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Aug 30, 2014 8:53 PM CSTHow do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State, Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts

How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..(Vote Below)

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33.333 % each = I have not idea
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6%
50 % Family + 30 % myself
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26%
50 % Society + 30 % myself
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0%
50 % myself + 30 % society
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6%
50 % myself + 30 % Family
2
6%
Mostly family
6
19%
Mostly Society
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3%
Mostly myself
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23%
100 % myself ( is that possible?)
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10%
Other, please explain
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Which of the three factors -family, yourself, society- has had the most impact in “who” you are?

Or any other factor for that matter.

TV?
Education?
Friends?
Husband/wife
Children?
Work?
Country?
Food?
CS? laugh

etc.....

Thanks in advance.


bouquet
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Aug 30, 2014 9:11 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Golly, listening to a radio interview, or reading a book can dramatically influence the direction of my life.

So many, many influences.

It would take a lifetime to account for them all.
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Aug 30, 2014 9:21 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
jac_the_gripper: Golly, listening to a radio interview, or reading a book can dramatically influence the direction of my life.

So many, many influences.

It would take a lifetime to account for them all.


Can you laugh identify one source that has had the most impact in who you are?




wine
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Aug 30, 2014 9:25 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Hiya Life wave This really is a tough one. I like to think my early childhood experiences with my family, friends and teachers formed my basic values but overall, it's a combination of anything and everything right down to genetics as well. All of these things played a part in my future endeavours which also played a part on who I am today. We are influenced each and every day until we draw our last breath.
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Aug 30, 2014 9:28 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
2intrigued: Hiya Life This really is a tough one. I like to think my early childhood experiences with my family, friends and teachers formed my basic values but overall, it's a combination of anything and everything right down to genetics as well. All of these things played a part in my future endeavours which also played a part on who I am today. We are influenced each and every day until we draw our last breath.


Yes 2I, that is quite right we do have so many influences in our life but:

Can you identify one source that has had the most impact in who you are?



wave
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Aug 30, 2014 9:37 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
lifeisadream: Yes 2I, that is quite right we do have so many influences in our life but:

Can you identify one source that has had the most impact in who you are?


Just guessing because it truly is difficult, I'd say my family was probably the greater influence for me. hug
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Aug 30, 2014 9:54 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
None of the above.
doh
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Aug 30, 2014 10:05 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
About 50/50 nature and nurture. Nature and nurture I actually believe to be a false dichotomy, but I'm not getting into that drunk at 4am after the club.
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Aug 30, 2014 10:38 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Hi Life wave

Mostly my own life experiences, I would say.

My family provided the groundwork early in my childhood and then the rest was up to me. My folks were wonderful providers but not terrific parents, unfortunately.

I've been influenced by mentors, friends, literature etc but mainly have chosen the path less travelled...because I like to experience it for myself.
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Aug 30, 2014 10:39 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
for me it’s those unscripted moments of observation.


for example……..

last week at the grocery store a bunch of us were watching the most beautiful sunset

while at the park, I saw 3 bucks flushed out of a wooded area by barking dogs.

watching my neighbor’s cat laying on my front lawn watching someone walk their dog down the street.

and those moments when I observe authentic interaction between 2 or more human beings.
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Aug 30, 2014 11:10 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
lifeisadream: Can you identify one source that has had the most impact in who you are?

Me, because I process all my influences.
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Aug 30, 2014 11:14 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
2intrigued: Just guessing because it truly is difficult, I'd say my family was probably the greater influence for me.

My family was a great influence on me too 2I. However, I wonder if it was the biggest one.

hmmm

hug

NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: None of the above doh .


We do have the "other " option N.

laugh

wave

Obstinance_Works: About 50/50 nature and nurture. Nature and nurture I actually believe to be a false dichotomy, but I'm not getting into that drunk at 4am after the club.


Nurture and Nature OB?

For God’s sake do not be that boring!

