You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual. ( Archived) (35)

Sep 21, 2014 8:50 AM CSTYou are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
Bauksi
BauksiBauksiVölkermarkt, Carinthia, Austria13 Threads 8 Polls 101 Posts

You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.(Vote Below)

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never give up
11
21%
wait for a while
14
27%
break up the relation at once
21
40%
go to a therapist
4
8%
dull poll - such a thing never happens!
2
4%
Total Votes
52
You are head over ears in love. But he/she is not able to return your love.
What would you do in such a case?
What did you do if it happened in the past?
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Sep 21, 2014 8:53 AM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Obviously move on.
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Sep 21, 2014 8:53 AM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
Let her out of the Barn to graze on some grass, she will come around.
rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 21, 2014 10:11 AM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
In your case, Bauksi, I'd say: If she looks like the one from North Carolina, try your best to get laid and make it your best memory after she dumps you. Who cares whether she loves you or not laugh wink
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Sep 21, 2014 9:11 PM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
fugitive432
fugitive432fugitive432Toronto, Ontario Canada5 Threads 5 Polls 42 Posts
Find a really really good therapist, maybe the therapist can sleep with you? yay
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Sep 22, 2014 2:56 AM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Walk away.

Nothing more painful than loving someone who does not return the love.
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Sep 22, 2014 2:58 AM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
BerrySmoothie: Walk away.

Nothing more painful than loving someone who does not return the love.
well saidthumbs up
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Sep 22, 2014 2:58 AM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
mickyj63
mickyj63mickyj63adelaide, South Australia Australia101 Threads 2,362 Posts
I've been in love and rejected and rejected some as well

Just walk away hold your head up high and move on
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Sep 22, 2014 2:14 PM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
LadyDiz2
LadyDiz2LadyDiz2Jhb, Gauteng South Africa1,740 Posts
You hurt, you cry, then cry a little more, then carry on, a little sadder and a little more cautious of giving your heart than before. But life goes on, and so must you....sigh
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Sep 22, 2014 2:26 PM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
What do you do?

You learn and grow.
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Sep 22, 2014 2:36 PM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Bauksi: You are head over ears in love. But he/she is not able to return your love.
What would you do in such a case?
What did you do if it happened in the past?


Get drunk.
Smash your apartment up.
Pick fights.
Refuse to go outside for days or even weeks at a time.
Sleep with as many women as humanly possible.

Afterwards you'll be fully healed and 100% emotionally stable. I promise.
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Sep 22, 2014 2:39 PM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
Obstinance_Works: Get drunk.
Smash your apartment up.
Pick fights.
Refuse to go outside for days or even weeks at a time.
Sleep with as many women as humanly possible.

Afterwards you'll be fully healed and 100% emotionally stable. I promise.
You sure know how to party Rumples. giggle
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Sep 22, 2014 2:54 PM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Bauksi: You are head over ears in love. But he/she is not able to return your love.
What would you do in such a case?
What did you do if it happened in the past?


Concentrate on the fact that she's more intelligent than you'd like a woman to be a move on professor
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Sep 22, 2014 3:03 PM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
LadyDiz2: You hurt, you cry, then cry a little more, then carry on, a little sadder and a little more cautious of giving your heart than before. But life goes on, and so must you....


I agree, but with less crying.laugh
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Sep 22, 2014 3:04 PM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
unlaoised: Concentrate on the fact that she's more intelligent than you'd like a woman to be a move on


laugh Touche.
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Sep 22, 2014 3:06 PM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
pedalguy59: Touche.


wink laugh
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Sep 22, 2014 3:56 PM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
mags2014
mags2014mags2014cavan, Cavan Ireland36 Posts
Walk away ,if they love you they will come find you
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Sep 22, 2014 4:57 PM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
Wait awhile, and see if she catches up. It can be hard for people to see each other as they are, and we rarely get there at the same time. Eventually if she didn't get there I'd leave.
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Sep 23, 2014 6:57 AM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
RainComeShine
RainComeShineRainComeShineDevon, England UK22 Threads 22 Polls 425 Posts
Don't hang around or she may use you as a stand by when all the time she's breaking your heart.

