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Mar 26, 2015 8:24 AM CSTWHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
Didier15
Didier15Didier15Metz ville, Grand Est, France22 Threads 22 Polls 77 Posts

WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?(Vote Below)

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THE MAN
29
32%
THE WOMAN
3
3%
MUTUAL SPENDING ON EACH OTHER
46
51%
NONE, I SPEND MY MONEY FOR MYSELF
13
14%
Total Votes
91
Mostly women depend much on men to take care of them, and relationship has become something for the super rich.A poor man don't have right to have a woman, that is the norm of the new world order!

My question to this is, why do most women depends much on men to take care of them? Women wanted emancipation, they had it, women work and earn incomes, women have as much rights as men, but most women are still depending on men.
Should our pretty women start thinking of taking care of their men also?Is it not time that women think that, they fought for equality, and everything suppose to be equal? The world is changing, mentality must change also.I think most men will hate to depend on a woman.
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Mar 26, 2015 11:11 AM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Didier15: Mostly women depend much on men to take care of them, and relationship has become something for the super rich.A poor man don't have right to have a woman, that is the norm of the new world order!

My question to this is, why do most women depends much on men to take care of them? Women wanted emancipation, they had it, women work and earn incomes, women have as much rights as men, but most women are still depending on men.
Should our pretty women start thinking of taking care of their men also?Is it not time that women think that, they fought for equality, and everything suppose to be equal? The world is changing, mentality must change also.I think most men will hate to depend on a woman.


Irrespective of how much money either partner has the girl will usually prefer to take the passive, supportive and more submissive role.

Women are not really attracted to money per se(unless it's LOADS of money). What they're really attracted to is confidence, manhood and stability of nature - everything that she isn't - which she then refines with her woman's touch. What she really wants is a personality stronger than her own to rely on in many senses.
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Mar 26, 2015 11:14 AM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
Didier15: Mostly women depend much on men to take care of them, and relationship has become something for the super rich.A poor man don't have right to have a woman, that is the norm of the new world order!

My question to this is, why do most women depends much on men to take care of them? Women wanted emancipation, they had it, women work and earn incomes, women have as much rights as men, but most women are still depending on men.
Should our pretty women start thinking of taking care of their men also?Is it not time that women think that, they fought for equality, and everything suppose to be equal? The world is changing, mentality must change also.I think most men will hate to depend on a woman.


My ex-husband had no problem depending on me and he is British !!!
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Mar 26, 2015 11:18 AM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Didier15: Mostly women depend much on men to take care of them, and relationship has become something for the super rich.A poor man don't have right to have a woman, that is the norm of the new world order!

My question to this is, why do most women depends much on men to take care of them? Women wanted emancipation, they had it, women work and earn incomes, women have as much rights as men, but most women are still depending on men.
Should our pretty women start thinking of taking care of their men also?Is it not time that women think that, they fought for equality, and everything suppose to be equal? The world is changing, mentality must change also.I think most men will hate to depend on a woman.


I don't WANT to depend financially on a guy.

That someone can't get a woman usually has nothing to do with money - I know plenty with partners who don't have any riches - but it's an excuse for some people to blame others and not have a look at themselves why they can't attract someone.

I don't want to be with someone where it has to be tit for tat - I never had that, because we always wanted to make each other happy. If someone is that calculating, I wouldn't want to be with him - because I don't treat someone like that either.
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Mar 26, 2015 11:24 AM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
cgedvr1
cgedvr1cgedvr1Socal., California USA10 Threads 551 Posts
KNenagh: I don't WANT to depend financially on a guy.

That someone can't get a woman usually has nothing to do with money - I know plenty with partners who don't have any riches - but it's an excuse for some people to blame others and not have a look at themselves why they can't attract someone.

I don't want to be with someone where it has to be tit for tat - I never had that, because we always wanted to make each other happy. If someone is that calculating, I wouldn't want to be with him - because I don't treat someone like that either.
tried to email you KN....apparently i'm too old....lol

and thank GOD i've been blocked from little miss smarty pants thread...
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Mar 26, 2015 11:29 AM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I've never been or associated myself with the part of the "New world norm so to speak but I have always fended for myself.I never saw the need to fight for 'equality' so to speak.Never felt the need to be equal to a man but only stand and walk beside him instead.

Even when I was married to my late husband I never depended on him to solely support me.I was raised to be an independent person.
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Mar 26, 2015 11:36 AM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
cgedvr1: tried to email you KN....apparently i'm too old....lol

and thank GOD i've been blocked from little miss smarty pants thread...


