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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

Truly an eclectic intellectual oddity, I do my best to stay beyond the grasp of the American mainstream. In part, my nature is that of a practical Realist; optimism is often self-deceit and pessimism can shackle creativity. Passion can deny unalienable right; and the glass is half-full because it is being filled, half-empty because it is being drained. Form follows function, yet, function engenders a form. I define my place in time and space through the observance of a number of useful aspects of life - a few of those are: "I think, therefore I exist" (and, I exist, therefore I can think), human responsibility (Existentialism and Human Emotions), the tenets of Buddhism, a pursuit of Immutable Truth, and of course a periodic polling of how I exist within any social group; hence, my social and political behavior arises from conscience. Notwithstanding, I align best as an Agnostic for group energy often evolves a beguiling fanaticism. My personality is strongly an INTJ/P. Master of Aikido as well as a wooden flutist. My twelve year old daughter lives with me.

Compatibility that evolves an experience of pleasant togetherness is the ideal. An attribute of an evolved person is the accumulation of knowledge that can be used for the betterment of human relations. The human memory is useful in that it offers information with which new decisions can be made; therefore, it is not wise to ignore information from previous relationships. When friendship is the goal really know yourself such that honesty is at the forefront, yet, propriety suggests that not all will be revealed. When traveling upon a similar path in life know well the nature of your partner. From yourself, give sincerity guided by honesty and flexibility. A Reality Perception and Value System strongly held in common build the foundation that evolves a lasting relationship. You and I will have mutual as well separate interests for we value our togetherness nearly as much as our individuality.

I'm looking for:

You should be somewhat athletic with an in-place exercise program (running, bicycling, swimming, hiking, gymnastics, martial art), age 40-65, a non-smoker. Your inner energy and vitality should come from you, not from your social circle. You should enjoy reading and out-of-this-world science activities. You prefer not to live beyond your economic means; you prefer home to travel, discussion of philosophy to dancing, paranormal adventures to partying, adventurous expeditions to visiting! If you've "bought in" to the new urban dog owner phenomenon sponsored by the pet industry, or focus on your pet as if it is human being, then I am not for you - the Wild Kingdom I like. You'd like Techno, Trance and Ambient music as well as Celtic folk and Jazz; though not excluding other genre for any unthoughtful reason. I prefer true equality in a relationship - therefore, I expect that you will "open the door" for me, too. You'd understand from whence passion "wells-up" and know how to direct it constructively. If your profile includes a feeling that you seek friendship, loyalty and truth to form a life-long relationship then such would be a beginning indication of compatibility.

You'll need to initiate first contact. I'll reply promptly.

"Such is the irresistible nature of truth,
that all it asks, and all it wants,
is the liberty of appearing."

Eros, Philos, Agape

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