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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

1st and foremost, I am a charismatic Christian. I have a deep and intimate relationship with Jesus Christ.
I have a Son in college and one that is a senior in high school. Family comes 1st, second only to my relationship with the Lord. They are what I'm into and spend most of my time and concentration in.
I've been very involved in the youth, music (singing and trumpet) ministries, as well as leadership roles in the singles ministries at a large Charismatic church that I'm a member of in Raleigh, NC.
I love Praise & Worship music, primarily. But, I love a wide range of Christian music and some classic rock-n-roll.
I love a very wide variety on movies, foods; love to go out or stay home & relax with family. So; I'm easy to please.
I'm a good listener and a bit of a comedian. I love to make people laugh.
I teach, mostly Christian Psychology and Counseling, at a Christian college. I also have my own home repair business.

I am healthy, good looking, (though I feel discomfort saying so...It's an honest opinion and also based on what others have said, too). I am "happily single." By that I mean that I've left the past behind me. Old issues have been dealt with and forgiven. I don't feel the need to bring it up or parade my wounds. I'm not on a "wife hunt." But, if God puts 2 people together for that reason, then, we have to allow that to happen. It can't be forced or hurried. Otherwise..,"friends" & dating is fine as well as fun with me.

I'm looking for:

A praying Christian woman. One who is in love with Jesus.
and has a regular quiet time with Him. Someone who is giving and affectionate. I say this because, that describes me and I am worn out by relationships where I end up doing all of the giving. I'm looking for someone who can give to the relationship as much as I will.
Here's a catch, though! You may be reading this thinking,
"This guy can meet my needs!" If your thoughts went there, then, you've already fallen into the category of "it's all about me" and it will not work between us. You may not be the "giver" you think you are. Pray about, check your motives before contacting me.
The person for me will be as I am in one other way: The past is just that...past. You'll not feel the passion to keep bringing it up. You've set aside the old baggage. You are healed without a doubt.
I'm more concerned about a woman's theology than her appearance. However, Appearance is very important to me.
I want someone that is attractive, slim to slightly overweight.
If you enjoy sports, esp. basketball...that's a plus.