Korey2hall: well, i know I'm attractive lol, I just want to know what others think
Why be too overly to concerned what others think about your looks.As long as you think you are that's all that really matters.It's obviously someone will either accept or they won't.Simple
secretagent09: You're not attractive because you asked if you're attractive
Work on your confidence and self esteem and you will be attractive to the right person
as I already said, I already know I am attractive lol, this isnt me asking cause I'm doubting myself, this is just me asking in general to people, I know I will find people who find me attractive and others that wont, everyone is different.
psygnar: oh dear i jus hope this one don't go as badly as the other guy's did. never seen that guy on the forums since
I literally have no fear, what ever people say is their own opinion, and as spiritual as I am, I love to hear others opinions, experiences, etc. It helps me know more about the human race and what drives people.
psygnarJleeb Al Shuyoukh, Al Farwaniyah Kuwait988 posts
Korey2hall: I literally have no fear, what ever people say is their own opinion, and as spiritual as I am, I love to hear others opinions, experiences, etc. It helps me know more about the human race and what drives people.
BerrySmoothie: The mere fact that you feel the need to ask the world if they think you're attractive, makes you less attractive to me.
....and then go on to say, you actually do find yourself attractive....
There is nothing more appealing than a quiet inner confidence and a sense of modesty.
If you know you're attractive, be happy with that...but my advice to you is, keep it to yourself.
not to sound rude, but you obviously did not understand what I meant by learning from others opinions on this matter lol, just cause someone asks others if they find them attractive does not mean that someone finds themselves unattractive. This is a good way to find the type of women that find a man like me attractive no matter what I say. Everyone is quick to judge someone, in my life weather a girl asked me this question I would say yes if I did find her attractive, because how I see that woman may or may not have confidence in her looks, but she will have confidence in another matter, for instance if she was an artist she would be confident in her art. All I am doing in this poll, is learning. :) And that is the most attractive thing anyone could have, the longing to learn more. Ignorance is a disgusting thing.
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
Korey2hall: not to sound rude, but you obviously did not understand what I meant by learning from others opinions on this matter lol, just cause someone asks others if they find them attractive does not mean that someone finds themselves unattractive. This is a good way to find the type of women that find a man like me attractive no matter what I say. Everyone is quick to judge someone, in my life weather a girl asked me this question I would say yes if I did find her attractive, because how I see that woman may or may not have confidence in her looks, but she will have confidence in another matter, for instance if she was an artist she would be confident in her art. All I am doing in this poll, is learning. :) And that is the most attractive thing anyone could have, the longing to learn more. Ignorance is a disgusting thing.
You're not being rude.
I can hear what you're saying(I think)
Let's just agree to disagree on the matter.
I don't find you unattractive visually, but as CC mentioned earlier....it is more about what YOU think of YOURSELF, and not what others think about YOU. The inner qualities of attraction are just as, if not more important than the outward visuals.
I just don't find men or women who feel they need to have to ask the question, appealing.
....but that is just my view. I'm sure there will be others who have their own opinions on the matter too.
Korey2hall: not to sound rude, but you obviously did not understand what I meant by learning from others opinions on this matter lol, just cause someone asks others if they find them attractive does not mean that someone finds themselves unattractive. This is a good way to find the type of women that find a man like me attractive no matter what I say. Everyone is quick to judge someone, in my life weather a girl asked me this question I would say yes if I did find her attractive, because how I see that woman may or may not have confidence in her looks, but she will have confidence in another matter, for instance if she was an artist she would be confident in her art. All I am doing in this poll, is learning. :) And that is the most attractive thing anyone could have, the longing to learn more. Ignorance is a disgusting thing.
also I would like to ask, do you find a man attractive if he were a man that saved someones life? or if you saw him help another in need, or if you saw that he was such a hard working man, for what he needs rather than what he wants? or if he was so good at heart, that he gives respect to all sentient beings?, how I see it first impressions mean nothing, because any first impression can be misinterpreted. What I find most attractive is the good in someones heart, unconditional love. No one should judge another by first impressions, cause first impressions never give you enough time to find out who they truly are, cause somethings that people find most attractive are after they know someone after awhile.
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
Korey2hall: also I would like to ask, do you find a man attractive if he were a man that saved someones life? or if you saw him help another in need, or if you saw that he was such a hard working man, for what he needs rather than what he wants? or if he was so good at heart, that he gives respect to all sentient beings?, how I see it first impressions mean nothing, because any first impression can be misinterpreted. What I find most attractive is the good in someones heart, unconditional love. No one should judge another by first impressions, cause first impressions never give you enough time to find out who they truly are, cause somethings that people find most attractive are after they know someone after awhile.
First impressions do count to me. Being nicely presented is important IMO, especially if you're going on a date.
.....but, yes....if they are lacking inner attractiveness, it doesn't matter if they look like Brad Pitt, I'm outta there. ....and the same could be said about myself. They may find something about me(inner or outer) that is unappealing to them...ya win some, ya lose them.
nomoregoodnamesSpringwood, New South Wales Australia137 posts
BerrySmoothie: First impressions do count to me. Being nicely presented is important IMO, especially if you're going on a date.
.....but, yes....if they are lacking inner attractiveness, it doesn't matter if they look like Brad Pitt, I'm outta there. ....and the same could be said about myself. They may find something about me(inner or outer) that is unappealing to them...ya win some, ya lose them.
see this is exactly why I posted this, to learn, now my question is, first you say I'm unattractive cause you assumed that I found myself unattractive and lacked confidence, but then you went on to say you actually don't find me unattractive physically, so when you first see my picture which was your first impression? To me it seemed like it was misinterpreted.
see this is exactly why I posted this, to learn, now my question is, first you say I'm unattractive cause you assumed that I found myself unattractive and lacked confidence, but then you went on to say you actually don't find me unattractive physically, so when you first see my picture which was your first impression? To me it seemed like it was misinterpreted.
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
Korey2hall: see this is exactly why I posted this, to learn, now my question is, first you say I'm unattractive cause you assumed that I found myself unattractive and lacked confidence, but then you went on to say you actually don't find me unattractive physically, so when you first see my picture which was your first impression? To me it seemed like it was misinterpreted.
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