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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

Ah, I've loved from the soul. Its ending was like a part of me had died. Yet life went on. In time I found myself aching to love that way again. Yet of those I felt any fire toward?--all were as the first: loving me back was just not in them. Yup! Had to ask those hard questions: What is this about for me? Why am I only wanting women who don't want me?


Insanity is doing the same thing over and over, and expecting a different result. So here is what I am doing: I'm telling you who I am, and who I want you to be. As men go, YES, I'm very different. As women go . . . well, you always get to be who you are with me---and that needs be someone who matches and--most of all--wants me. So I'm leaving that part up to you, because clearly, my ficker is pucked up! I WON'T approach you. If I look like someone you might could want, then YOU approach ME! Gotta admit, I’m kind of a red-neck––-but one with a zest for life, And to, been called "intense” . . . Live my life intensely, and with the right person, would love intensely---though not jealously or possessively . . . Uh-huh! Guilty as charged. I am who I am——don't hide any of it. You want real honesty in your man, and integrity? You want what he thinks and feels, what he says, and what he does, all to be the same thing——no lies, no deception, keeps his word? Someone who'll share life from his very soul . . . Yup, that's my sign---“INTENSE.” I'm a writer, a silversmith, gentle, fun-loving, love animals--especially dogs, kind, humorous, earthy, easy-going, clean, free-spirit . . . Not too gruesome to look at. NOT a druggy or drunk. NOT a sports freak, religious freak, abuse freak, control freak or drama freak—NOT any kinda freak---unless you're talking freaky fun.

I'm looking for:

New Thought/Spirituality/Personal Growth . . . Such are very important to me now, equally so as with riding motorcycles--I want a life and a riding partner. One who can understand me. If you're one of those "normal" ladies, likely I am your worst nightmare--a man who won't be controlled or held hostage to your feelings. Then again, I don't have a need to control you. Truth is, I may not like everything about you, but I will accept you exactly as you are, and cherish you as that total person without need of change---or leave. Yup. I might only be with you for a week or a month . . . Fact is, forever is what I seek. I accept, and give no promises. If I am with you, you will ALWAYS know that it is because that is where I most want to be. I would hope it will be the same for you. Love needs to bear its own weight. True, that's not "normal" but nothing---no promise, no marriage license---NOTHING, means anything if your love for one another doesn't hold it all together. The game of control is so "normal" to relationships, fact, it IS the "normal" relationship. The drama is the only excitement many can seem to find in life. Problem is, it just leads to people pretending to be who the other demands. Take all that away and you are left with honesty--the naked truth. I want a woman with the courage to be just as honest and naked as me. "Intense," "not normal," . . . Yup! That's me. And I'm looking for a woman just like me. Tell me, what's your sign?