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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

I'm looking for chat friends leading to something serious later. I've never been into dating, at all.... I believe in waiting for the right person, not going out with lots of people. Friends are ok too... but nothing sexual at all! I need to get to know you for a long time before even talking about meeting, so please be patient with me.

I'm not big on going out, or crowds. I just can't handle that kind of stuff... so I'v been a homebody laitly. But with the right person at my side someday I may be able to do half way normal things again, like I did with my late husband.

This past year or so, which has been really rough, I have mostly just been killing time- watching movies, TV, drinking, chatting, online stuff.... You should know I'm a night owl(big time), and not a city person at all. I guess I'm a bit of a tomboy. And I'm totaly an introvert. Stuff I Love: the country, outdoors, camp fires, stargazing, thunderstorms, the dark, BC, plants, cool weather, the ocean, cats, green, the dark, candles, horror movies, my Jeep, ‘being’ one of the guys, pasta, sweet wine, veggies, drinking, sushi.

Stuff I don't like so much: going out, crowds, kids, cooking, the phone, light, day time, summer, heat, the city, refined sugar, coffee, cola, religion, public displays of affection, holding hands, being in a car, driving, feminists, shopping, talking about feelings, chick flicks, dresses, make-up, making decisions sitcoms, pop culture.

I'm looking for:

You must be accepting, non-judgmental, non-religious, patient and love animals(cats). And like me, feel that fun comes FIRST in life! Are the leader or take charge type, because I’m totally the opposite. Someone who wont push me to meet. I need to take things REALLY slow, I'm VERY old fashioned about relationships!!!