Get away sooner rather than later!
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Sep 23, 2014 7:16 AM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
Count_Me_In
Count_Me_InCount_Me_InMackay, Queensland Australia1 Threads 570 Posts
loving someone and all the signs are that it is not returned.....well, actions speak louder than words...stick around and mess your head and heart up or make a wise decision and move in a more positive direction

all the best to those out there who have loved alone....teddybear
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Sep 23, 2014 7:24 AM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
lushguy4you
lushguy4youlushguy4youIstanbul, Marmara Turkey44 Threads 3,004 Posts
Break up the relation at once

Is there a relationship if one is in love and the other is ???? I dont think so therefore you are better to walk and move on than to try for something that we never be there.

all feelings have to be mutually between two people willingly
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Sep 23, 2014 7:30 AM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
drinking seems like a good enough reason to start to drink. crying


coffee never tastes better with a broken heart.
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Sep 23, 2014 7:56 AM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
Count_Me_In
Count_Me_InCount_Me_InMackay, Queensland Australia1 Threads 570 Posts
lushguy4you: Break up the relation at once

Is there a relationship if one is in love and the other is ???? I dont think so therefore you are better to walk and move on than to try for something that we never be there.

all feelings have to be mutually between two people willingly


Feelings can be mutual between two people...but can be blurred and misconstrued by each other

to the point where one just doubts the other and their feelings

talking honestly may be a good starting point
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Sep 23, 2014 8:03 AM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
Count_Me_In: Feelings can be mutual between two people...but can be blurred and misconstrued by each other

to the point where one just doubts the other and their feelings

talking honestly may be a good starting point


True - yet the heart can't be made to love, can it?
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Sep 23, 2014 8:14 AM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
Bauksi: You are head over ears in love. But he/she is not able to return your love.
What would you do in such a case?
What did you do if it happened in the past?



The head over heels in love thingie sounds more like lust to me.

I've loved four men in my life.

One was my husband who I know loved me but he died in 1977

The second one I loved for six years but it was never returned. Foolishy I stayed because I loved him. That was a mistake

Didn't learn my lesson so...

The third one said he loved me all the time. That was his way of using me for financial reasons. It was a long distance relationship so I didn't see the writing on the wall.

The fourth one I loved and I'm pretty sure that he loved me but I'm not positive.

If I had it to do over again I'd love my husband and the fourth one.

This love business is a pain in the --- dancing dog
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Sep 23, 2014 8:15 AM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
Count_Me_In
Count_Me_InCount_Me_InMackay, Queensland Australia1 Threads 570 Posts
JeanKimberley: True - yet the heart can't be made to love, can it?


hi JeanK....the heart cannot be made to love so one person loving another who is just not in love or interested is totally unfounded

but to talk and understand each other may give the two people some important points to work with in a future love relationship.....
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Sep 23, 2014 1:56 PM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
Rachel32
Rachel32Rachel32Doha, Qatar3 Posts
Ocee102: Wait awhile, and see if she catches up. It can be hard for people to see each other as they are, and we rarely get there at the same time. Eventually if she didn't get there I'd leave.



Does it really need the lady to do the first move to catch up? What if both of you are waiting for each other to start the move? Pride it is...
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Sep 23, 2014 4:47 PM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
It depends on how far into the relationship it is.

If you are just starting off, and you are 'in love', and the other person is taking their time, and being a bit more circumspect, then you must give them the time to allow them to trust you and have reciprocal feelings.

If it is deep into a relationship, and there is a definite disparity in feelings, you have got to decide if you need more out of a relationship aka. Leave.
Or if you want to continue the relationship for other reasons, such as companionship, friendship, financial reasons, etc. aka Stay.
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Sep 23, 2014 5:05 PM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
Bauksi: You are head over ears in love. But he/she is not able to return your love.
What would you do in such a case?
What did you do if it happened in the past?


if you can't move eros into agape, my advice is to walk away.
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Sep 23, 2014 5:27 PM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
jono7: if you can't move eros into agape, my advice is to walk away.


thumbs up

The English language is so limited when it comes to descriptions of love...moping
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Sep 23, 2014 5:33 PM CST You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.
mollybaby: The English language is so limited when it comes to descriptions of love...
mine isit,nt spread em.....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing laugh
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