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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

Well, Gentlemen, I have been spinning my wheels on these dating sites for way too long, and going nowhere so fast I know I have broken every land speed record known to mankind. So, let's make this easier. It is said if you do the same thing over and over, getting the same unwanted results, try something different. I am doing just that. This is not a profile filled with flowers and sunset/sunrise prose, it is a heartfelt attempt to find a man worth my time and effort, who shares my values and is looking to establish an ultimate long term relationship, resulting in a forever kind of love, not just an attraction for the minute. I am a lady who enjoys all the things you would expect a lady to enjoy: kindness, courtesy, dinners, theaters, dancing, moonlight walks, romantic getaways, bubble baths, starry nights, travel, sports, etc and if you have read as many profiles as I have, you know the general list of likes. Since that didn't work so well for me to this point, I am going to concentrate on what I do not want.

IF you are a man who is afraid of commitment, has no clue as to what he is looking for in a relationship, is not between my age parameters, within a year either way, is not living within a distance that would allow for the possibility of a serious relationship to develop, is not comfortable with my having a large family whom I enjoy very much - does not mean you have to - but are not intimidated by that fact and is not capable of absorbing the idea that my guy would soon replace them as the priority in my life, is thinking I am asking far too much for your taste, is not comfortable knowing I live with my daughter and family, which suits us, both as an economical benefit and as a happy harmonious environment, and does not believe me when I say I come and go as I please, with no obligations, other than those I impose upon myself, please just hit Next and be on your way...now! Read no further because we would not be a match ever!

I'm looking for:

I know I have as many faults as others, but I also know I have so much to give and would do so willingly if that one man who is not intimidated by this profile steps forward. He will understand immediately what I mean, without explanation.This profile was written to eliminate any man who is just cruising, looking for someone to take up his time as a replacement for his boredom! I do not want to have any more winks or interest notifications saying how hot I am, how attractive I am, how young I look for my age, etc. I know these things already, and although it would be easy to assume this comment indicates a case of serious conceit, nothing could be further from the truth. It comes from a solidly based upbringing where I was told I was a special person and I believed it because the people who loved me told me that time and again. They instilled confidence in me as a woman with ideas, desires, thoughts, opinions, passion, a strong sexual appetite, an astute sense of right and wrong and little tolerance of men who think I am too choosy and should settle. I have no intention of doing that. I am impatient, opinionated, sexy, sensual, loving, caring, soft and warm, not model material, nor have I ever been or thought I was, love my family, have very few friends and like it that way. I sound cold and a real witch as I re-read this, but it is as truthful and as real as I can make it to attract the very few who just might find in me what they want in a mate.