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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:: I'm shy at first, but warm up quickly, have a great(weird) sense of humor, and I'm trying once again to find the man out there who doesn't want games, drama, quiz's, or whatever sick amusement he may seek to pass both his and my time. I have a hectic schedule, and don't want to waste anymore of it raising full grown BOY'S! I think I have alot to offer a man, the right man. I am usually a sweetheart,with the occasional 'Female' attitude, I love movies,bowling,playing pool even though my aim is horrible,I love just playing around,being layed back,relaxing,cuddling,holding hands,and all the mushy gushy stuff. I love talking,but hate having a conversation with just myself,which I sometimes tend to do if the company I keep isn't 'all there'.I hate secrets,especially the kind that are mind blowing when found out much later on...I tend to be pretty blunt,thanks to my parents who raised me in somewhat of a 50's mixed with 90's lifestyle, which translates to hoping a man will hold the door open,but not expecting him to,a man should remember all holidays,birthdays,and anniversaries,or he's in trouble,where a man should respect the woman,and visa versa,and love each other like today is the last day you will see each other! I am not very picky,but I do expect to be treated as I would treat someone,seems fair,yes??
I'm looking for:: I would love to meet a true 'gentleman', but can't seem to find any. I would love to find someone who's willing to give it their all,as that's what I would give in return. I love a great sense of humor,self-awareness,somewhat smart, possibly someone who likes,or can at least tolerate Star Trek,adores children,works as hard as I do at my job, has goals in life, and can put up with an Italian who moved from New York to better her life here in North Carolina. Who has a great sense of humor,and can stand mine.. Someone who can carry an intelligent conversation usually helps..