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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

Ask my friends if I: am humble; hate being the center of attention; promote acts speaking louder than words; believe all are born good; focus on the positives and cross-cultural strengths, and know my inner child's curiosity! I'm simple & complex: I value family and friends before self; yet know true happiness resides within. I'm a happy dad with grown daughters I'm proud of. I bake, camp and love the outdoors. My complexity sees me playfully exploring 256 shades of gray and 1000's of possible colours and realities. I'm open-minded; I know it's not about sex, fixing or completing another: I learned it's about complementing and complimenting without prompts and no mind-reading or perfectionism (I'm not Him)...but children are close. I focus on my own inventory; aspire to non-judgmentalism; embrace the unknown, Harry Potter, eclectic music and I'm an open book to the right soul.

I'm looking for:

I want a woman who detests games, loves God, and who is not looking to be fixed or completed. She has her own ways of thinking and being, yet she too likes being challenged by new insights. She knows her likes and dislikes; she knows true love takes time, power-sharing, equality and equal risk-taking. She sets her sights on 2 whole people healthily forming a pair: not co-dependents looking to form one whole person. She'll also give 100% to her 1/2 of a partnership. She knows having differing likes, etc does not mean the other partner doesn't love her. She can say what she wants and needs and does not expect me to read her mind or between the lines. She also does not dominate, expect submissiveness or want a servant; does not want to be a parent or a boss, or need someone to clean up after her/or need to change her mate. She'll challenge me and my ways of thinking; she'll say exactly what she means and won't be afraid to guide me: to show me what she needs to see to show her that I'll always have her back and respect her and her needs and wants. She won't say yes if no is what she means to say. She'll tell me to take a flying leap if appropriate, and she'll not use words like love without meaning and feeling it.