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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

Non-conventional intelligent woman, seeks shared experiences, long term friends, and fun. I have the ability to think outside of standard role models in relationship, honesty, respect, affection, and a unique history and strong individualism. My career and life's experience has never been overshadowed by a partner, so I expect egalitarian relating. Dominance, suggestions assuming I need assistance without knowing my abilities, history or asking if I want your opinion, and/or posturing to offset shame due to vapid sexual intentions are not going to be well received. I am interested in feeling something with another, trust, shared experience, caring, emotional support, as well as life-long relationship.

I like to bike, swim, skate, and hike, hunting wild flowers with my camera. I paint and create graphic art, websites and spend a great deal of time on my computer(s). I own more computers than cooking pans. I like to sing loudly along with the car radio and change the stations madly, rather than motor along in shared silence.

I love animals; I have 2 very modest small African Sand boas, an aquarium, and a cat. I enjoy the zoo, museums, techno-art, unique urban events and attending good live music (of all genre) around town. I love barbque, sushi, seafood, and authentic ethnic food, but unless it's really excellent, and I can't cook it, I would rather stay home. I am extremely non-political in that I don't choose sides, common with women, yet have good amusement watching where each agenda will obviously flowchart. I was raised in Ayn Randian Objectivism, and an Arizona native, I attended Judson school. I am also a military Veteran.

I'm looking for:

I would like to meet healthy men, without any daily 7 deadly sins, involved with career, family, interests, hobbies, happiness or pursuit of future culture (including politics). Extra points for tools, creativity, DIY, ongoing hobbies, music, literature, enthusiastic interest in anything unique or productive.

Since, I can't help how I feel, and I can't choose what I will feel, it's a fun process of discovery to see where relationship leads. Having left myself long before someone left me, I am disinterested in velcro type instant pair bonding, or ready made stereotypical roles with charade games ("what am I expecting from you now") and "should" analogies, in favor of honest simple symbiosis.