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Some women don't understand how to create the right space and how to talk to a man that he's willing and able to open up to really share his truth.
Some women post confusing threads and don't even care about the opinion of those who knows best.
And some women don't get when he's just not into them.
Some women post confusing threads and don't even care about the opinion of those who knows best.
And some women don't get when he's just not into them.
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OutsideofBali: Some women don't understand how to create the right space and how to talk to a man that he's willing and able to open up to really share his truth.
Some women post confusing threads and don't even care about the opinion of those who knows best.
And some women don't get when he's just not into them.
Some women post confusing threads and don't even care about the opinion of those who knows best.
And some women don't get when he's just not into them.
Good work
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serene56: Good work
Thread completed, cyberspace is immensely grateful
Thread completed, cyberspace is immensely grateful
I concur. Damn!
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OutsideofBali: Some women don't understand how to create the right space and how to talk to a man that he's willing and able to open up to really share his truth.
Some women post confusing threads and don't even care about the opinion of those who knows best.
And some women don't get when he's just not into them.
Some women post confusing threads and don't even care about the opinion of those who knows best.
And some women don't get when he's just not into them.
I am sure you know how to create and make and talk by the way thank you for your arrogant post.
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OutsideofBali: Some women don't understand how to create the right space and how to talk to a man that he's willing and able to open up to really share his truth.
Some women post confusing threads and don't even care about the opinion of those who knows best.
And some women don't get when he's just not into them.
Some women post confusing threads and don't even care about the opinion of those who knows best.
And some women don't get when he's just not into them.
And how about men creating the right conditions for women to express themselves (in whatever way), or is it women's responsibility to make everything right?
Maybe the poll is confusing because English is not Zeurich's first language?
Maybe she's being challenging in an interesting way and learning something for herself along the way? I'm game for that.
If you know how to create the right space for men to express themselves, please share. I'm sure there'll be many of us who are interested to learn.
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I've sensed a lot of negativity in the voting options and I feel it always makes more sense to analyze ones personal approach than to figure out other people. Hence I've shared what I've learned in workshops about relating and connecting.
Don't you have to admit that male members take on this could be valuable?
I can't see what was wrong with my statement that if a man isn't into a woman he won't share his feelings and neither can I feel what was arrogant about my post. I've taken this serious as far I understood the intention of your blog.
However, if you've been waiting all day to get offended and angry about something or some body I'm glad I could be of service.
Don't you have to admit that male members take on this could be valuable?
I can't see what was wrong with my statement that if a man isn't into a woman he won't share his feelings and neither can I feel what was arrogant about my post. I've taken this serious as far I understood the intention of your blog.
However, if you've been waiting all day to get offended and angry about something or some body I'm glad I could be of service.
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jac379: And how about men creating the right conditions for women to express themselves (in whatever way), or is it women's responsibility to make everything right?
Maybe the poll is confusing because English is not Zeurich's first language?
Maybe she's being challenging in an interesting way and learning something for herself along the way? I'm game for that.
If you know how to create the right space for men to express themselves, please share. I'm sure there'll be many of us who are interested to learn.
Maybe the poll is confusing because English is not Zeurich's first language?
Maybe she's being challenging in an interesting way and learning something for herself along the way? I'm game for that.
If you know how to create the right space for men to express themselves, please share. I'm sure there'll be many of us who are interested to learn.
Of course it's a two way road but I understood that the issue was a woman who couldn't get the man to open up and talk.
English is my 5th language and the question is who's more confused.
I've been all game and now I've to get over that my comment got called arrogant - there's a first time for everything
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OutsideofBali: Of course it's a two way road but I understood that the issue was a woman who couldn't get the man to open up and talk.
English is my 5th language and the question is who's more confused.
I've been all game and now I've to get over that my comment got called arrogant - there's a first time for everything
English is my 5th language and the question is who's more confused.
I've been all game and now I've to get over that my comment got called arrogant - there's a first time for everything
That's not how I understood the poll at all, but participating on another linked thread helped with that interpretation.
As I understand it, the poll is asking why few men respond meaningfully to threads/polls asking them about how they think and feel, what their wishes are, etc.
Your English so perfect, I would never have guessed it wasn't your mother tongue.
