About me: My name is Suzanne and I have a zest for life that is my constant companion. I love to laugh. I dislike arguments and nagging. Life is entirely too short to spend it unhappy, so, if you want, love,joy,laughter and faithfulness, then you have found your lady. I have never met a man in person from the internet.I write memoirs for foreign dignitaries & their heirs, children, family & friends.A memoir that tells the story of their life for publication but not distribution,only to go to family & friends as a memory of them & their life.It sounds glamorous but it is not, lots of lonely time doing research and away from the America I love so much. I divorced my husband in 1992 after 23 years of marriage.He was the drilling manager for a major oil company & we lived all over the world. I have been on all 7 continents.I use to ride in Equestrian Trials in the Hunter & Jumper Division. After a riding accident in 2003, and a 14" x 4" piece of wood entering my abdominal area, from my belly button to my sternum,life became more important, as did my personal happiness. Needless to say this was an awakening experience going from death to survival. I saw a new vision of what my priorities were & what true happiness meant to me.Men say I am a" vision", an "angel", " a dream come true", but I am none of these things. I am just an average lady with an average lifestyle & have my share of wrinkles, scars, & flabby skin, but I am still alive & for that I thank God.I am, after all, 60 and not a 20 year old.I never graduated from high school so after my divorce I got my GED & went on to graduate at 53 years of age with a Doctorate in Psychology..I have no family or children, & that makes it so much easier to pull up my roots & move to be with a man I love & want to be with.I do so miss the romance & commitment a man & woman share. The early morning love making & the long, wet kisses, yummy.I want to find my sweetheart, however, if he eludes me, I will not settle, I will remain alone.
I'm looking for: My profile is in detail but I want you to know all the " pros" and " cons" about me. Finding a man that " is a comfortable fit" is not an easy task. Seems like many men are just burned out, tired of raising their young kids from a young wife, child support or much debt, still love the ex, angry at the world & it just seems to me they are tired of life & expect me to release them from this misery. I cannot make anyone else happy. Happiness comes from within & I want a man that is already happy with his life, when joined together with me & my happy life we will be ready to face anything...bring on the joy, the tears, the good times & the bad, but no matter what transpires we are a team & we will get through it together. I want sex without inhibitions, freedom with boundaries, intimacy without intimidation, love without conflict and devotion without demands. My man will be stable, respected,a leader, intelligent, well read, good manners & a love of life that is evident when you see him. I believe in love at first sight, perhaps not the deep & devoted love that comes over time, but I sure will know if he is the man for me the second I see him. I do not visit with men that are MARRIED or SEPARATED, lesbians, men of African descent or young men in their 20's or 30's, or early 40's. 10 years over or 10 years under my age is as brave as I get...Please do not write me to say, " if you were not so far away I would sweep you off your feet". Gentlemen please, why write to say goodbye?I will never allow miles to determine who I love & I can live anywhere in the world & it only takes one trip to know if you share common interests.I do not expect a perfict, purrfect,prefet,uhh,perfect man( yeah )but rather one that is perfect for me. If you decide I am not the lady you want to love or spend time with, or get to know better, then I would like to wish you the best of luck finding the lady that does turn your head & make your heart happy...
Graciously Yours,
Suzanne