swfinma30 Here I go again

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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:: I have one teenage son who is my best friend.
work as a Home nursing assistant and I love my job and am a real and honest woman who knows what she wants out of life.
Stuff I like:
I am very into music of various kinds ,movies of various kinds ,especially if it makes me think.
Books are good too ,my favorite reads include:The Vampire Chronicles by Anne Rice ,Brave New World by Aldoux Huxley,1984 by George Orwell ,several titles by Ray Bradury ,The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams(the original book series ,not the condensed movie version) and lots more.
Cooking, camping, fishing, pool, bowling, live music and other outdoor events.
I am also somewhat creative/artistic all though I haven't been very inspired lately.
I enjoy a good debate/arguement as long as it doesnt turn into an angry one.

Now for the bad stuff...
I have found someone on here before ,and it didn't work out because of distance (at least I hope that's all it was) ,so if you live far away be prepared to travel because I most likely won't be able to because of my work schedule(not the same all the time/on call).
I also can't relocate for at least the next 3 yrs. so also be prepared for a long-term ,long-distance relationship if we hit it off.
I don't mean to piss on the candle before it has been lit ,but I just want to avoid having to deal with the same problem twice.
I'm looking for:: Drug free,disease free,and wants to settle down and make a life with one woman.
Not a heavy drinker.
Honest,doesn't play games,affectionate,and can communicate well.
Has a sense of humour and is at least smart enough so I don't have to explain jokes to him.
Someone I can have a conversation with about anything and everything.
If your answer to everything in a relationship is "ok" or "what ever you think is right.",or "It's up to you." then you probably shouldn't contact me ,because I need someone with a backbone ,not a doormat as I am no doormat either.
Everyone has opinions and even if I don't agree with you I want you to express yours.

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swfinma30

Here I go again

I am a:: 32 yr-old woman
Seeking:: seeking men, 25-35
Location:: Taunton, Massachusetts USA
Last Online:: Online over 1 month
Height:: 5' 6" (168 cm)
Body Type:: Big and Beautiful
Hair Color:: Dark Brown
Eye Color:: Brown
Ethnicity:: White/Caucasian
Education:: Some College
Religion:: Agnostic
Occupation:: Medical/Dental
Nursing assistant
Income:: Less than $25,000
Smokes:: Trying To Quit
Drinks:: Occasionally
Marital Status:: Never Married
Has Kids:: Yes, and they don't live with me
Wants Kids:: Someday
Looking for:: Long-term
Sign:: Gemini

My Match Info

Seeking:: seeking men, 25-35
Located:: Any Distance
Height:: 3' 0" (91 cm) to 6' 11" (211 cm)
Body Type:: Slim/Slender, Fit/Athletic, Muscular, Average, Few extra pounds, Skinny, Modelesque, Firm & Toned, Ripped, Proportional, Stocky
Hair:: Auburn, Black, Blonde, Dark Blonde, Light Brown, Dark Brown, Medium Brown, Red, Strawberry Blonde, Radically Dyed, Bald/Shaved
Eyes:: Any
Ethnicity:: Any
Education:: Any
Religion:: Any
Occupation:: Any
Income:: Any
Smokes:: Any
Drinks:: Never, Socially, Gave it up, Rarely, Occasionally
Marital Status:: Never Married, Divorced, Widowed, Separated
Has kids:: Any
Wants kids:: Definitely, Not Sure, Someday, No, but welcome yours, No, been there, done that