I'm still interested in anything you have to offer about creating the space for men to feel safe expressing themselves on an emotionally intimate level.
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OutsideofBali: I've sensed a lot of negativity in the voting options and I feel it always makes more sense to analyze ones personal approach than to figure out other people. Hence I've shared what I've learned in workshops about relating and connecting.
Don't you have to admit that male members take on this could be valuable?
I can't see what was wrong with my statement that if a man isn't into a woman he won't share his feelings and neither can I feel what was arrogant about my post. I've taken this serious as far I understood the intention of your blog.
However, if you've been waiting all day to get offended and angry about something or some body I'm glad I could be of service.
Don't you have to admit that male members take on this could be valuable?
I can't see what was wrong with my statement that if a man isn't into a woman he won't share his feelings and neither can I feel what was arrogant about my post. I've taken this serious as far I understood the intention of your blog.
However, if you've been waiting all day to get offended and angry about something or some body I'm glad I could be of service.
I have no idea what you learn from your work shop.Negativity or positivity is in their own mind and behavior not in a poll,blog or a dating site.By the way this is a poll not a blog. from that I know that you know everything. I am not here to teach people or correct people.Or to change the way people think. Also not to pull out my mind with what ever comes to mind with out thinking. I am not stupid as you think to be offended or get angry from the comments posting by unknown people with out thinking.. you are here for some reason I am here for some reason so the do all others so in my opinion respect for their own believes values or the way people think. Go and read your own first post please.Because my native language is Russian.I am not interested in going on further than this.you are kind of a woman who likes to show that you know everything but non of others.That is what you have shown in your first comment.Yes it is arrogant and rude.In that sens yes you did a good service. End of the conversation who ever want to carry go ahead I am out of this.... Happy Easter!!!
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Zeurich: I have no idea what you learn from your work shop.Negativity or positivity is in their own mind and behavior not in a poll,blog or a dating site.By the way this is a poll not a blog. from that I know that you know everything. I am not here to teach people or correct people.Or to change the way people think. Also not to pull out my mind with what ever comes to mind with out thinking. I am not stupid as you think to be offended or get angry from the comments posting by unknown people with out thinking.. you are here for some reason I am here for some reason so the do all others so in my opinion respect for their own believes values or the way people think. Go and read your own first post please.Because my native language is Russian.I am not interested in going on further than this.you are kind of a woman who likes to show that you know everything but non of others.That is what you have shown in your first comment.Yes it is arrogant and rude.In that sens yes you did a good service. End of the conversation who ever want to carry go ahead I am out of this.... Happy Easter!!!
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pedalguy59: Your English is very good.
Hi pedal how was your cycling?
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Zeurich: Hi pedal how was your cycling?
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Zeurich: For men :your answer is not here ? Keep it for your self I don't care.
Are you on some meds we should know about???
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danieljosh: have to agree with most of this comment sometimes hard to find the right words without upset so we keep quiet
I think perhaps the trick is to say what you feel and then find out why she's upset about what you said.
It's called communication.
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Dedovix: Are you on some meds we should know about???
NO this far I was not on med but I think from now on I have to,,, thank you for your concern, Enjoy the Easter!
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Dedovix: Are you on some meds we should know about???
don't wanna know about meds that strong
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Zeurich: NO this far I was not on med but I think from now on I have to,,, thank you for your concern, Enjoy the Easter!
Oh no, you got that wrong, I wasn`t concerned ,I was impressed and wanted an advice on which pills should I take for my weekend buzz
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Dedovix: Oh no, you got that wrong, I wasn`t concerned ,I was impressed and wanted an advice on which pills should I take for my weekend buzz
ah is that so Dedovix for that sort of things you better go to outsideofbali she knows everything.
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jac379: I think perhaps the trick is to say what you feel and then find out why she's upset about what you said.
It's called communication.
It's called communication.
I`m still living at the moment but if I followed you advice I`d have been gone years ago perhaps when I want a new form of euthanasia lol
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Zeurich: ah is that so Dedovix for that sort of things you better go to outsideofbali she knows everything.
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danieljosh: I`m still living at the moment but if I followed you advice I`d have been gone years ago perhaps when I want a new form of euthanasia lol
Okay, I'm confused and probably being completely prejudiced here.
