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Aug 14, 2014 8:22 AM CSTWhat is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
VivianLee
VivianLeeVivianLeeLivingston, Lothian, Scotland, UK16 Threads 16 Polls 249 Posts

What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?(Vote Below)

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Has to look good to me - nothing matters more
6
10%
Someone presentable (e.g. to friends and family)
5
8%
If we click, looks are just a bonus
20
32%
Makes me feel I am attractive and engaging
9
15%
Someone I admire and respect
9
15%
Sharing basic values on everything
11
18%
Someone who takes charge
2
3%
Total Votes
62
So you meet through CS, talk a bit, and there's a definite something. Whether you meet up, or just keep the talk going for a while longer to test a few reactions, exchange photos, get on Skype; what's on your checklist? What makes you think, heyyyyy I think we have something here?

This is a rubbish list because I would pick more than one myself! But for me someone who was obviously enjoying my company obviously has superior sense laugh and if they made me feel attractive and engaging, and not as if I wanted to run a mile in the opposite direction, I find that very appealing. Add any obvious ones that I missed!
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Aug 14, 2014 8:25 AM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
Has to be slim,blond ,filthy rich and an IQ of a cannoli ...
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Aug 14, 2014 8:28 AM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
VivianLee
VivianLeeVivianLeeLivingston, Lothian, Scotland UK16 Threads 16 Polls 249 Posts
Dedovix: Has to be slim,blond ,filthy rich and an IQ of a cannoli ...


so you are voting for the first option, then rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 14, 2014 8:31 AM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
That magical combination of beauty and low self-esteem. She needs to be beautiful, but if she realises this then I'm finished.
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Aug 14, 2014 8:49 AM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
VivianLee
VivianLeeVivianLeeLivingston, Lothian, Scotland UK16 Threads 16 Polls 249 Posts
Obstinance_Works: That magical combination of beauty and low self-esteem. She needs to be beautiful, but if she realises this then I'm finished.


An honest man. CS is your smorgasbord, everyone wants honest laugh
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Aug 14, 2014 9:03 AM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
Dedovix: Has to be slim,blond ,filthy rich and an IQ of a cannoli ...


flirty what's a cannoli?

shimmy



















rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 14, 2014 9:06 AM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
I voted for 3 and 4....if he makes me feel attractive is important and we won;t "click" without that :) but it should happen naturally...not feel "fake or forced."
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Aug 14, 2014 10:18 AM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
..admire/respect.......
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Aug 14, 2014 10:22 AM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
Dedovix: Has to be slim,blond ,filthy rich and an IQ of a cannoli ...
lol,yes low IQ is a must/good one.
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Aug 14, 2014 10:26 AM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
truheart1941: ..admire/respect.......
true n honest.
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Aug 14, 2014 12:50 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
Sometimes ugly can be attractive!!!!!
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Aug 14, 2014 1:18 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
Schatje1975
Schatje1975Schatje1975Cliffside Park, New Jersey USA1 Threads 7 Posts
Someone that I am attracted too deeply, physically and I have to be able to get along with him.
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Aug 14, 2014 2:30 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
No checklist but I know when I'm attracted to someone and it goes from there.

What's attractive to me isn't necessarily attractive to others dunno
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Aug 14, 2014 2:52 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
2girlsnocup
2girlsnocup2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 1 Polls 2,621 Posts
VivianLee: So you meet through CS, talk a bit, and there's a definite something. Whether you meet up, or just keep the talk going for a while longer to test a few reactions, exchange photos, get on Skype; what's on your checklist? What makes you think, heyyyyy I think we have something here?

This is a rubbish list because I would pick more than one myself! But for me someone who was obviously enjoying my company obviously has superior sense and if they made me feel attractive and engaging, and not as if I wanted to run a mile in the opposite direction, I find that very appealing. Add any obvious ones that I missed!


Choosing a partner is not like buying a car. You only find out about a lot of the things you like about each other, through time. At first, obviously it's of a materialist sense, as people tend to go with something pleasing to the eyes.
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Aug 14, 2014 6:01 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
I do have to be physically attracted to them. It won't go any further otherwise,
That doesn't mean to say he has to be a Greek god, although that would helpwink , but I personally have to be attracted to him.
After that, obviously he has to have a lovely personality, intelligent, same sense of humour as me, kind, interesting, and fun to be with.
If I don't have fun with him, and enjoy being in his company, it won't work.
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Aug 14, 2014 6:06 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
I think probably everything in the list.

But as someone previously said, what I find attractive may not be what others do.


Always had a thing for Jimmy Nail, even when he was in Auf Wiedersehen, Pet.
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Aug 14, 2014 6:07 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
No, I don't have many physical requirements. Its all just an outer shell, after all.

Mostly, a good sense of humour, a good heart and a sense of perspective.

