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About me:

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I'm looking for a really deep, spiritual & meaningful relationship in ENGLISH or SWEDISH with my true soulmate! I wish to SHARE A SPIRITUAL OUTLOOK ON LIFE THAT IS NOT STRICTLY TIED TO ANY ONE RELIGION! PLEASE NO ATHEISM OR CHRISTIANITY ETC. Please respect this and don't waste my time; like children play best ;-).

I am cheerful, yet realistic and often dissident, but don't argue for the sake of arguing. I believe that the denied aspects of the self have to be revealed so that healing can take place. I seek balance in all things; the golden middlepath. My life has not been without tough challenges but every situation brings an opportunity to learn something new; I tend to look for change. I like to look into/challenge people's ideas of reality.

Though I try to be self-sufficient, I seek to connect with others and also think people should share more on all levels. Communication and interaction are absolutely vital to me. So is honesty, openness and authenticity. I wish for secrecy to be abolished between people and I wish for a partner with whom I can share anything without inhibition. I feel that I have a sense of humour, albeit not always understood as it's dry and sometimes even sardonic. I remain open to new things, I don't fall on my knees in the face of spiritual fads. ASIAN & INTEGRAL THOUGHT have provided me with a good ground to stand on, but I'm independent. My basic beliefs aren't changing much but something about them is changing all the time... I'm a semi-vegetarian, hope you're similar.

I'm highly sensitive but it doesn't make me into a wimp. I'm quite courageous and will stand up for justice. I have a backproblem but I am quite mobile and this would not pose any serious problems to those who are openminded. If you don't mind taking me out for OUTINGS AND CAMPING as well as exploring CULTURE & strange places, maybe you're my match!?

I'm looking for:

PLEASE BE SINCERE AND ELABORATE!! Make me feel interested, yes? I hope you'll be someone who doesn't lie to himself and really understands what I mean by that! You'd appreciate my honesty too.

You look for the BEAUTY OF THE SOUL and are NOT OBSESSED WITH LOOKS! I DO have my flaws. You're a GENTLEMAN - equality doesn't eliminate our uniqueness. You'd appreciate MY ART - and artists do need support from home! People who are highly self-possessed/insecure make me feel nervous. You'd see the beauty in sensitivity and not ridicule it. Cynical/bitter men are not welcome! You would be SPIRITUALLY ATTUNED BUT NOT RELIGIOUS, with mature NON-CONFORMIST views, eloquent and intelligent with respect for the language, with ORIGINAL IDEAS and a CRITICAL PERSPECTIVE on things that others take for granted. You question with arguments of your OWN, but not to the point of stubborn sceptisism. You're authentic and not a Tolle copycat with endless quotes. You don't preach: I wasn't born yesterday! You've become wise enough to be reasonably humble and have a genuine interest in other people :-).

No extremes, please - mostly a desire to be in the flow, LEARN, and feel the good things about this existance - with your feet on the ground. It would be best that you also had a good education and creative ambitions.

You'd love to cuddle and be sensuous. Holding hands is cute and a bonding gesture! You'd also be an adventurous explorer, just like me - we would bring out the bubbly and playful side in each other. Chuckling on one's own is boring! :-D

You'd like cats; it tells a lot about who you are! You preferably live in Europe as I am open to relocation. EUROPE IS SMALL, I am NOT far away from you and could probably come in a heartbeat unless you came here first! BUT - I'm open to other options! NOTE: Critical complainers and know-alls who question my intentions turn me off! RESPECT turns me on :-)