Let's face it , many of us if not every body have seen profile all around the net by a 25 years old looking for a 58 years old.
To my personal view:
It's the first thing that I look in a profile , it's the age range, even before looking at the picture. In this case ( many times ) ,straight away it put's me off....don't even go to ask the name. Down the line there has to be an ( interest ) from one of the sides or both , so it CAN NOT be love.
Yes I am one of those that say's age does matter.
How about you ? And why?
NB: ITS NOT AN OFFENCE TO ANYBODY, ITS A PERSONAL OPINION, AND YOU CAN SAY YOURS.
Yes , I offten say what I think, and it this case i'll put it down.
Visa, Money, Daddy issues, and aesthetic issues, basically a self image that rules them out of the more conventional age range and then low ball it for older, less picky types. Sounds terrible, but it's the pattern I notice.
Alexandro10: Thx for your opinion, you couldn't said that better. The thing that its bordering me since I'm on a dating sites, its don't they think about this ? Don't they realise that ?
Who do you refer to Alexandro
The young ones who contact older people?
Or the older people who think the young ones are genuinely interested?
MADDOG69: Visa, Money, Daddy issues, and aesthetic issues, basically a self image that rules them out of the more conventional age range and then low ball it for older, less picky types. Sounds terrible, but it's the pattern I notice.
Yeah man they are very very self point view people ( trust me I know what I'm talking about ). Specialty eastern lady's.......... last relationship I was with an Hungarian ( I say you obey). In a line ......generally speaking. Of course they are good and bands everywhere.
Alexandro10: Let's spice it up Let's face it , many of us if not every body have seen profile all around the net by a 25 years old looking for a 58 years old. Yes I am one of those that say's age does matter. Yes , I offten say what I think, and it this case i'll put it down.
You then invited comments !! Here are mine
1. Improve your literacy - spelling and writing skills !! 2. Wind your bloody neck in.
3. I am also well known to those who actually know me, for calling a spade a shovel and especially when dealing with anyone looking for a scrap which your first line implies.
4. Face to face I never backed down from a trouble maker either either at work or outside it with anyone regardless of any rank, station or size and those who are my friends of many years standing hold similar views on this matter.
5. I have a lady friend whom I have known since birth and is now 38, single by choice, I am 76 and she has a PhD in Physics and can service her Vintage car having been taught by her dad and me.
6. Too many nowadays spout their mouth's off and moralize about the age gap even in public. - When we are seen out together, inevitably we get ignorant remarks from the myopic ignorant whom, if they comment to us never stand a chance with either of us.
7. That includes any Filth (Police) who stick their noses in and look suspiciously at me. -- She can and does swear as hard as I can in those circumstances and hit out verbally very hard as well.
8. She also holds a Black belt in Karate and does not hesitate to use it on morons who go a step further.
9. Having been brought up by an ex RAF Aero Engine Fitter with whom I served, since her mother died when she was 18, she always called me uncle Mike even before then.
10. Her father has always been OK with our relationship and more so since my late wife (Honourable Auntie) died in 2007, but more to the point, She is happy with it -- So when they stick their noses in we will all tell the Age Gap Moralizers just 2 words Fox-trot Oscar only not in NATO phonetics.
Alexandro10: Yeah man they are very very self point view people ( trust me I know what I'm talking about ). Specialty eastern lady's.......... last relationship I was with an Hungarian ( I say you obey). In a line ......generally speaking. Of course they are good and bands everywhere.
MikeD12: You then invited comments !! Here are mine
1. Improve your literacy - spelling and writing skills !! 2. Wind your bloody neck in.
3. I am also well known to those who actually know me, for calling a spade a shovel and especially when dealing with anyone looking for a scrap which your first line implies.
4. Face to face I never backed down from a trouble maker either either at work or outside it with anyone regardless of any rank, station or size and those who are my friends of many years standing hold similar views on this matter.
5. I have a lady friend whom I have known since birth and is now 38, single by choice, I am 76 and she has a PhD in Physics and can service her Vintage car having been taught by her dad and me.
6. Too many nowadays spout their mouth's off and moralize about the age gap even in public. - When we are seen out together, inevitably we get ignorant remarks from the myopic ignorant whom, if they comment to us never stand a chance with either of us.
7. That includes any Filth (Police) who stick their noses in and look suspiciously at me. -- She can and does swear as hard as I can in those circumstances and hit out verbally very hard as well.
8. She also holds a Black belt in Karate and does not hesitate to use it on morons who go a step further.
9. Having been brought up by an ex RAF Aero Engine Fitter with whom I served, since her mother died when she was 18, she always called me uncle Mike even before then.
10. Her father has always been OK with our relationship and more so since my late wife (Honourable Auntie) died in 2007, but more to the point, She is happy with it -- So when they stick their noses in we will all tell the Age Gap Moralizers just 2 words Fox-trot Oscar only not in NATO phonetics.
Good for you man .........keep her tight.
In my treat I did not offend anybody, but in your statement you did. What has got to do spelling with the treat !!!!!
As usual we have to offend people to feel better ( to easy ).
MikeD12: You then invited comments !! Here are mine
1. Improve your literacy - spelling and writing skills !! 2. Wind your bloody neck in.
3. I am also well known to those who actually know me, for calling a spade a shovel and especially when dealing with anyone looking for a scrap which your first line implies.
4. Face to face I never backed down from a trouble maker either either at work or outside it with anyone regardless of any rank, station or size and those who are my friends of many years standing hold similar views on this matter.
