You are head over ears in love. But he/she is not able to return your love. What would you do in such a case? What did you do if it happened in the past?
NidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia1,430 posts
In your case, Bauksi, I'd say: If she looks like the one from North Carolina, try your best to get laid and make it your best memory after she dumps you. Who cares whether she loves you or not
You hurt, you cry, then cry a little more, then carry on, a little sadder and a little more cautious of giving your heart than before. But life goes on, and so must you....
Bauksi: You are head over ears in love. But he/she is not able to return your love. What would you do in such a case? What did you do if it happened in the past?
Get drunk. Smash your apartment up. Pick fights. Refuse to go outside for days or even weeks at a time. Sleep with as many women as humanly possible.
Afterwards you'll be fully healed and 100% emotionally stable. I promise.
Obstinance_Works: Get drunk. Smash your apartment up. Pick fights. Refuse to go outside for days or even weeks at a time. Sleep with as many women as humanly possible.
Afterwards you'll be fully healed and 100% emotionally stable. I promise.
Bauksi: You are head over ears in love. But he/she is not able to return your love. What would you do in such a case? What did you do if it happened in the past?
Concentrate on the fact that she's more intelligent than you'd like a woman to be a move on
LadyDiz2: You hurt, you cry, then cry a little more, then carry on, a little sadder and a little more cautious of giving your heart than before. But life goes on, and so must you....
Wait awhile, and see if she catches up. It can be hard for people to see each other as they are, and we rarely get there at the same time. Eventually if she didn't get there I'd leave.
loving someone and all the signs are that it is not returned.....well, actions speak louder than words...stick around and mess your head and heart up or make a wise decision and move in a more positive direction
all the best to those out there who have loved alone....
Is there a relationship if one is in love and the other is ???? I dont think so therefore you are better to walk and move on than to try for something that we never be there.
all feelings have to be mutually between two people willingly
Is there a relationship if one is in love and the other is ???? I dont think so therefore you are better to walk and move on than to try for something that we never be there.
all feelings have to be mutually between two people willingly
Feelings can be mutual between two people...but can be blurred and misconstrued by each other
to the point where one just doubts the other and their feelings
Bauksi: You are head over ears in love. But he/she is not able to return your love. What would you do in such a case? What did you do if it happened in the past?
The head over heels in love thingie sounds more like lust to me.
I've loved four men in my life.
One was my husband who I know loved me but he died in 1977
The second one I loved for six years but it was never returned. Foolishy I stayed because I loved him. That was a mistake
Didn't learn my lesson so...
The third one said he loved me all the time. That was his way of using me for financial reasons. It was a long distance relationship so I didn't see the writing on the wall.
The fourth one I loved and I'm pretty sure that he loved me but I'm not positive.
If I had it to do over again I'd love my husband and the fourth one.
Ocee102: Wait awhile, and see if she catches up. It can be hard for people to see each other as they are, and we rarely get there at the same time. Eventually if she didn't get there I'd leave.
Does it really need the lady to do the first move to catch up? What if both of you are waiting for each other to start the move? Pride it is...
It depends on how far into the relationship it is.
If you are just starting off, and you are 'in love', and the other person is taking their time, and being a bit more circumspect, then you must give them the time to allow them to trust you and have reciprocal feelings.
If it is deep into a relationship, and there is a definite disparity in feelings, you have got to decide if you need more out of a relationship aka. Leave. Or if you want to continue the relationship for other reasons, such as companionship, friendship, financial reasons, etc. aka Stay.
Bauksi: You are head over ears in love. But he/she is not able to return your love. What would you do in such a case? What did you do if it happened in the past?
if you can't move eros into agape, my advice is to walk away.
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You are head over ears in love. But it is not mutual.(Vote Below)
What would you do in such a case?
What did you do if it happened in the past?