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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

***Hi, I would like to introduce myself. I am Iain aka SoleMan68.

I am a man who believes in himself and his abilities. I also believe myself to be an articulate, intelligent, well read and creative individual. I possess an open, inquisitive and imaginative mind. I also tend to be libertarian and liberal, in both my thinking and in practice, I can be quirky when the mood takes me. I am flexible and enthusiastic in my approach to the way I live my life most of the time. I believe myself to be conscientious, thoughtful, considerate and understanding. I am easy going, gentle, affectionate, soft and cuddly (Tactile). I tend to be rather reserved and distant in public when not in the company of friends.

I am both loyal and trustworthy, when I am in an intimate relationship I am completely monogamous, having said that I still look at and flirt with other women, however that is as far as it goes. I am not the jealous type, I do not expect my gf/lover to drop all her friends in favour of me nor would I expect the same from her. I would expect “us” to have a life outside of our relationship.

I love to dance, and have good conversation with others. I also enjoy country walks, hiking, swimming and playing bar room pool or billiards. I like to travel and to immerse myself in other cultures.

I also have an interest in the following:-

Body Modification: piercings, I do not have any myself; however I do appreciate women who have them. Tattoo’s: I do have one myself, and I do love tattoos on women. Other: Ask me.

I'm looking for:

***I would much prefer to meet women at a bar or a cafe, for real one on one encounters, however as I live in a rural area that is not always possible, so here I am on-line on CS looking for a woman to share life with. I love women, I love being in their company, be it as friends or lovers. Having been in-love before I now find I miss very much the intimacy that can develop.

Going for a walk, holding hands, perhaps going shopping together even if it’s just to window shop.

Sharing an intimate dinner together in a restaurant or perhaps a drink at a bar or café.

Staying in together cuddling on the couch, either listening to music, reading, and watching a movie or some TV.

Sharing intimate moments together, talking together after/during love making, bathing together……most of all I miss sharing my bed with the woman I love, sharing a lingering kiss……the feel of soft skin against my own……

"My ideal match" if such exists could be the following:-

Someone who is intelligent, articulate, imaginative, adventurous and open to new ideas and experiences and exploring new horizons.
Someone who can be soft, gentle, affectionate, caring, good natured. Perhaps somewhat bubbly, outgoing, playful, fun and exciting to be with. Could be vivacious, feisty, sexy, wild and wanton. Someone who appreciates nature and country living and all that includes such as dogs, cats, long walks, nights in by a roaring fire and the inevitable chores that come with it.


Above all I am looking for someone to love, someone who will return that love, someone real. Someone who is straight talking and sincere. Love does not happen overnight, usually. Love takes time to build, attraction may come first then friendship and mutual understanding. I believe relationships are about trust first and foremost, without trust you have nothing but a house of cards. Relationships of an intimate kind are about the two people involved in that relationship. Ying and Yang.