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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

Well hello there! I am back after a long dating hiatus. (3 dates in the last year) You know, sometimes you just get sick of the dating cycle. You meet people and at first things seem so meant to be and then over a period of time you see things for what they really are. And life goes on....

I have utilzed this site on and off the past four years. In past profiles, I have written some of the most eloquent and honest things a woman could ever hope to read. This time, i am just going to keep it simple, direct and to the point.

I am looking for a woman who I can be friends with, date and have the possibility of a long term committment. Marriage? Not opposed to it yet not dead set on having to be. I am looking for a woman who I am physically attracted to, mentally stimulated by and when we are together share that mystical feeling of WOW!

As for me, well, I am a very simple man. I am stable - mentally, emotionally and in my daily life....job, financially, ect.... looking for the same in a woman. I am 37 years old, wide bodied, a gentleman and down to earth. I love to have fun and experience new things but I am not out to conquer the world. A simple man at best.
I would love to find a woman that has her life in order and is looking for that one special man who will treat her as the queen she is. I belive in monogamy and do not believe in multiple relationships. An old fashioned gentleman and honest at heart. Would love to find a woman with a similar drive. Not overly high maintenance. Enjoys the simple things in life. If you are seeking a man for friendship and a possible long term relationship i just may be him?

If you would like to get to know me better feel free to drop me a line and we can chat to see if we are on similar pages in our lives.

Thanks for stopping by and I hope each and every one of you find the one that will fill your heart with eternal love.

PS - I do have one daughter who will turn 18 in March and she truly is the light of my life.

I'm looking for:

I am looking for a woman who has a huge heart. A compassionate woman who can open herself up when something is bringing her down as well as be there to listen when I need to vent. Someone who is not high maintenance nor thinks that she is better than everyone else. I want a woman who is so comfortable with her own beauty she need not waste a minute comparing herself to others. I will not settle for less than a woman who is completely comfortable with her own sexuality and she must put a premium on monogamy. A good drive is also desired. I am not seeking a model or solely arm candy. I am looking for the one I cannot take my eyes off of. I do not care what others think, never have. If she is beautiful to me, well, I am a happy man. Do I have a preferred "type"? Umm, no. I will say this: I am attracted to women who are thin, athletic or of average build only. Short or tall makes no difference to me just as hair color is also a moot point. To me, women are each like a work of art and if you have ever been to a showing or museum, well then you know that you either get the artists meaning or you don't. I am also attracted to women say 10 years older/younger than me. Now maybe I am oversimplifying this - but i believe finding the right person comes down to 3 things:

1) physical attraction - there has to be a basic physical attraction. Would you date someone that you did not find attractive? 2) mental stimulation - can you hold a conversation together just sitting on the couch with no tv or music playing and fully enjoy the time you are spending?

3) the magic spark - when you are with this person are you happier? Do you feel an unexplainable spark or chemistry? If you have ever felt it then you know what I am talking about - if you haven't, I pray that at least once in your life you find it.

To me, without any one of those 3, what do you have? Nadda