said before. Someone who is open minded, understanding, sociable because I can’t handle quiet people or sheltered people. I want someone who isn’t ashamed of who they are or ashamed to be with me. Someone I can trust with my feelings and thoughts and most importantly, someone who will love me for all the things I do for them whether it be big or small. I don’t want to let my guard down so fast, so I’m looking for someone who I have great chemistry with and then take each step one day at a time, until I feel its ready to let my guard all the way down and invite them into my heart.