Rejection ? ( Archived) (47)

Sep 23, 2014 6:22 PM CSTRejection ?
fugitive432
fugitive432fugitive432Toronto, Ontario, Canada5 Threads 5 Polls 42 Posts

Rejection ?(Vote Below)

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... is natural; it's a moody world.
15
31%
One develops an immunity after multiple exposure.
6
12%
...it just means "Maybe another time"
6
12%
White it out with positivism.
6
12%
Rejection is forever; a life sentence.
7
15%
Hold on to what you've got to avoid it.
5
10%
is a hallmark kneejerk reaction of culturelessness
3
6%
Total Votes
48
Thanks for the rantspace! I feel a bit better now.
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Sep 23, 2014 6:28 PM CST Rejection ?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
fugitive432: Thanks for the rantspace! I feel a bit better now.
So far the poll is 50/ 50.
I picked just moodyness but long before that people should figure that out.head banger handshake
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Sep 23, 2014 6:29 PM CST Rejection ?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
EveryBody has free will.

If they choose not to want you, you can either see it or rejection, or a get-out-of-jail-free card from a loveless relationship.
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Sep 23, 2014 6:36 PM CST Rejection ?
fugitive432
fugitive432fugitive432Toronto, Ontario Canada5 Threads 5 Polls 42 Posts
mollybaby: EveryBody has free will.

If they choose not to want you, you can either see it or rejection, or a get-out-of-jail-free card from a loveless relationship.




It is defintely an out of jail card, I'm sure people know that underneath. True we often paint the rejected as somehow less aware, but it shouldn't be that way.
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Sep 23, 2014 6:38 PM CST Rejection ?
fugitive432
fugitive432fugitive432Toronto, Ontario Canada5 Threads 5 Polls 42 Posts
chatonlyman2: So far the poll is 50/ 50.
I picked just moodyness but long before that people should figure that out.



Yeah, you're right (in my opinion, moodiness abounds) but personally I voted for the last one because that made me feel better yay
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Sep 23, 2014 6:54 PM CST Rejection ?
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
...is the evidence of the poor judgment, of others.
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Sep 23, 2014 7:06 PM CST Rejection ?
Ziusudra
ZiusudraZiusudraHernando, Florida USA4 Threads 162 Posts
The old saying the stone that was rejected by the builders has become the cornerstone.
If we are rejected by what we assume will feed us what we seek is probably not good
for us from the start. Rejection and resistance is pretty much the same. When we go against
the flow of the natural order of love and harmony we only defeat ourselves.
Look not at rejection as a sign of defeat or lack of acceptance but a lesson in understanding
selective order.
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Sep 23, 2014 7:24 PM CST Rejection ?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
fugitive432: Yeah, you're right (in my opinion, moodiness abounds) but personally I voted for the last one because that made me feel better
Stick around.Worldwide opinions shows a common opinion. Usuallywave
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Sep 24, 2014 3:00 AM CST Rejection ?
Bauksi
BauksiBauksiVölkermarkt, Carinthia Austria13 Threads 8 Polls 101 Posts
fugitive432: Thanks for the rantspace! I feel a bit better now.


Let your hair grow, throw your glasses away and put the book to side and you will not be rejected anymore.

Greetings from a simple minded Austrian fellow
bauksi ;)
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Sep 24, 2014 3:03 AM CST Rejection ?
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
Bauksi: Let your hair grow, throw your glasses away and put the book to side and you will not be rejected anymore.

Greetings from a simple minded Austrian fellow
bauksi ;)


Yes, god forbid that you actually like who you are, where would we be without people telling us that we should conform to their ideal not our own.? doh
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Sep 24, 2014 3:04 AM CST Rejection ?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Bauksi: Let your hair grow, throw your glasses away and put the book to side and you will not be rejected anymore.

Greetings from a simple minded Austrian fellow
bauksi ;)


Wtf!? That's damned rude wow
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Sep 24, 2014 3:11 AM CST Rejection ?
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
serene56: Be nice to my potential new boyfriend please Jim


Gawwwd no Serene, say it isn't so. moping uh oh
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Sep 24, 2014 3:13 AM CST Rejection ?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
justjim63: Gawwwd no Serene, say it isn't so.




laugh It isn't so lol but Bauksi is simply a wind-up merchant, he uses words like some kind of performance art rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 24, 2014 3:17 AM CST Rejection ?
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
serene56: It isn't so lol but Bauksi is simply a wind-up merchant, he uses words like some kind of performance art


I know you're right and we know Bauksi and his ways but a new comer might not quite get him.
Glad he's not your boyfriend though!...You're way to clever for him...lol laugh hug
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Sep 24, 2014 3:37 AM CST Rejection ?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
REJECTION!!!!! shock Impossible, I am wonderful snooty
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Sep 24, 2014 3:53 AM CST Rejection ?
psygnar
psygnarpsygnarJleeb Al Shuyoukh, Al Farwaniyah Kuwait2 Threads 1 Polls 988 Posts
oh hell. too many times that i cant remember. frustrated
hang in there is all i can say.
there are good people on here in the forums hug cheers
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Sep 24, 2014 3:57 AM CST Rejection ?
serene56: It isn't so lol but Bauksi is simply a wind-up merchant, he uses words like some kind of performance art
Merchants come in all shapes and sizes.

