Stress Relief ( Archived) (78)

Apr 20, 2014 2:38 AM CSTStress Relief
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales, Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,955 Posts

Stress Relief(Vote Below)

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Use deep breathing techniques
8
12%
Practise yoga or meditation
3
5%
Get drunk
3
5%
Take drugs
2
3%
Gamble
2
3%
Sexy times
15
23%
Call a friend or family member
6
9%
Go shopping or for a walk
9
14%
Have a melt down, can't cope
3
5%
Other
15
23%
Total Votes
66
How do you cope when life gets stressful conversing
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Apr 20, 2014 2:47 AM CST Stress Relief
serene56: How do you cope when life gets stressful
It's very difficult to do this for every variable in life, but try to have a back-up plan for everything and if possible: Have a back-up plan for the back-up plan. Unpredictable circumstances or uncontrolled circumstances in life, is what causes stress. So, my answer: Is to have a near perfect idea of your future.
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Apr 20, 2014 2:50 AM CST Stress Relief
lonelygal122
lonelygal122lonelygal122HallsGap, Victoria Australia8 Threads 4,567 Posts
serene56: How do you cope when life gets stressful
meditation and reiki.thumbs up
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Apr 20, 2014 2:52 AM CST Stress Relief
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,955 Posts
CuddlingSoul: It's very difficult to do this for every variable in life, but try to have a back-up plan for everything and if possible: Have a back-up plan for the back-up plan. Unpredictable circumstances or uncontrolled circumstances in life, is what causes stress. So, my answer: Is to have a near perfect idea of your future.


Thank you Cuddles, I agree that it's when unexpected things happen that we feel vulnerable and stress can take hold.

With some degree of control, or at least a back-up plan for events that may recur, it does give a little peace of mind conversing
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Apr 20, 2014 3:05 AM CST Stress Relief
Zeurich
ZeurichZeurichunknown, Utrecht Netherlands25 Threads 21 Polls 200 Posts
serene56: How do you cope when life gets stressful


Mostly I am in to meditation or yoga when I feel stressed but yes to be honest there are some situation that I feel go and get the neck crack down and put underground but I did not do this far but in that situation I call my father or my mother, they both are good listeners and kind therapy wise.
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Apr 20, 2014 3:06 AM CST Stress Relief
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,955 Posts
Zeurich: Mostly I am in to meditation or yoga when I feel stressed but yes to be honest there are some situation that I feel go and get the neck crack down and put underground but I did not do this far but in that situation I call my father or my mother, they both are good listeners and kind therapy wise.



It's so good to have support when life gets difficult Z wave hug
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Apr 20, 2014 3:10 AM CST Stress Relief
Alexandro10
Alexandro10Alexandro10monceaux, Hauts-de-France France36 Threads 17 Polls 1,180 Posts
Stress its only a question of mind. Some people coop with it better then others. I shall say a good breathing technique could do it ( with your eyes closed ). At the moment I have to say I'm a little bit on stress, cause waiting for this guy to come and finish his duggy work that he started. And my BB is stood up cause of him..... that's stress , and I had to coop with it in the past month frustrated
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Apr 20, 2014 3:16 AM CST Stress Relief
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,955 Posts
Alexandro10: Stress its only a question of mind. Some people coop with it better then others. I shall say a good breathing technique could do it ( with your eyes closed ). At the moment I have to say I'm a little bit on stress, cause waiting for this guy to come and finish his duggy work that he started. And my BB is stood up cause of him..... that's stress , and I had to coop with it in the past month



Wow I hope that gets sorted for you very soon Alexandro, very frustrating sad flower
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Apr 20, 2014 3:33 AM CST Stress Relief
Bspoken4
Bspoken4Bspoken4My forest, Western Cape South Africa636 Posts
Contemplative, quiet moments with yourself, walks in nature, meditation, creative visualization.... if possible, listen to this audio clip by Dane Spotts - Mind Power Secrets. Also listen to Wayne Dyer - Meditations for Manifesting , Morning Meditation


ps ~ will post to a "drop-box" account, for download, sometime later.. need to check their "copyright clauses"

wine yay peace
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Apr 20, 2014 3:35 AM CST Stress Relief
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
serene56: How do you cope when life gets stressful