Try again, please.
(if you can on the wagon)

laugh

BerrySmoothie: Hi Life

Mostly my own life experiences, I would say.

My family provided the groundwork early in my childhood and then the rest was up to me. My folks were wonderful providers but not terrific parents, unfortunately.

I've been influenced by mentors, friends, literature etc but mainly have chosen the path less travelled...because I like to experience it for myself.


Hi Berry!
Yes, mentors, friends, books... do influence us but which ones are the most relevant ones.

When you say mentors I do remember my 3rd. grade teacher, she was special and she did mark my life but she was not the only one.



wave
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Aug 30, 2014 11:22 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
purr4mance: for me it’s those unscripted moments of observation.for example……..

last week at the grocery store a bunch of us were watching the most beautiful sunset

while at the park, I saw 3 bucks flushed out of a wooded area by barking dogs.

watching my neighbor’s cat laying on my front lawn watching someone walk their dog down the street.

and those moments when I observe authentic interaction between 2 or more human beings.


Moments, yes.

I have some special moments that have shaped my life and I wonder why I can remember them like from being about 3 yr o.

Observation? of course!

So, is it yourself?


hmmm
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Aug 30, 2014 11:23 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
lifeisadream: My family was a great influence on me too 2I. However, I wonder if it was the biggest one.




We do have the "other " option N.




Nurture and Nature OB?

For God’s sake do not be that boring!

Try again, please.
(if you can on the wagon)


Hi Berry!
Yes, mentors, friends, books... do influence us but which ones are the most relevant ones.

When you say mentors I do remember my 3rd. grade teacher, she was special and she did mark my life but she was not the only one.



No one person or thing stands out for me....it's just been a journey that I have travelled largely alone, influenced by my own perception and understanding of the world.
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Aug 30, 2014 11:47 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
jac_the_gripper: Me, because I process all my influences.
BerrySmoothie: No one person or thing stands out for me....it's just been a journey that I have travelled largely alone, influenced by my own perception and understanding of the world.


My family did a great job on me (it does not mean I have taken it all, though)School did too a wonderful work on me, teachers, professors, mentors…. Again (it does not mean I have taken it all, though)

Society has done not much on me because I have not allowed it:
–in my place and in my time-.

How I see life is a personal interpretation of it as you do
–I think- Jac and Berry.

hmmm
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Aug 31, 2014 12:29 AM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
Leo_7
Leo_7Leo_7Baku, Azerbaijan87 Threads 16 Polls 2,514 Posts
I m 80-90% myself.I have my own understanding about life and i follow only my own beliefs.my views about life is different from my culture and from people around me.
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Aug 31, 2014 1:51 AM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Hiya lifeisadream, wave factors are different depending on age I think.

When I was young, my family had the biggest influence, I don't think school/teachers were a big influence. Of course society, I grew up in a place where I had the opportunity to make my own choices.

As I get older, I am less influenced by other people and do more my own thing.
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Aug 31, 2014 2:11 AM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
I have always tried to be kind/supportive...towards people.nature being what it is.......some have taken advantage of this......as a sign of weakness.....at least I can sleep at night,knowing that I have tried........wave
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Aug 31, 2014 2:27 AM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
All of my experiences through life have shaped me into who I am today, and tomorrow's will continue to shape me even further.
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Aug 31, 2014 3:42 AM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
Leo_7
Leo_7Leo_7Baku, Azerbaijan87 Threads 16 Polls 2,514 Posts
truheart1941: I have always tried to be kind/supportive...towards people.nature being what it is.......some have taken advantage of this......as a sign of weakness.....at least I can sleep at night,knowing that I have tried........
thumbs up i feel the samecheers
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Aug 31, 2014 1:42 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
lifeisadream: Moments, yes.

I have some special moments that have shaped my life and I wonder why I can remember them like from being about 3 yr o.

Observation? of course!

