A main requirement in ur life is to love urself? If u don't u don't look after the people depending on u or urself as u lack in self confidence. This can lead to all sorts of mistakes which can have dire consequences. Some people that do not love themselves try to down others around them to their levels or hating everyone and everything.
And i am sorry i am not agree with your statement , I have see most of people loving and caring themselves but they dont care and love others,sometimes i feel they dont have heart or feelings
ali there are some people who don't love themselves cause they never learned to do so from something which occurred in their childhood.
I should mention that pure unconditional love and to think of the loved ones and pure acts of kindness where one puts others first is basically what humankind should strive for,
Even if it dosnt come naturally one can make it happen thus letting go of the isms in oneself ,
Snookums3OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,174 posts
ali110: who doesnt love him/herself madam ??..
And i am sorry i am not agree with your statement , I have see most of people loving and caring themselves but they dont care and love others,sometimes i feel they dont have heart or feelings
Snookums3OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,174 posts
Obstinance_Works: To say someone loves themselves is still an insult where I come from. I'd say I like and respect myself(at least most of the time). My idea of love has to not be about yourself.
Everyone is entitled to an opinion and I see ur point.
never thought about loving myself .do I like myself well some off the time and some times I can be disappointed at myself .I keep loving for others I like lots of people but to love someone really love somebody its different to liking .now don't be mixed up by my reply to love and be loved back is a lovely thing can it happen more than once yes it can
Snookums3OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,174 posts
johnjjm: never thought about loving myself .do I like myself well some off the time and some times I can be disappointed at myself .I keep loving for others I like lots of people but to love someone really love somebody its different to liking .now don't be mixed up by my reply to love and be loved back is a lovely thing can it happen more than once yes it can
This is about loving and knowing urself. U spend a lot of time getting to know urself first. Then u know all ur good and bad points. Now u figure out:- Can I like myself. Once that has been determined u then love urself with all ur shortcomings and plus points as u know urself thoroughly.
I do........lots. And, as a result, I have love to give to people who cross my path. That doesn't mean to say that I am altruistic....but I would assist where necessary.
Of cource I must and I can love my self, but NEVER for my self! I love myself because I love to love the others. If I exist, it's because the others; they need me. I must love them, help them, work for them. They help me to live. they help me to say "I". If they would not exist, I could not say "I". I am grateful to all of the humanity!...
And i am sorry i am not agree with your statement , I have see most of people loving and caring themselves but they dont care and love others,sometimes i feel they dont have heart or feelings
When love becomes part of you and you are surounded by love ,then that love is seen by others,and they feel something of you ,
I know some will take it the wrong way so ill try explaining ,
for many years children would love to be around and be close to me and they would come to me as I hugged them some I noted had a tenseness about them and as I hugged them that tenseness was gone this happened many times,
in one case the Mother was sitting two people away little did I know , the young child I found out later had and was going through a lot of detail = abusiveness in the family,
later as I got older, women would come into my life and the same detail was still there one woman was hurt by a fall and I went up to her and held her and hugged her and later she said to me what is it about you when you warp your arms around and she felt something come from me ,
another time a young woman was standing next to me as she come closer I felt such a tenseness about her and I thought oh wow her whole body was under stress so I pulled her gently to my self and hugged her and she relaxed and that stress tenseness was gone ,
Okay call me weird or what ever, some of us have gifts and some of us give of our selfs and ...LOVE...is part of our being how we give of our selfs will depend on is it a gift we share with others , People can sense when your open to give and understand them,
123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia2,116 posts
noeleena: Hi,
When love becomes part of you and you are surounded by love ,then that love is seen by others,and they feel something of you ,
I know some will take it the wrong way so ill try explaining ,
for many years children would love to be around and be close to me and they would come to me as I hugged them some I noted had a tenseness about them and as I hugged them that tenseness was gone this happened many times,
in one case the Mother was sitting two people away little did I know , the young child I found out later had and was going through a lot of detail = abusiveness in the family,
later as I got older, women would come into my life and the same detail was still there one woman was hurt by a fall and I went up to her and held her and hugged her and later she said to me what is it about you when you warp your arms around and she felt something come from me ,
another time a young woman was standing next to me as she come closer I felt such a tenseness about her and I thought oh wow her whole body was under stress so I pulled her gently to my self and hugged her and she relaxed and that stress tenseness was gone ,
Okay call me weird or what ever, some of us have gifts and some of us give of our selfs and ...LOVE...is part of our being how we give of our selfs will depend on is it a gift we share with others , People can sense when your open to give and understand them,
You be the judge of that ,
...noeleena...
That's love nature However,not all of us feels comfortable to hug "stranger" ..One's I both donat to 6 year old African child (becuase he kept licking donat with finger) and his mother come screeming at him that she doesn't wnat him to begg and shop keper explained he didn't bag but she look still upset with me too I told her;I had no intention to ofend with it ...but just to make him happy. Apparantly I realised I ahven't been enough sensitive to consdier different views/reaction, as mother wasn't around at the time ... It's the similar with hugs
Snookums3OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,174 posts
noeleena: Hi,
When love becomes part of you and you are surounded by love ,then that love is seen by others,and they feel something of you ,
I know some will take it the wrong way so ill try explaining ,
for many years children would love to be around and be close to me and they would come to me as I hugged them some I noted had a tenseness about them and as I hugged them that tenseness was gone this happened many times,
in one case the Mother was sitting two people away little did I know , the young child I found out later had and was going through a lot of detail = abusiveness in the family,
later as I got older, women would come into my life and the same detail was still there one woman was hurt by a fall and I went up to her and held her and hugged her and later she said to me what is it about you when you warp your arms around and she felt something come from me ,
another time a young woman was standing next to me as she come closer I felt such a tenseness about her and I thought oh wow her whole body was under stress so I pulled her gently to my self and hugged her and she relaxed and that stress tenseness was gone ,
Okay call me weird or what ever, some of us have gifts and some of us give of our selfs and ...LOVE...is part of our being how we give of our selfs will depend on is it a gift we share with others , People can sense when your open to give and understand them,
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