5. I have a lady friend whom I have known since birth and is now 38, single by choice, I am 76 and she has a PhD in Physics and can service her Vintage car having been taught by her dad and me.
6. Too many nowadays spout their mouth's off and moralize about the age gap even in public. - When we are seen out together, inevitably we get ignorant remarks from the myopic ignorant whom, if they comment to us never stand a chance with either of us.
7. That includes any Filth (Police) who stick their noses in and look suspiciously at me. -- She can and does swear as hard as I can in those circumstances and hit out verbally very hard as well.
8. She also holds a Black belt in Karate and does not hesitate to use it on morons who go a step further.
9. Having been brought up by an ex RAF Aero Engine Fitter with whom I served, since her mother died when she was 18, she always called me uncle Mike even before then.
10. Her father has always been OK with our relationship and more so since my late wife (Honourable Auntie) died in 2007, but more to the point, She is happy with it -- So when they stick their noses in we will all tell the Age Gap Moralizers just 2 words Fox-trot Oscar only not in NATO phonetics.
For me personally, everything where someone could biologically be a parent/kid I find creepy.
I'm also aware enough that someone contacting me who is 15 years younger isn't exactly looking for the love of his life.
Internet dating isn't very realistic - and some people start kidding themselves big times thinking who they could "land" because of all the scammers and visa hunters who are on a site like this (before someone jumps down my throat - I didn't say everyone is).
If you are only looking for a bit of fun or willing to pay for some arm candy, best of luck. Looking at myself when I was younger or now, I was never attracted to someone with a big age gap romantically (I do have friends who are a lot older) and looking at my nieces, they aren't either. There are cultures where females (and some males) want to be looked after financially and if both parties are ok with, best of luck.
Just be realistic and if you want a bit of fun with someone younger, don't kid yourselves and enjoy.
For me personally, everything where someone could biologically be a parent/kid I find creepy.
I'm also aware enough that someone contacting me who is 15 years younger isn't exactly looking for the love of his life.
Internet dating isn't very realistic - and some people start kidding themselves big times thinking who they could "land" because of all the scammers and visa hunters who are on a site like this (before someone jumps down my throat - I didn't say everyone is).
If you are only looking for a bit of fun or willing to pay for some arm candy, best of luck. Looking at myself when I was younger or now, I was never attracted to someone with a big age gap romantically (I do have friends who are a lot older) and looking at my nieces, they aren't either. There are cultures where females (and some males) want to be looked after financially and if both parties are ok with, best of luck.
Just be realistic and if you want a bit of fun with someone younger, don't kid yourselves and enjoy.
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Hi KNenagh how are you? Long time no see? Thx for passing by. Some people say being kind on internet is a sign of a scammer hahahahahahaha.
Personally I am not looking for (fun)at all in a relationship, If I was looking for( fun )in a relationship I would have put my profile in a another way round, that obviously wouldn't reflect me. I don't know how people see me here, but in life I am a very steady guy and in the same time very lay back . There are few things that make me go over the board, that I'm not listing here. Defenetly agree with you on internet is not easy ( obviously because there is no expression involved , but a simple straight forward screen .
I agree with Serene. Age matters. Anybody who says otherwise is either delusional or lying. Sorry, but that's my opinion. There may be the odd case where it works, but what are the stats on that... 1 in 1000? 1 in 10 000?
Mudblood: I agree with Serene. Age matters. Anybody who says otherwise is either delusional or lying. Sorry, but that's my opinion. There may be the odd case where it works, but what are the stats on that... 1 in 1000? 1 in 10 000?
Mr Mike , respect
Take a bloody example how people have to answer a treat.
5. I have a lady friend whom I have known since birth and is now 38, single by choice, I am 76 and she has a PhD in Physics and can service her Vintage car having been taught by her dad and me.
6. Too many nowadays spout their mouth's off and moralize about the age gap even in public. - When we are seen out together, inevitably we get ignorant remarks from the myopic ignorant whom, if they comment to us never stand a chance with either of us.
9. Having been brought up by an ex RAF Aero Engine Fitter with whom I served, since her mother died when she was 18, she always called me uncle Mike even before then.
10. Her father has always been OK with our relationship and more so since my late wife (Honourable Auntie) died in 2007, but more to the point, She is happy with it -- So when they stick their noses in we will all tell the Age Gap Moralizers just 2 words Fox-trot Oscar only not in NATO phonetics.
I am one of those age gap moralizers - it was horrifying for me to see it, and I although I never said anything to their faces, I certainly get reactive to it.
My father after a divorce from my mother (he was a retired RCAF pilot) was 67 and his new girlfriend then a few years later his wife was 19.
Old men can do that. I can see what you get out of the relationship? and how did she change from thinking of you as "uncle mike"? Not that I wish an answer really - just putting in my personal penny thoughts.
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significant of a relationship between a 25 years old and a 58 years old !!(Vote Below)
Let's face it , many of us if not every body have seen profile all around the net by a 25 years old looking for a 58 years old.
To my personal view:
It's the first thing that I look in a profile , it's the age range, even before looking at the picture. In this case ( many times ) ,straight away it put's me off....don't even go to ask the name.
Down the line there has to be an ( interest ) from one of the sides or both , so it CAN NOT be love.
Yes I am one of those that say's age does matter.
How about you ? And why?
NB: ITS NOT AN OFFENCE TO ANYBODY, ITS A PERSONAL OPINION, AND YOU CAN SAY YOURS.
Yes , I offten say what I think, and it this case i'll put it down.