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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

I have seven kids & 3 still at home. All have brought joy & sorrow to my life. Being a grandma is awesome but if you call me granny you will probably end up on my shit list. LOL. The good things about me are: trustworthy, honest, loyal, caring, sympathetic, empathetic, loving, giving, forgiving, Not materialistic, hard working, & love the simple life. I believe that honesty, trust & forgiveness are three of the most important things in a relationship.
The bad things about me are: I am too controlling, perfectionist& sarcastic sometimes & I don't handle pressure well. I have PMS days, sometimes the blues. I have solved some & working on others.
I have not had an easy life but I don't use that as an excuse to treat people bad or not succeed in whatever I do in my life. I started college at the age of 41 & I am a Honors List, 4.0 gpa student. I am a one man women & I want a one woman man. I am not bi or lesbian. I don't do threesomes or any number higher then 2, you and me. I believe that what I ask for in a relationship, I know I can provide.
I really like home so that is where I like to spend most of my time. I don't need nights out every night or even weekly but I do need time with my loved ones & private time with that special person in my life, away from the kids and chaos of daily chores & errands. I like to socialize & love to have friends over for barbeques, play cards & just to relax, maybe even camping trips, lake outings with friends & family. I much more enjoy these types of things.
A few last notes. About my appearance. My pics are recent but there is one thing that these pics don't show. Az I sayin befor I haz not hadz eaze life & cuz of it, I lost a tooth, frunt midle that you canet cee in mi pic or in purson unlest I waz talkin. If you juge me az unedukated, rednek, hillbille then yur loose not mine. LOL! but true.
Also, I don't do drugs & I have morale values & character that I stand on firmly.

I'm looking for:

If you want a relationship with 50/50 then forget it. Someone always feels slighted. I believe that each has to put in their best effort. We can't all give 100% everyday but forgiveness and understanding will fill in the rest. I would like to have someone in my life to share all the ups and downs. Someone who can lift my spirits when I am down and share in the happiness of the moment when things are up. I don't expect a knight on a white horse to save me, because there is nothing to save me from. Life is just easier and better when you have someone to share burdens as well as joys with.

I love laughter. It is the best medicine. I can take and give a good joke or prank. I have learned that if you laugh in life, then the longer life you have to laugh. Curtosey of my grandfather who lived to 103. Mr. right for me is someone who not only wants to cultivate a relationship with me but also my kids. Treat them as the individuals as they are. Don't look upon them as something that gets in the way but as people that are important and can enrich our lives. In short, if you don't like kids or feel that you have done your time raising them, then don't contact me.

Looks aren't everything but if you haven't taken a shower in 2 or 3 days, and if there was any other reason then a bear dragging you off in the woods and you had to wait to be rescued, then don't contact me. I do prefer to be with men that aren't fat or obese with the later of the two being a definite NO. If you don't have a pic then you better say something really good in your descriptions.