needslove2008 In need of someone to take care of me and love me

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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:: After high school, I went to vocational school for 1 year for business and computer technology. I can put together a website, be a secretary, and have had education in business management. I can type 55 + words a minute, (65+ when I graduated). I got married at 19 to a man who was 41 years of age. We married in December of 2004, and by March, I had just about all I could take of him and I left. We had been living in an apartment no bigger than a garage, with 2 cats. I dislike cats, not to the point I hate them, but will put up with them for the sake of the people that do love them. I then got stayed with my mother until I could get back on my feet financially, and was seeing an old exboyfriend, and ended up pregnant. I didn't know I was pregnant until after I had moved to Pennsylvania. My boyfriend broke up with me after he found out, so I once again moved on. I moved in with a guy who had befriended me when I was alone and pregnant, him not knowing I was pregnant. We lived with his mother and his sister in a trailer park in State College, PA, and he got it into his head that my child was his biologically.Wanting my child to have a father, I put him on the birth certificate (stupid, I know). I had a daughter on January 13, 2006, and had to go back to work to make ends meet. I was working, and his sister was disabled, so she took care of my daughter. She allowed my daughter to call her Mommy (after she could talk of course) and that made me cry, still makes me cry many nights.
I came here to Maine to see some family members for a few weeks, and while I was gone, he filed for custody of my daughter. I am unable to see my daughter because of the lack of money to get down there. I am able to work, but due to the lack of office positions here in rural Maine, there isn't much to choose from. I enjoy riding horses, being a passenger on a motorcycle, taking long walks, and just staying at home relaxing on the couch.
I'm looking for:: What I need help with most is a legal divorce from my husband, and the bank charges he ran up by writing bad checks. I closed my bank accound, but apparently her had written bad checks before I had, so the bank account wasn't officially closed. Its not that much money, less than 1000 dollars, but I don't like to just ask people to help me. It takes a lot. I have done without so much in my life, the material things, that if I did have the chance to shop for them, etc, I don't think I would know where to start. A roof over my head, food in my stomach, and the other hygienic things are all I really need. That and I would like to eventually have my daughter, but that would be in the far future. I am pretty low maintenance, laid back, hardly wear makeup, and feel most comfortable in sweats or a pair of jeans and a tee shirt. I can wear dresses, and skirts, and know how to act in public. I must admit though, I am more of a tomboy, prefering to be outside in the fall during hunting season, than inside stuffing things up a turkey's hind end. All though I do know how to cook (somewhat, anyway, haven't killed anyone yet, and I have managed to survive).

I would really like someone who is looking for a live-in companion, for romantic purposes. I realize that this is sometimes not possible because of work or other situations that take the person across the country sometimes. I am willing to travel as far as across the country from Maine, I am just not financially able to travel myself. I am able to work, and have education as an administrative assistant, as well as some education in Business Management. I like to dress down most of the time, but look stunning when I dress up.