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About me: First of all I am a Christian. Secondly, I am a Stone Butch. I would say I am extremely honest, but how many people would ever actually say they are dishonest? I believe the proof is in the pudding. I try very hard to say what I mean and to mean what I say and I'm looking for someone who willing to be that honest, yet always respectful of the other person. I am self-employed, well educated, and financially stable.

I've spent much time over the past few years getting to know myself very well. I am happy and at peace, but I can certainly feel the void of not having someone with whom to truly share life. All relationships require work on the part of each individual. It requires an attention to the details. Details can matter very much in the long-run. I actually enjoy working on a relationship, as long as I am not the only one doing the work. The word "relationship" implies that the parties are "related." Therefore, I never see a blood-relationship as being greater or any more important than a chosen relationship. I'm ready to enjoy sharing life with one special lady, come what may. I've never cheated and will not tolerate those who do. Life should be lived with integrity and honor. I will have no part in silly games played in many relationships, such as passive-aggressive manipulation, immature tirades, emotional chess games, ignoring the other party, etc. These games are for children who are still learning and haven't yet matured in life. Proper adult communication is the key. I am an old-school StoneButch and all that implies. I also love laughter. I find humor in most everything.

I'm looking for: The lady of my dreams is happy and comfortable with herself. She is organized, but not overbearing. She believes in having and maintaining a beautiful home. She should have the ability to create a comfortable and comforting atmosphere within the home, not only physically, but emotionally. So many people today only want to get out of the home, finding places to go and people to see constantly. This is not the type of lady I am seeking. If she keeps a filthy, messy house and cannot cook or even wash a dirty dish, then she is not the lady I am seeking. I am willing to do my part, too. The lady I seek conducts herself as a lady no matter what the situation and she takes good care of herself and those she loves.

Of course, I have no desire to be unequally yoked, so she must be a Christian and live a life that is dedicated to God first. If we can't pray together and make decisions together, based on prayer, then we could never relate beyond a superficial manner. Because of personal preference, she must also be caucasian. I'm not a large guy, so I'd like her to be on the shorter side, if possible, and not too terribly far away from proportionate. I am not interested in partiers, smokers, poly-folks, or women with potty-mouths. As I said, I am looking for a lady.