So, is it yourself?



for the most part, outside of the early years
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Aug 31, 2014 1:48 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
lifeisadream: Can you identify one source that has had the most impact in who you are?





I would say my two children has the biggest influence on my life.::coffee:
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Aug 31, 2014 1:49 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
monteisback
monteisbackmonteisbackTwinkletoes, New Jersey USA2 Threads 152 Posts
lifeisadream: Which of the three factors -family, yourself, society- has had the most impact in “who” you are?

Or any other factor for that matter.

TV?
Education?
Friends?
Husband/wife
Children?
Work?
Country?
Food?
CS?

etc.....

Thanks in advance.




It's not on your list but my parents are responsible 90% for shaping the life I am living now

sigh
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Aug 31, 2014 1:57 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
peachmelba: I would say my two children has the biggest influence on my life.::coffee:





Well maybe I should say my two have made the biggest impact on me,,

I would say my family have always been an influence on my life or at least try to ,,:as I tend to listen to myself first,, not always with positive results but have been my choices,,,envoirment ,media ,books ,music ,would be kind of an influence to.
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Aug 31, 2014 2:57 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
Kattte
KattteKattteVancouver, British Columbia Canada759 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Hi Life

Mostly my own life experiences, I would say.

My family provided the groundwork early in my childhood and then the rest was up to me. My folks were wonderful providers but not terrific parents, unfortunately.

I've been influenced by mentors, friends, literature etc but mainly have chosen the path less travelled...because I like to experience it for myself.

No one person or thing stands out for me....it's just been a journey that I have travelled largely alone, influenced by my own perception and understanding of the world.


That seems to sum-up mine as well; having taken all the roads that sane people would reject. Parents were lousy and totally irresponsible, never caring about how they influenced me . I saw the world without coloured lenses or Disney glasses but as place populated to a large extent by the proverbial “quick and the dead” and all the shades of the ‘good, bad, and ugly, and very ugly types that only revelled in causing and inflicting as much pain, sorrow and death on as many people as possible…I guess not having anyone to share those roads with was a good thing thing, or so as I’m still trying to convince myself of that...
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Aug 31, 2014 3:00 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
hi life....where does it come from.....???? a good question.....with me, it was watching my mother...she would help people...for no rewards.......it was her nature...I suppose......and she was loved.....so I take after her.....bless her.xxxxxxxx,
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Aug 31, 2014 3:02 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
lifeisadream: Note: The multiple posts in one are to avoid this thread going on top many times and displace other threads.
Thanks to all for your comments!
Climate has a big influence on people mood/personality.

Can you identify the most important factor that has shaped you as you are at this moment?

Then it is Yourself.Hi K
At this moment it is yourself then.I think everybody can see that you are a good person True but from where does it come?

Can you separate those experiences in a major source? Or several most important sources?

How old are they?
There is the choice of family that includes parents Monte.
What about friends?



My children are young adults now,
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Aug 31, 2014 3:05 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
Brannigan70
Brannigan70Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland35 Threads 2,339 Posts
lifeisadream: Which of the three factors -family, yourself, society- has had the most impact in “who” you are?

Or any other factor for that matter.

TV?
Education?
Friends?
Husband/wife
Children?
Work?
Country?
Food?
CS?

etc.....

Thanks in advance.
Your second option for me grin
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Aug 31, 2014 3:08 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
peachmelba: My children are young adults now,



They keep me grounded otherwise I'd probaly be off backpacking somewhere out in the wild,laugh
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Aug 31, 2014 3:11 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Family, society,myself,are interconnected,shaping characters,so every one else in this world.-
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Aug 31, 2014 3:19 PM CST How do you believe you have been shaped from? family, society, yourself…..
lifeisadream: Which of the three factors -family, yourself, society- has had the most impact in “who” you are?

Or any other factor for that matter.

TV?
Education?
Friends?
Husband/wife
Children?
Work?
Country?
Food?
CS?

etc.....

Thanks in advance.
I 80% look like my Dad wave
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