I get why women might not wish to put themselves in a position where they anger, or upset a man. I'm acutely aware of men's physical presence and potentially how physically vulnerable I am as a woman.
Why do men find women so scary?
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Zeurich: ah is that so Dedovix for that sort of things you better go to outsideofbali she knows everything.
You'd do well to let that go Zuerich.
She didn't do anything to you. You wanted a bunch of women to rush in and complain about men. When she offered something else you got offended and took it personally.
Trying to turn it into an ongoing issue is a bad idea.
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I can understand some men not wishing to speak about their feelings since I too am not entirely comfortable in doing so. And let's face it, sometimes we women tend to over-analyse every word and action and allow our insecurities to run away with us.
There is a time to talk, and sometimes a time when a hug and cuddle says so much more than any words ever could.
There is a time to talk, and sometimes a time when a hug and cuddle says so much more than any words ever could.
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LadyDiz2: I can understand some men not wishing to speak about their feelings since I too am not entirely comfortable in doing so. And let's face it, sometimes we women tend to over-analyse every word and action and allow our insecurities to run away with us.
There is a time to talk, and sometimes a time when a hug and cuddle says so much more than any words ever could.
There is a time to talk, and sometimes a time when a hug and cuddle says so much more than any words ever could.
Oh stop talking and kiss me
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LadyDiz2: I can understand some men not wishing to speak about their feelings since I too am not entirely comfortable in doing so. And let's face it, sometimes we women tend to over-analyse every word and action and allow our insecurities to run away with us.
There is a time to talk, and sometimes a time when a hug and cuddle says so much more than any words ever could.
There is a time to talk, and sometimes a time when a hug and cuddle says so much more than any words ever could.
Surely, if we're allowing our insecurities to run away with us, that's not over-analysing, so much as not analysing what's really going on?
An accurate analysis of our thoughts, feelings and behaviours would include an awareness and acknowledgement of how our insecurities have come about from our histories and how they are impacting upon our present.
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jac379: Surely, if we're allowing our insecurities to run away with us, that's not over-analysing, so much as not analysing what's really going on?
An accurate analysis of our thoughts, feelings and behaviours would include an awareness and acknowledgement of how our insecurities have come about from our histories and how they are impacting upon our present.
An accurate analysis of our thoughts, feelings and behaviours would include an awareness and acknowledgement of how our insecurities have come about from our histories and how they are impacting upon our present.
PS. And I don't think having insecurities, or letting them run away with us are gender specific.
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jac379: PS. And I don't think having insecurities, or letting them run away with us are gender specific.
Gawd I get all hot when I hear you speak words like gender and specific... Tell me more
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Ocee102: You'd do well to let that go Zuerich.
She didn't do anything to you. You wanted a bunch of women to rush in and complain about men. When she offered something else you got offended and took it personally.
Trying to turn it into an ongoing issue is a bad idea.
She didn't do anything to you. You wanted a bunch of women to rush in and complain about men. When she offered something else you got offended and took it personally.
Trying to turn it into an ongoing issue is a bad idea.
I said that I am not going to comment on this poll any more. If you want to find something to talk please find something else. I have not said she did any thing to me either. Take as you want. And intention was not talk about men either. How do you know what I wanted in the first place. It is not who is looking for ongoing thing that is you.
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uptall: Gawd I get all hot when I hear you speak words like gender and specific... Tell me more *******
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jac379: Surely, if we're allowing our insecurities to run away with us, that's not over-analysing, so much as not analysing what's really going on?
An accurate analysis of our thoughts, feelings and behaviours would include an awareness and acknowledgement of how our insecurities have come about from our histories and how they are impacting upon our present.
An accurate analysis of our thoughts, feelings and behaviours would include an awareness and acknowledgement of how our insecurities have come about from our histories and how they are impacting upon our present.
You're right. But I for one am fully aware of where my insecurities stem from and when they are playing a role in the the way I'm feeling and acting so don't see why I should inflict them and a deep analysis of them on some one else. And hopefully my future partner will be at a similar level of self-awareness so instead of putting ourselves through deep introspective and analytical sessions, we can just get on with loving each other. I am more than ready for a relationship that is about love, passion and joy in each other and not just another avenue for study - I have done, and continue to do enough of that in my professional life.
But then again, I might just be hedonistic and shallow
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