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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

Some say that nobody much bothers to read the words written in a dating site profile They just go to the pictures

So I'll post some pix

But if you're the odd one out who really wants honest talk then I'll say something.

In summary I'm eclectic and simple + complex Whimsical I'm alert 2 adventure yet seeking 2 settle although I'd truly delight in being with someone with whom I share equal mutual respect loyalty honesty inspiration and together we share equally in life's adventure

I am genuine I dont want to merely make pen friends on the site

Happiness for me is threefold

1 That I get joy from what I do
2 I enjoy my plans for the future
3 I am in a joyful marriage

I have the first two. I hope soon to have the third

I'm divorced

But I have many friends, all of whom want to see me in a good relationship Problem is they "push" me - into their notion of the woman for me

And I have learned the hard way that Lust is not Love It is a mistake to base marriage on the approval of friends and or family

I mean surely all that matters is that the two people who have built solid foundation of mutual respect, trust, loyalty,
and are establishing evergrowing, mutually true Love - all that matters is the two people, the wife and husband, approve of each other?

We cannot please everyone Nor should we Wife and husband cannot wear one another as "handbags" or material status "trophies" to "impress and entertain friends and family. Marriages such as these cannot last

Trying to please other people according to their conditions is to allow ourselves to eventually be manipulated and very unhappy

Marriage must be based on mutual respect trust and fidelity

I am a one-woman man

For me Mutual Respect means equality between wife and husband equal loyalty and fidelity

I'm an adult not an adolescent mesmerised by pneumatic Playboy style fantasies Im not seeking plastic ideas of glamour

I'm looking for:

For whom my quest? Simple + complex:

Someone who matches, meets, wants my own measure of masculine-feminine awareness, culture, art and adventure as I am inspired by her femininity and her independent wit and art. Someone involved, inspiring, inspired, intelligent, involved with, passionate about, design, art, music, nature, life and the sense of visual and auditory tactility.

Someone who can weave wonder. But please. I'm not interested in game playing or endless "flowers" - or the mindlessly pre-pubescent, insensitive players that lurk elsewhere here.

Perhaps most of all I'm seeking an artistic, inspiring, adventurous soulmate with whom I can settle, mutually, while both of us retain a thirst for adventure together. .