sakuragirl b the change you want to c in the world

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About me:: i try to treat others like i want to be treated myself and even if it sounds lame, it works and its the best recipe for nice encounters. i prefer people that are honest with themselves and others, authentic and humorous. that does not include low-level-fun and sex-seeker-activities with a high bloodalcohol level *i'm done with that since my mid-twenties* i carry my heart out in words, and 99.9% of the times i really mean what i say, so be aware and don't take things to personal, i am honest and truthful, hope that counts for something. i prefer a hurting truth 10 times over a smooth and securing lie. i also prefer a sheep in wolves clothing, but experience has tought me that we are so much more than looks and body-mass-index, therefore i am just curious at the beginning what life has in store for me and see what happens.
I'm looking for:: a man who can enspire others as well as being inspired through others. a free soul and open mind who does not think in normal and/or classic relationship categories. great if he would share his thoughts and feelings in an open manner (dont expect 1 hourly speaches) but at least a few truthful words when something is up. there is one thing that cannot be missed, a deeply caring feeling on both sides that carries the relationship and takes it to a higher level. *wow, did i just say that* what i mean is, that i am searching for a soulmate and not a husband as first priority.