Breathe, breath and breathe...then maybe hit a tennis ball around a court

Morning! wave hug
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Apr 20, 2014 3:36 AM CST Stress Relief
Bspoken4
Bspoken4Bspoken4My forest, Western Cape South Africa636 Posts
Contemplative, quiet moments with yourself, walks in nature, meditation, creative visualization.... if possible, listen to this audio clip by Dane Spotts - Mind Power Secrets. Also listen to Wayne Dyer - Meditations for Manifesting , Morning Meditation


If that's not your scene, a good bottle of Jack Daniels does wonders!
thumbs up drink pouring buddies
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Apr 20, 2014 3:37 AM CST Stress Relief
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Bspoken4: Contemplative, quiet moments with yourself, walks in nature, meditation, creative visualization.... if possible, listen to this audio clip by Dane Spotts - Mind Power Secrets. Also listen to Wayne Dyer - Meditations for Manifesting , Morning Meditation


If that's not your scene, a good bottle of Jack Daniels does wonders!


Jameson is pretty good too thumbs up wave laugh
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Apr 20, 2014 3:37 AM CST Stress Relief
serene56: How do you cope when life gets stressful
...if the weather,,is fine I potter in my garden.....if not, I play on my x/box.......or play my tyros.keyboard.....at the moment decorating my house....to keep stess at bay......sometimes I get fed.up with my own company...all the time.....but hey.....who knows what tomorrow may bring.dunno dunno ........morning S.hug hug
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Apr 20, 2014 3:38 AM CST Stress Relief
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,955 Posts
unlaoised: Breathe, breath and breathe...then maybe hit a tennis ball around a court

Morning!



Evening Unlao, good to see you bouquet hug


So you find whacking balls good stress relief eh conversing
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Apr 20, 2014 3:39 AM CST Stress Relief
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
serene56: Evening Unlao, good to see you So you find whacking balls good stress relief eh


Back atcha Serene bouquet

Yea, lumo green, furry ones grin
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Apr 20, 2014 3:40 AM CST Stress Relief
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,955 Posts
truheart1941: ...if the weather,,is fine I potter in my garden.....if not, I play on my x/box.......or play my tyros.keyboard.....at the moment decorating my house....to keep stess at bay......sometimes I get fed.up with my own company...all the time.....but hey.....who knows what tomorrow may bring. ........morning S.



Hey tru bouquet hug

Pottering in the garden is just the best for relaxation thumbs up

I find it really peaceful and good for the soul daisy
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Apr 20, 2014 4:01 AM CST Stress Relief
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Alexandro10: Stress its only a question of mind. Some people coop with it better then others. I shall say a good breathing technique could do it ( with your eyes closed ). At the moment I have to say I'm a little bit on stress, cause waiting for this guy to come and finish his duggy work that he started. And my BB is stood up cause of him..... that's stress , and I had to coop with it in the past month

I'd disagree that stress is only a question of mind.

For example, leaving babies to prolonged bouts of crying (as recommended by some genres of childcare) and the consequent insecure attachment is thought to result in neurological changes. These physical and neurochemical changes are carried through to adulthood and effect adult ability to deal with stress.
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Apr 20, 2014 4:02 AM CST Stress Relief
Bspoken4
Bspoken4Bspoken4My forest, Western Cape South Africa636 Posts
Louise...wave

Agree...actually can't decide which is better..
I'll buy a bottle of each & have ready, when you visit our shores again.. laugh

unlaoised: Jameson is pretty good too
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Apr 20, 2014 4:03 AM CST Stress Relief
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,955 Posts
jac379: I'd disagree that stress is only a question of mind.

For example, leaving babies to prolonged bouts of crying (as recommended by some genres of childcare) and the consequent insecure attachment is thought to result in neurological changes. These physical and neurochemical changes are carried through to adulthood and effect adult ability to deal with stress.



I can't bear it when people leave babies to cry like that blues
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Apr 20, 2014 4:05 AM CST Stress Relief
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Bspoken4: Louise...

Agree...actually can't decide which is better..
I'll buy a bottle of each & have ready, when you visit our shores again..