Physically, if he's over 6ft..... a bonus!

heart wings
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Aug 14, 2014 6:43 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
monteisback
monteisbackmonteisbackTwinkletoes, New Jersey USA2 Threads 152 Posts
Non smoker
Single or divorced
Respectful (covers many areas)

to be continued ...
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Aug 14, 2014 7:12 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
Brannigan70
Brannigan70Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland35 Threads 2,339 Posts
All of the above professor

I mean the replies , should make for an interesting life laugh
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Aug 14, 2014 7:20 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
I think a more interesting question may be, if we were to build our ideal partner from scratch, what would he/she be like...
The physical has to come into it then. Otherwise you'd be left with a few innards floating in mid-air! crazy
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Aug 14, 2014 7:26 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
Brannigan70: All of the above

I mean the replies , should make for an interesting life


You want a woman who looks like Jimmy Nail??

There's a fair few of those around :)
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Aug 14, 2014 7:28 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
Brannigan70
Brannigan70Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland35 Threads 2,339 Posts
NotABlonde: You want a woman who looks like Jimmy Nail??

There's a fair few of those around :)
Well maybe not but she might be wearing crocodile shoes grin

Nice to see ye about J hug
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Aug 14, 2014 7:28 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
NotABlonde: You want a woman who looks like Jimmy Nail??

There's a fair few of those around :)


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Those Ozzie women are butch alright!! laugh
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Aug 14, 2014 7:58 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
VivianLee: So you meet through CS, talk a bit, and there's a definite something. Whether you meet up, or just keep the talk going for a while longer to test a few reactions, exchange photos, get on Skype; what's on your checklist? What makes you think, heyyyyy I think we have something here?

This is a rubbish list because I would pick more than one myself! But for me someone who was obviously enjoying my company obviously has superior sense and if they made me feel attractive and engaging, and not as if I wanted to run a mile in the opposite direction, I find that very appealing. Add any obvious ones that I missed!

It's not a concious checklist.. but it's definitely sub concious. The brain has a funny way of weighing up a few things and balancing off the pros and cons automatically... like, if a woman is on the chubby side of things... but she has a really pretty face and nice eyes and the chubbiness was distributed in a somewhat feminine way.... then she gets a pass.

Now, on the other hand, if some woman was an annoying little Ms. prim with a chip on her shoulder.... she bloody better look good. Or in my case most of the time... if she's a psycho... she better had some serious redeeming features to pull her across the line. Unfortunately for me, many of the psychos do. lol
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Aug 14, 2014 8:04 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
MADDOG69: It's not a concious checklist.. but it's definitely sub concious. The brain has a funny way of weighing up a few things and balancing off the pros and cons automatically... like, if a woman is on the chubby side of things... but she has a really pretty face and nice eyes and the chubbiness was distributed in a somewhat feminine way.... then she gets a pass.

Now, on the other hand, if some woman was an annoying little Ms. prim with a chip on her shoulder.... she bloody better look good. Or in my case most of the time... if she's a psycho... she better had some serious redeeming features to pull her across the line. Unfortunately for me, many of the psychos do. lol


So you would date an annoying little Ms. prim with a chip on her shoulder, or a psycho.....if they were attractive lookinf enough??
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Aug 14, 2014 8:13 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
mollybaby: So you would date an annoying little Ms. prim with a chip on her shoulder, or a psycho.....if they were attractive lookinf enough??

Sure if she didn't have that crazy look in her eye I probably wouldn't be interested. That explains the last 15 years I think.
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Aug 14, 2014 8:26 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
VivianLee: So you meet through CS, talk a bit, and there's a definite something. Whether you meet up, or just keep the talk going for a while longer to test a few reactions, exchange photos, get on Skype; what's on your checklist? What makes you think, heyyyyy I think we have something here?

This is a rubbish list because I would pick more than one myself! But for me someone who was obviously enjoying my company obviously has superior sense and if they made me feel attractive and engaging, and not as if I wanted to run a mile in the opposite direction, I find that very appealing. Add any obvious ones that I missed!


Everything you listed is appealing to me. The trick is finding and keeping it. laugh
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Aug 14, 2014 8:31 PM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
sirLarryIII
sirLarryIIIsirLarryIIIClump, Kildare Ireland72 Threads 9 Polls 2,016 Posts
MADDOG69: if a woman is on the chubby side of things... but she has a really pretty face and nice eyes and the chubbiness was distributed in a somewhat feminine way.... then she gets a pass.


thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up

Spot on. And if a relatively attractive woman makes the most of herself regardless of size thats the same in my book
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Aug 15, 2014 2:21 AM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
Brannigan70: Well maybe not but she might be wearing crocodile shoes

Nice to see ye about J


I'm always about somewhere :)

Nice to see you too.
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Aug 15, 2014 2:56 AM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
VivianLee: What makes you think, heyyyyy I think we have something here?


Attraction - that is not about someone being physically attractive in the classic sense, but simply what draws me to someone.

I like someone who tickles my mind, who is witty and I just can look into laughing eyes and you feel comfortable chatting to someone.

If that is coupled with certain other features, that just might make it explosive. smitten laugh
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Aug 15, 2014 3:12 AM CST What is attractive? Do you have a checklist that must be met?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Obstinance_Works: That magical combination of beauty and low self-esteem. She needs to be beautiful, but if she realises this then I'm finished.


laugh yanno Obs, you're actually quite a comic.
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