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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

I'm a firm believer that God created men and women by design with our differences, that we yearn for each other and we should seek to fully embrace it. While, we have had gender roles for thousands of years for a good reason, I have no problem with a woman's career and ambitions either. Dare I say practically a requirement in America today. I need my woman to be a woman too and expect to be taken care of by a man as she should. It will become clear pretty quickly that I love to play and have fun. I'll chase you around on the playground and push you on the swings - regardless of what that playground is. I'm a bit of an old fashioned gentlemen, but in a 007 sort of way. I will tease and flirt and throw in the occasional double entendre. You notice I am serious about the path of where my life is going and who I have in it. Yet I still have to joke and be fun with my friends and of course my love interests. I am a former cancer survivor (yeah, I see those wheels turning, what does he mean by "former"?), so be rest assured, , I'm very very well and very alive , and that is how I go after life and what I want! Alive, full of energy and with determination. I've seen that we only get so much life and every second that passes by not living my life as I want to -- dare I say need to -- is a second that I just can never reclaim. That is what drives me to see that life's just too short to not be living it to the max - in EVERY area of my life. That is why I go in pursuit of my dreams of being happy and completely fulfilled, which incidentally includes great women as I look for one in particular that rises above the rest.

I'm looking for:

You don't have to be picture perfect to be in my world, but I am a firm believer in the expression of a woman's femininity and taking care of herself. This is good and is a healthy attitude in my book. Yep, I'm all for you hitting the mall and salon and get your self looking even more fantastic with a fabulous outfit, hair, makeup, perfume, nails, tan, and the rest of the works as you see fit, but don't stress over it. Know I will be proud to have you by my side. If you want to watch Desperate Housewives and gossip with the girls about the latest Hollywood happenings then that's more than fine by me but not likely at all I'll be joining you. Just like I won't expect you to watch Manswers, and NHL either!

We'll always have fantastic goodbye and hello hugs and kisses and you'll find many more between the hellos and goodbyes too. So embrace it and you will know you are loved, desired and cherished. Now, don't be surprised if I grab you when you get home and kiss you properly either because we energize each other; miss one another when absent and cannot wait to get back into each others arms again. Oh, and when I compliment you will know that it IS genuine and you WILL feel it too. One other thing....I have this tendency to get creative and throw in some wonderful surprises just to keep you wondering what's up next. I just hope you can handle that. [big smile]


"There is nothing in a caterpillar that tells you it's going to be a butterfly". -Buckminster Fuller

You just never know what magical and amazing may emerge if you don't open yourself to it.