You have yourself a deal, B. Classy okes, we are grin wave
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Apr 20, 2014 4:22 AM CST Stress Relief
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
serene56: I can't bear it when people leave babies to cry like that

It's a highly recommended genre of childcare, apparently popularised in the 1880's in part to reduce transmission of infections and partly as a behavioural training technique.

Gina Ford's The Contented Little Baby is still very much in vogue, despite the controversy and the evidence available from the 1950's regarding Attachment Theory (John Bowlby, considered the father of Attachment Theory, Mary Ainsworth and many others).

The parenting, or childcare techniques which advocate early discipline and training rather suit today's busy and routined lifestyles, so if it's recommended, it's going to be used.
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Apr 20, 2014 4:26 AM CST Stress Relief
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
Not often i get stressed....on the occasion, get out in nature..:) frees the mind and the spirit !
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Apr 20, 2014 4:28 AM CST Stress Relief
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,955 Posts
jac379: It's a highly recommended genre of childcare, apparently popularised in the 1880's in part to reduce transmission of infections and partly as a behavioural training technique.

Gina Ford's The Contented Little Baby is still very much in vogue, despite the controversy and the evidence available from the 1950's regarding Attachment Theory (John Bowlby, considered the father of Attachment Theory, Mary Ainsworth and many others).

The parenting, or childcare techniques which advocate early discipline and training rather suit today's busy and routined lifestyles, so if it's recommended, it's going to be used.


Well I'm gonna be busy then, running around and picking all the poor wee mites up and giving them a Nanna cuddle sad flower

laugh
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Apr 20, 2014 4:31 AM CST Stress Relief
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
serene56: Well I'm gonna be busy then, running around and picking all the poor wee mites up and giving them a Nanna cuddle


I'll go with you grin
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Apr 20, 2014 4:34 AM CST Stress Relief
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
serene56: Well I'm gonna be busy then, running around and picking all the poor wee mites up and giving them a Nanna cuddle

Which is precisely what babies and children need to become healthy, independent adults who cope well with stressful events in their lives. tip hat

It also makes me think about how disparaging some people can be towards those who don't cope with stress well - it's very easy to scoff at, or blame others from a position of advantage. It's just not very useful.
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Apr 20, 2014 4:40 AM CST Stress Relief
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,955 Posts
Love being a cuddling Nanna heart wings
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Apr 20, 2014 5:50 AM CST Stress Relief
Alexandro10
Alexandro10Alexandro10monceaux, Hauts-de-France France36 Threads 17 Polls 1,180 Posts
jac379: I'd disagree that stress is only a question of mind.

For example, leaving babies to prolonged bouts of crying (as recommended by some genres of childcare) and the consequent insecure attachment is thought to result in neurological changes. These physical and neurochemical changes are carried through to adulthood and effect adult ability to deal with stress.


Yeah , if I said my opinion to my English cousin that has a degree in psycologie, he wouldn't agree with me 100% eithergrin

I sincerely apologise jac, but my English level its a bit on a day by day level ( use to work in Yorkshire pudding factory's ) and I unestly didn't understand what you said. I do apologise.

But to me normal stress its a factor of mind, everyone of us deals with it in a way or another. If I did understand, if somebody leaves his/ her crying baby for hours . That's not stress.

I give you an example.
Long time ago on the news in italy I heard a guy had his little baby on the seats on the back of the car. went to his day by day jobs and he actually forgot to take his baby to the childcare . As a result the baby died from heat of that day. The father was inter located afterword and he said , he had lots of stress that day cause of varieuse problems.

I don't think that's stress!!
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Apr 20, 2014 5:53 AM CST Stress Relief
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
A deep tissue massage applause
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Apr 20, 2014 6:03 AM CST Stress Relief
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
unlaoised: A deep tissue massage

I think, therefore I am a Kleenex...
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Apr 20, 2014 6:10 AM CST Stress Relief
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,955 Posts
jac379: I think, therefore I am a Kleenex...



laugh
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Apr 20, 2014 6:15 AM CST Stress Relief
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
jac379: I think, therefore I am a Kleenex...


I think you missed the main thrust of the post laugh
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