About me: I am a 39 year old male that has been married for 8 years. I am recently separated and in the process of getting my divorce. I am a single father of four children. I figure this is MY time now as i have lived for everyone else except me for the past 10 years. I am not looking for marriage so if you are then i am sorry but it has proven too painful for me and my heart. A girlfriend is a possibility but not actively looking for one.
I'm looking for: My ideal match would be someone who understands me. Someone that will root me on when i am doing good and be there for me when it all goes wrong. I am looking for someone very sexual and open in their sexuality. I like sex and i like lots of it just not right away. If your squeamish in the least about sex than please do not bother contacting me as i have run into this situation before and it ends badly. I am looking for someone to laugh with and that can laugh at themselves.