Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed? ( Archived) (66)

Aug 12, 2014 6:06 PM CSTAm I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma, USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts

Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?(Vote Below)

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Yes, but we made it
1
2%
Yes, but we failed
24
41%
Yes, but we are still just friends
10
17%
NO, now way would I ever
24
41%
Total Votes
59
Have you ever tried to get back with an ex and try and make it work?
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Aug 12, 2014 6:15 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
If I see her I turn around and run!
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Aug 12, 2014 6:17 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
raphael119: If I see her I turn around and run!


thank you for your input cheers
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Aug 12, 2014 6:28 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
moc1234
moc1234moc1234Tralee, Kerry Ireland2 Threads 148 Posts
I tried she got more than enough of chances so when it failed i moved on but still single
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Aug 12, 2014 6:33 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
stringman
stringmanstringmanwallaceburg, Ontario Canada649 Threads 1 Polls 7,049 Posts
I have no x's just O's.laugh
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Aug 12, 2014 6:34 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
stringman: I have no x's just O's.



laugh that's a good one
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Aug 12, 2014 6:35 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
moc1234: I tried she got more than enough of chances so when it failed i moved on but still single



yah, at some point you have to say, enough is enough wave
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Aug 12, 2014 6:35 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
stringman
stringmanstringmanwallaceburg, Ontario Canada649 Threads 1 Polls 7,049 Posts
SoonerGal: that's a good one


wave
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Aug 12, 2014 6:39 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
wave hiya stringman!
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Aug 12, 2014 6:46 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
pogo07
pogo07pogo07dubliin, Dublin Ireland4 Threads 74 Posts
I did, over and over with one guy, for nearly 5yrs. We threw in the towel last November. We had a magical chemistry and everything 'clicked' into place but for some reason we would fall apart every couple of months but were in pieces when apart, neither could function without the other. Neither could cope for more than a few weeks apart and one or other would think of a reason to contact the other and we'd be 'alive' again til it all went pear shaped a few wks after. We tried everything to keep it together but gave up last year and went our separate ways, even though it broke each of us apart.
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Aug 12, 2014 6:56 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
Repeated seperation erodes emotional trust.

One or both might learn something from the first or maybe even the second split, but more often than not you just have less and less to work with each time.
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Aug 12, 2014 6:57 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
Ocee102: Repeated seperation erodes emotional trust.

One or both might learn something from the first or maybe even the second split, but more often than not you just have less and less to work with each time.



ok funny you say this, we not only tried once but twice doh
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Aug 12, 2014 7:08 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
SoonerGal: ok funny you say this, we not only tried once but twice


we did too much damage in first split, burned all the bridges.

It seems people have certain tolerances for their mates behaviors and cant or wont adjust.
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Aug 12, 2014 7:12 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
raphael119: we did too much damage in first split, burned all the bridges.

It seems people have certain tolerances for their mates behaviors and cant or wont adjust.



that's it, we need to learn to burn bridges wave
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Aug 12, 2014 7:17 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
Scott1812
Scott1812Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada26 Threads 11 Polls 1,595 Posts
SoonerGal: that's it, we need to learn to burn bridges
I have some matches.tip hat wave
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Aug 12, 2014 7:20 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
pogo07: I did, over and over with one guy, for nearly 5yrs. We threw in the towel last November. We had a magical chemistry and everything 'clicked' into place but for some reason we would fall apart every couple of months but were in pieces when apart, neither could function without the other. Neither could cope for more than a few weeks apart and one or other would think of a reason to contact the other and we'd be 'alive' again til it all went pear shaped a few wks after. We tried everything to keep it together but gave up last year and went our separate ways, even though it broke each of us apart.



pogo, that sounds a lot similar to me...sometimes, I don't know why, it just can't be worked out hug
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Aug 12, 2014 7:20 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
Scott1812: I have some matches.



for me yay
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Aug 12, 2014 7:22 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
Scott1812
Scott1812Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada26 Threads 11 Polls 1,595 Posts
SoonerGal: for me
I`ll even bring hotdogs!laugh
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Aug 12, 2014 7:28 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
Scott1812: I`ll even bring hotdogs!




ummm unless you have marshmallows, talk to the hand laugh just teasing hug
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Aug 12, 2014 7:46 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
Mine came out of the closet, so there is no way in hell.. Not that would want to anyways. after 17 years of marriage, its done :)
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Aug 12, 2014 7:49 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
oh wow...that closet can be dark and deep confused
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Aug 12, 2014 7:53 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal: oh wow...that closet can be dark and deep

so deep it echoes echoes echoes echoes echoes....
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Aug 12, 2014 7:54 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Welcome back SG reunion
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Aug 12, 2014 8:05 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
hug reunion 2intrigued
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Aug 12, 2014 8:06 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
datwasntme
datwasntmedatwasntmewoodbridge, Virginia USA1 Threads 38 Posts
once i am gone from a g.f or wife , i am gone for good
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Aug 12, 2014 8:07 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
lol you're cute, is it a wife or girlfriend?
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Aug 12, 2014 8:08 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal: Have you ever tried to get back with an ex and try and make it work?


We decided to have no contact after break up.
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Aug 12, 2014 8:21 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
are you ok with that?
guysimple: We decided to have no contact after break up.
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Aug 12, 2014 8:24 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal: are you ok with that?


Its ok. that is what she wanted so that she can properly move on and start new cheater.
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Aug 12, 2014 8:26 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
lol...cheater? so do "all" men cheat?
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Aug 12, 2014 8:40 PM CST Am I the only one that ever got back with an ex, and failed?
Cassanne
CassanneCassanneLansing, Michigan USA17 Posts
I tried so hard to make my marriage work but he wasn't trying at all. He played far too many games and hurt me too many times. So no i will never give him another chance. 21 yrs of marriage gone and im better off applause cheering
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