If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting (129)
SoonerGal: Well what would you do if you guys have been texting/ talking and all of a sudden nothing
I would assume he lost interest in me. After so much talking he probably realized I'm not what he's looking for. It's a bitter pill but better to face it early rather then later
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monteisback: I would assume he lost interest in me. After so much talking he probably realized I'm not what he's looking for. It's a bitter pill but better to face it early rather then later
but shouldn't he be man enough to say so?
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SoonerGal: Well what would you do if you guys have been texting/ talking and all of a sudden nothing
let him go - perfect solution
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SoonerGal: but shouldn't he be man enough to say so?
Absolutely he should tell you that he doesn't think the two of you are a good match. That's what I would do.
I was involved with someone for a year a long time ago. Out of the blue he stopped calling me. It took a long time before I found out why he did that.
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bulldog5150: let him go - perfect solution
I know it sounds perfect....but how can someone do someone that way, without something, like you suck, blah blah blah
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SoonerGal: Well what would you do if you guys have been texting/ talking and all of a sudden nothing
Outside of extenuating circumstances beyond his control, I would assume he's lost interest. Not having the balls to give the reason is indication enough that he's probably not a good match for you anyway. It's nice to dodge a bullet early on.
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monteisback: Absolutely he should tell you that he doesn't think the two of you are a good match. That's what I would do.
I was involved with someone for a year a long time ago. Out of the blue he stopped calling me. It took a long time before I found out why he did that.
I was involved with someone for a year a long time ago. Out of the blue he stopped calling me. It took a long time before I found out why he did that.
that had to hurt
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SoonerGal: Well what would you do if you guys have been texting/ talking and all of a sudden nothing
I am actually talking with many guys, so if one guy left me, there would be nothing to think about...LOL...My brother teach me, when a man hasn't put a ring on me, I should not think about him like a crazy...LOL...
I think he is right... that's why I am always happy... Take it easy... That is not the end of the world...
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SoonerGal: that had to hurt I'm sorry a year is a long time
I learned something from my last relationship.
When you have expectations you leave the door wide open for disappointment.
And that relationship was 18 months
I no longer expect anything except respect because everyone should be respected regardless of the situation.
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Cyn_Real: I am actually talking with many guys, so if one guy left me, there would be nothing to think about...LOL...My brother teach me, when a man hasn't put a ring on me, I should not think about him like a crazy...LOL... I think he is right... that's why I am always happy...
Take it easy... That is not the end of the world...
Take it easy... That is not the end of the world...
yah I know, but I'd really like to hear why, like you suck, or something
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SoonerGal: yah I know, but I'd really like to hear why, like you suck, or something
Why do you want him to tell you the negatives he sees in you??
Is that going to make you feel better??
Will you give him a pass for being rude if he tells you what he doesn't like about you??
Let it go
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SoonerGal: Well what would you do if you guys have been texting/ talking and all of a sudden nothing
Let him go. Simple.
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SoonerGal: yah I know, but I'd really like to hear why, like you suck, or something
You don't want to know what he has to say, trust me.
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SoonerGal: but shouldn't he be man enough to say so?
Class, manners, and integrity would dictate that the guy would handle business in a clean, respectful way. Sadly, it seems these are fading traits. Makes you wonder how they handle the other aspects of their life. Females, too, of course. Just my thought on it.------ This poll is Archived ------
CapNemo: Class, manners, and integrity would dictate that the guy would handle business in a clean, respectful way. Sadly, it seems these are fading traits. Makes you wonder how they handle the other aspects of their life. Females, too, of course. Just my thought on it.
I know but be it good or bad, a girl wants to know
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SoonerGal: I know but be it good or bad, a girl wants to know
Why do you want him to tell you the negatives he sees in you??
Is that going to make you feel better??
Will you give him a pass for being rude if he tells you what he doesn't like about you??
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2intrigued: Outside of extenuating circumstances beyond his control, I would assume he's lost interest. Not having the balls to give the reason is indication enough that he's probably not a good match for you anyway. It's nice to dodge a bullet early on.
hi
I'm sure your right, but still------ This poll is Archived ------
monteisback: Why do you want him to tell you the negatives he sees in you??
Is that going to make you feel better??
Will you give him a pass for being rude if he tells you what he doesn't like about you??
I should clarify that for me its not about whats wrong with me, but why the stoppage of communication without the respect of a reason. I'm not awake yet.Is that going to make you feel better??
Will you give him a pass for being rude if he tells you what he doesn't like about you??
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monteisback: Why do you want him to tell you the negatives he sees in you??
Is that going to make you feel better??
Will you give him a pass for being rude if he tells you what he doesn't like about you??
Is that going to make you feel better??
Will you give him a pass for being rude if he tells you what he doesn't like about you??
no it's not going to make me feel better, but I think silence is the worst, imo
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this is not going to end well
(piping from the peanut gallery)
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SoonerGal: no it's not going to make me feel better, but I think silence is the worst, imo
I absolutely know how you feel. In the relationship I had years ago I was visiting him for Christmas after knowing him a year. He took me to the airport and I never heard from him again. However, I called him many times and when he finally answered the phone, I got the answer why he abandoned me.
Maybe you should call him. Could it be that he's waiting to see if you're interested enough to call him? Think about that.
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CapNemo: I should clarify that for me its not about whats wrong with me, but why the stoppage of communication without the respect of a reason. I'm not awake yet.
huh
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CapNemo: I should clarify that for me its not about whats wrong with me, but why the stoppage of communication without the respect of a reason. I'm not awake yet.
huh
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I would expect him to tell me why he's no longer interested.If I got no response all I could really do is move on.
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monteisback: I absolutely know how you feel. In the relationship I had years ago I was visiting him for Christmas after knowing him a year. He took me to the airport and I never heard from him again. However, I called him many times and when he finally answered the phone, I got the answer why he abandoned me.
Maybe you should call him. Could it be that he's waiting to see if you're interested enough to call him? Think about that.
Maybe you should call him. Could it be that he's waiting to see if you're interested enough to call him? Think about that.
no, it's not that...we actually haven't met....ok I'm sorry to bore and interrupt your evening....but Monte you have a lot of stories that I want to hear
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SoonerGal: no, it's not that...we actually haven't met....ok I'm sorry to bore and interrupt your evening....but Monte you have a lot of stories that I want to hear
the possibilties are endless. jus dont stress it
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SoonerGal: yah I know, but I'd really like to hear why, like you suck, or something
No. I think the guys we have been talking are also talking with many other ladies as well... so I guess we should not expect more if there is still no single sign into something special... It is a process... Finding someone special takes time... but I finally found now and stop texting/talking with the other guys...
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