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About me:

I love life’s simple pleasures, the sounds of the coyote on the horizon, the croak of the bullfrog, the patter of rain drops and the crackle of a fire. I love the smell of wood smoke, perfume and clean sheets. I love the taste of grilled food and chocolate covered strawberries. I crave harvest moons, snow covered mountains and wind blown golden wheat fields. I love the feel of silk, hot showers, kitten’s kneading and another human’s touch. I think the human touch is the most precious gift of love and communication in the universe. I love a quiet evening’s intimacy and good conversation. I love thought provoking topics and easy going ones as well. I enjoy dancing and music and I spend one evening a week at the concert in the park, blues, jazz and fusion are my favorites, but any well played rock new or old excites me, eating at home or out with my special friend. I want to hear about her day and its challenges and want her to be interested in mine as well. I'm not hung up on physical appearance, but it is important for people to take care of themselves. I am caring and forgiving, and willing to be a friend and help as I can. I am outgoing and sensitive. I love independent women. I love cats and they are the most independent creatures on earth, they can also be the most loving. I am trying to expand my horizons, my understanding and my appreciation for even the smallest of life’s mysteries. I am daily unloading my life's baggage. Lastly, I know this sounds like allot, but the good looks and hot bodies all fade with time and the only thing left are the core values. If core values are in short supply in the beginning, what's left at the end??? What is there to build on??? If you’re looking for a life's partner or just a new friend don’t hesitate to reply.

I'm looking for:

My ideal match would be confident, considerate, fun and well adjusted. She would be a good listener and talker. Her life would not center on the bar scene, but like dancing and going out. She would be outgoing, friendly and kind. She would value honesty, devotion and trust and return the same. She would possess a soul of serenity, strength and wisdom.

My ideal match would have just a little of the devil in her, and not be afraid of change, growth and challenge. She would be flexible, understanding and faithful, above all else be my friend. She would be a subtle blend of both the pragmatic and the optimistic, like ginger and cinnamon, combining to make the desert irresistible.

Since no single person especially me can hope to live up to this list of adjectives, a sincere effort to improve, accept, love and dedicate oneself to another person while still retaining your ones own character, strength and personality is all that can be asked. Growth mentally and spiritually is a daily task. We measure our success by knowing that we are just a tiny bit better today than we were yesterday, and we will be even better tomorrow. Our greatest challenge is the one that lies undiscovered yet. If you agree that deep meaning cannot be found by diving into the shallow end of the pool, you are already there.