About me: This part is always so hard! How do you describe oneself without sounding full of yourself or like an idiot? A difficult task at best! So, here goes...I like to try new things and don't let the way I look fool you! People have a tendency to stereotype me based on my looks and this can get frustrating! I am very active, love to be outdoors, enjoy doing new things and meeting new people. I am not shy or retiring at all, I am a very outgoing person and am not afraid of life or living it! I am strong willed, but very giving and caring and would do anything for most.
I'm looking for: Ok, here goes. As for what I am looking for in a mate, I find that the thing that turns me on the most is intelligence. The smarter you are the more interested I am. So if you are smart and articulate, well read, but not snooty about it, you will have a hard time keeping me from jumping your..., well you get the point!
Also, spontaneity is key for me. I don't want to have to plan things and I don't want to sit around the house doing nothing but watching tv. BORING! Planning has it's place, but if the mood strikes I want my mate to be able to just pick up and go with me. Also my family is very important to me and my mate must be able to interact with them, and want to at least meet them. As would I with their family. Ok, I believe that is enough for now! Allright, seems I need to add an addendum to this. Loath though I am to say this, because I am serious about meeting someone, I will. I am not in any way shape or form interested in someone older. My age or a few years younger, and certainly not someone young enough to be my son! I know that by years I am 43. I don't look that old (according to numerous people) and I definitely don't act 43. I am very young at heart, in fact, I have been heard to say that I am going thru my second teenage years. I want someone who is young at heart and in spirit, if not in body. I hate listening to old 80's music, or watching reruns of stuff that was on when I was a teenager. I want to live life in the now, with what is going on currently, not 20 years ago! And my mate must be the same. It doesn't mean we have to have the same interests, it just means I want someone who wants to live life now, not relive life from the past over and over! And, I need to state again, my looks are deceiving! I am not what I look like! Short of massive amounts of plastic surgery, I cannot change my looks, nor would I. I won't deny you on your looks but I will if your profile smacks of old guy drudgery.