Is it rude to just ignore an e-mail? (125)
Chriztopher: If you have taken the time to write an e-mail to a person after reading their profile;
Is it rude to be ignored? Or should you at least get some reply?
Is it rude to be ignored? Or should you at least get some reply?
I think so, yes, depending on the type of message received. The problem is, lots of people don't like a "thanks but no thanks" response and I'm sure many don't respond because of it.
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unlaoised: I think so, yes, depending on the type of message received. The problem is, lots of people don't like a "thanks but no thanks" response and I'm sure many don't respond because of it.
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unlaoised: I think so, yes, depending on the type of message received. The problem is, lots of people don't like a "thanks but no thanks" response and I'm sure many don't respond because of it.
What she wrote.
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It is rude, but rudeness is sometimes necessary.
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Singlelisious: What she wrote.
Lazy
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I think maybe copy and paste... "Thanks but I'm involved, as my profile states " but, that takes time away from the Forums, which is what I am on here for,so I don't answer all my e mails..
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I ignore NO e-mails, even from scammers.Always ask scammers to teach me,the scamming game.
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unlaoised: I think so, yes, depending on the type of message received. The problem is, lots of people don't like a "thanks but no thanks" response and I'm sure many don't respond because of it.
I would rather have a polite "thanks but no" as opposed to nothing at all. Otherwise, I am always tempted to try writing again. But then I try to write a polite message to begin with. Usually a little more then "Hey HMU" or "Wanna get it on?"... To those types of messages, who cares what they think?
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serena123: I think maybe copy and paste... "Thanks but I'm involved, as my profile states " but, that takes time away from the Forums, which is what I am on here for,so I don't answer all my e mails..
I pick and choose, as well. I do, however, believe that posting a profile and telling the CS clubbers who you are and what some of your stats, interests are, is a tacit invitation to communicate. Otherwise, why do it? You wouldn't go into a newsstand and ask the clerk if he carried any reading material, would you?
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unlaoised: I think so, yes, depending on the type of message received. The problem is, lots of people don't like a "thanks but no thanks" response and I'm sure many don't respond because of it.
Yep, totally agree.
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Chriztopher: If you have taken the time to write an e-mail to a person after reading their profile;
Is it rude to be ignored? Or should you at least get some reply?
Is it rude to be ignored? Or should you at least get some reply?
I've got much bigger things to feel bad about. From the pollution caused by Chinese industrialisation, the mortgaged futures of children whose lives will never be, and the fact that I wear some pairs of underpants more than others.
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uptall: Lazy
Si
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chris27292729: I ignore NO e-mails, even from scammers.Always ask scammers to teach me,the scamming game.
Do they??
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Chriztopher: If you have taken the time to write an e-mail to a person after reading their profile;
Is it rude to be ignored? Or should you at least get some reply?
Is it rude to be ignored? Or should you at least get some reply?
It's pretty common for people to feel it's very rude, when they're new to this.
Once it's explained why it happens, most people understand.
Emails are usually ignored because the recipient doesn't want backlash over a polite "thanks but no thanks", or because the sender was acting counter the recipients stated preferences. Such as contacting people that say they don't wish to be contacted or ignoring age or location preferences.
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Unfortunately NOT,but one. Wrote back saying the Trade is overcrowded.
Singlelisious: Do they??
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If I were to message someone and don't get a reply back I don't sweat about it.I don't waste my time messaging them again.
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Chriztopher: If you have taken the time to write an e-mail to a person after reading their profile;
Is it rude to be ignored? Or should you at least get some reply?
Is it rude to be ignored? Or should you at least get some reply?
Not rude, no.
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Kaybee50: I send you a similar message 10 times a day and you still ignore me.
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No, it's not being rude.
It's simply saying I'm not interested in chatting.
I don't respond because when I have engaged, a refusal to continue chat, has often offended.
So, I take the kinder approach and don't respond. Most people get the message when I don't reply.
Sometimes, I must admit, I feel a bit of a meanie, but it works best for me.
It's simply saying I'm not interested in chatting.
I don't respond because when I have engaged, a refusal to continue chat, has often offended.
So, I take the kinder approach and don't respond. Most people get the message when I don't reply.
Sometimes, I must admit, I feel a bit of a meanie, but it works best for me.
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@ 2intrigued...
...that's a funny wee man you got there...
...that's a funny wee man you got there...
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BerrySmoothie: @ 2intrigued...
...that's a funny wee man you got there...
...that's a funny wee man you got there...
There's loads more where I found him.
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2intrigued: There's loads more where I found him.
I just need one Deb...
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Hi
I have made it a bit easy for me. I added on my profile, if they ask for my email or personal id something like that lol I will not respond. Otherwise I do try to answer. Funny thing is they still ask for my mail, so sometimes i do write back suggest they go back to school cos they have reading probs. And problems understanding the written word. After all I am Swedish so guess its normal not to understand me
I have made it a bit easy for me. I added on my profile, if they ask for my email or personal id something like that lol I will not respond. Otherwise I do try to answer. Funny thing is they still ask for my mail, so sometimes i do write back suggest they go back to school cos they have reading probs. And problems understanding the written word. After all I am Swedish so guess its normal not to understand me
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BerrySmoothie: I just need one Deb...
Will this one do the trick?
Just teasing ya Berry...you deserve the very best.
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I do not respond anymore,,used to and the rude messages I got back ...all ugly and nasty. Delete and move on.
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2intrigued: Will this one do the trick?
Just teasing ya Berry...you deserve the very best.
Just teasing ya Berry...you deserve the very best.
I'm just about ready to take anything I can get.
I kid you not!
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BerrySmoothie: I'm just about ready to take anything I can get.
I kid you not!
I kid you not!
No way, do not settle and that's an order young lady.
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2intrigued: No way, do not settle and that's an order young lady.
Ok sis...
Singledom it is...
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Personally if the e-mail is in good taste and you are ignoring them - I would consider it rude or impolite. It would be interesting to note how many women ignore e-mails in comparison to men.
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Chriztopher: If you have taken the time to write an e-mail to a person after reading their profile;
Is it rude to be ignored? Or should you at least get some reply?
Is it rude to be ignored? Or should you at least get some reply?
Depends what you put in the email. If it was somewhat innocuous...why would they ignore it????
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Is it rude to be ignored? Or should you at least get some reply?