I have nothing to sell.blues laugh
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Sep 24, 2014 4:08 AM CST Rejection ?
fugitive432: Thanks for the rantspace! I feel a bit better now.
Rejection can come in different forms. Could be in dating, could be with a job, could be something else. I don' t necessarily need to perceive it as rejection always though. In dating I just may not be a match for someone or them me. In a job they may have just found someone more suitable for the position.

These things have happened to me several times in the last 5 years, but I have learned to deal with them. All I can do is move forward and keep trying.wine

Welcome to the forums fugitive.handshake

In a couple of hours I' ll be going to my job which is totally unrelated to my education.laugh
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Sep 24, 2014 4:09 AM CST Rejection ?
unlaoised: Subtlety was never my strong suit

but absolutely!

Geesh!!

No, I don' t find you to be very subtle.laugh

wave unla
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Sep 24, 2014 5:08 AM CST Rejection ?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Rejection is fine. Winners lose and get rejected repeatedly throughout life.

It's how you handle the fear of rejection that counts. Does fear motivate you to the best you can be, to give you the best chances with women, with your job or with anything at all? Or do you wilt under the pressure of fear and do nothing, or aim so low in life that nobody cares(even yourself)whether you succeed? This is what separates the men from the boys.
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Sep 24, 2014 5:17 AM CST Rejection ?
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
Obstinance_Works: Rejection is fine. Winners lose and get rejected repeatedly throughout life.

It's how you handle the fear of rejection that counts. Does fear motivate you to the best you can be, to give you the best chances with women, with your job or with anything at all? Or do you wilt under the pressure of fear and do nothing, or aim so low in life that nobody cares(even yourself)whether you succeed? This is what separates the men from the boys.


Spot on Obs..thumbs up applause
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Sep 24, 2014 5:30 AM CST Rejection ?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
justjim63: Spot on Obs..


Cheers matey cheers
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Sep 24, 2014 6:43 AM CST Rejection ?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
Can't say it better than OW... Unfortunately quite a lot of people find it very difficult to deal with the rejection and usually get aggressive and abusive...wine
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Sep 24, 2014 6:50 AM CST Rejection ?
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
KremaP: Can't say it better than OW... Unfortunately quite a lot of people find it very difficult to deal with the rejection and usually get aggressive and abusive...


I don't, I just get sad....crying
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Sep 24, 2014 6:51 AM CST Rejection ?
justjim63
justjim63justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 2,592 Posts
justjim63: I don't, I just get sad....


Then I get happy again and the world is lovely..laugh wine
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Sep 24, 2014 9:48 AM CST Rejection ?
fugitive432
fugitive432fugitive432Toronto, Ontario Canada5 Threads 5 Polls 42 Posts
Bauksi: Let your hair grow, throw your glasses away and put the book to side and you will not be rejected anymore.

Greetings from a simple minded Austrian fellow
bauksi ;)



Very funny Bauksi. I like you though. You do realize, I'm sure, that what you suggest is only convenient for someone aspiring to be a barbie doll. You must not forget to include "and get the hand cuffs ready" 'cause once prince charming has come he'll be gone, not caring for my other charms (and don't you dare tell me I don't have any!)
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Sep 24, 2014 11:40 AM CST Rejection ?
Bauksi
BauksiBauksiVölkermarkt, Carinthia Austria13 Threads 8 Polls 101 Posts
fugitive432: Very funny Bauksi. I like you though. You do realize, I'm sure, that what you suggest is only convenient for someone aspiring to be a barbie doll. You must not forget to include "and get the hand cuffs ready" 'cause once prince charming has come he'll be gone, not caring for my other charms (and don't you dare tell me I don't have any!)

dear fugitive, i don't doubt that you are a charming lady, i only visited your pics on your profile and i saw one specific charming pic with your long hair. sorry for this misunderstandig, bauksi.
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Sep 24, 2014 1:37 PM CST Rejection ?
t84rod
t84rodt84rodNaperville, Illinois USA5 Threads 1 Polls 108 Posts
Bauksi: dear fugitive, i don't doubt that you are a charming lady, i only visited your pics on your profile and i saw one specific charming pic with your long hair. sorry for this misunderstandig, bauksi.


I also took a glance. Easily an 8+ In that particular photo. (And that is extremely high on my rating scale of beauty) perfection indeed! Ms. Fugitive makes a very valid point though.

I'm not into short hair myself. However, I'd take a brainy woman over a Barbie doll any day. tip hat
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Sep 24, 2014 1:54 PM CST Rejection ?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
joey987: No, I don' t find you to be very subtle.

unla


laugh I know, joey...I'm working on it laugh

wave hug
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Sep 24, 2014 2:11 PM CST Rejection ?
unlaoised: I know, joey...I'm working on it
elephant and rhino steaks?
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Sep 24, 2014 2:12 PM CST Rejection ?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
pedro27: elephant and rhino steaks?


is that a form of a dig?
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