someone full of love , unconditionally her smile takes away your stress and pain , talks with you sweetly , intense love between u and her is must.........................................
intelligence (with open mind) developed sense of awareness/consciousness, spiritual talented, creative, imaginative with ability to put ideas into realities great sense of humor...'dumb' humor, sophisticated wit, and all the laughes in between honest, straight forward, consistent/reliable patient handsome/attractive has an 'edge' (yah....i still measure using the 'coolio' scale...) and the ability to lead
and if VE were still here (i miss her posts), she'd add 'a big hard pokie thing' .... and i'm in total agreement with that
intelligence (with open mind) developed sense of awareness/consciousness, spiritual talented, creative, imaginative with ability to put ideas into realities great sense of humor...'dumb' humor, sophisticated wit, and all the laughes in between honest, straight forward, consistent/reliable patient handsome/attractive has an 'edge' (yah....i still measure using the 'coolio' scale...) and the ability to lead
and if VE were still here (i miss her posts), she'd add 'a big hard pokie thing' .... and i'm in total agreement with that and YES! i found Him.
I could be drawn to him magnetically and it could start with just a helo,
Snookums3OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,174 posts
jono7: what attracts me
i get starry eyed over brilliance...soooo.....
intelligence (with open mind) developed sense of awareness/consciousness, spiritual talented, creative, imaginative with ability to put ideas into realities great sense of humor...'dumb' humor, sophisticated wit, and all the laughes in between honest, straight forward, consistent/reliable patient handsome/attractive has an 'edge' (yah....i still measure using the 'coolio' scale...) and the ability to lead
and if VE were still here (i miss her posts), she'd add 'a big hard pokie thing' .... and i'm in total agreement with that and YES! i found Him.
peachmelba: I could be drawn to him magnetically and it could start with just a helo,
The rest has yet to be written .
and that's exactly how it started....
there was a poster on cs long ago...and i would read his comments and think...i would like to meet someone like that. but i was too shy to ever say anything to him in the forums or to write to him privately, and at some point he disappeared from cs...
and i thought to myself...he's found someone, and i wonder what would of happened had i written....
quite some time later the posts of another man caught my attention and i said to myself...just write and say 'hello' this time, and i did....
you are quite right, it starts with a simple, 'hello'.
peachmelba: Well I should hope him to be interesting whether in fantasy or reality,
I'm answering the post to what attracts me to a possible life partner but just want to say he dosnt have to be my rest of life partner ,No demands but I might to his commands if I meet him in real or surreality,
sssssssssssssssssyeow I'll have to wait until this thread cools down to comment
Snookums3OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,174 posts
peachmelba: Well I should hope him to be interesting whether in fantasy or reality,
I'm answering the post to what attracts me to a possible life partner but just want to say he dosnt have to be my rest of life partner ,No demands but I might to his commands if I meet him in real or surreality,
Its the ones that we wish for that always has too many flaws.
I'm attracted to men who are witty, intelligent, humorous, naughty but with an old world sense of chivalry and gallantry. But for a life partner there needs to be something more, something I can't define but which hopefully will make me look at him and know he is the man I want to share life's adventures with.
all mentioned plus: chemistry sense of humor empathy (and ability to take care of others) looking for and finding solutions instead for searching for problems positive thinking short memory for bad things and great for beautiful moments
No-one is perfect but the more of those above present the bigger chances we will get along in a long term, when the chemistry level won't be at the pick any longer.
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