Hiya cg, I emailed you. Have my mailbox fairly securely blocked, so don't take it personal. wave
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Mar 26, 2015 11:44 AM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
cgedvr1
cgedvr1cgedvr1Socal., California USA10 Threads 551 Posts
Ccincy: I've never been or associated myself with the part of the "New world norm so to speak but I have always fended for myself.I never saw the need to fight for 'equality' so to speak.Never felt the need to be equal to a man but only stand and walk beside him instead.

Even when I was married to my late husband I never depended on him to solely support me.I was raised to be an independent person.
was not able to respond to you either C....

n why would you want to be a part of the "new world norm"....being equal to a man is some great feat??? walking beside one would be a full time job in and of itself...

an independent women in her own right is far more attractive than one who would be taking a step backward to be my equal...

excuse me now....have to go drop another turd off at the pool....tongue
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Mar 26, 2015 11:45 AM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
cgedvr1
cgedvr1cgedvr1Socal., California USA10 Threads 551 Posts
KNenagh: Hiya cg, I emailed you. Have my mailbox fairly securely blocked, so don't take it personal.
ohhhh.....i did

mostly because I am OLD....tongue
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Mar 26, 2015 11:46 AM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
cgedvr1: ohhhh.....i did

mostly because I am OLD....


Ohhhh, but that's not my fault. tongue

laugh
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Mar 26, 2015 5:29 PM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
I have never ever depended on a man for money.

I have always worked for a living, and intend to continue to do so.

And when I am with someone, I treat him as much as he treats me.
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Mar 26, 2015 5:35 PM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
cgedvr1: was not able to respond to you either C....

n why would you want to be a part of the "new world norm"....being equal to a man is some great feat??? walking beside one would be a full time job in and of itself...

an independent women in her own right is far more attractive than one who would be taking a step backward to be my equal...

excuse me now....have to go drop another turd off at the pool....






I am independent and just chose not to feed into the 'Equal' nonsense.

You may have to do several of the P bombs since you are so full of it.
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Mar 26, 2015 5:35 PM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
I got no money so its hard for me to spend on someone uh oh
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Mar 26, 2015 5:39 PM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
A true gentleman would always pay but then I've got old fashioned values..
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Mar 26, 2015 5:52 PM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
allthegoodnamest: A true gentleman would always pay but then I've got old fashioned values..



Sometimes even gentlemen can be broke sad flower
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Mar 26, 2015 5:55 PM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
Didier15: Mostly women depend much on men to take care of them, and relationship has become something for the super rich.A poor man don't have right to have a woman, that is the norm of the new world order!

My question to this is, why do most women depends much on men to take care of them? Women wanted emancipation, they had it, women work and earn incomes, women have as much rights as men, but most women are still depending on men.
Should our pretty women start thinking of taking care of their men also?Is it not time that women think that, they fought for equality, and everything suppose to be equal? The world is changing, mentality must change also.I think most men will hate to depend on a woman.


Your post seems full of contradictions, my friend. But one thing is clear, you have a very jaded view of women and what they want (in a sweeping generalised kinda way).

...... Bad experience(s)?
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Mar 26, 2015 6:01 PM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
xxDandelionxx: Your post seems full of contradictions, my friend. But one thing is clear, you have a very jaded view of women and what they want (in a sweeping generalised kinda way).

...... Bad experience(s)?


He is right about one thing, a poor man has little chance for a date. That has been my experience anyhow.
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Mar 26, 2015 6:08 PM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Track16: He is right about one thing, a poor man has little chance for a date. That has been my experience anyhow.



I don't agree with that assumption.


I never knew what previous boyfriendd worked at, or how much money they had, before I started dating them.

And if they were ever going through cash-flow problems, we would just stay in and I would cook dinner instead of going out.

It's not all about money.
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Mar 26, 2015 6:10 PM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
mollybaby: I don't agree with that assumption. I never knew what previous boyfriendd worked at, or how much money they had, before I started dating them.

And if they were ever going through cash-flow problems, we would just stay in and I would cook dinner instead of going out.

It's not all about money.


I wish there were more like you around
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Mar 26, 2015 6:13 PM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Track16: I wish there were more like you around



There are. Plenty.

You just have to attract them.
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Mar 26, 2015 6:15 PM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
mollybaby: There are. Plenty.

You just have to attract them.


I tend to have some trouble with that uh oh
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Mar 26, 2015 7:00 PM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
I see nothing wrong with women spending money on their man is wrong. Personally, when I'm in a relationship, I enjoy splurging on my partner, whether it be simple or not, it may be dinner & drinks of me tonight, etc.

On the other hand I enjoy when my partner splurges on me as well. It gives me a warm feeling inside.

With that being said, if I made more money than my partner/husband it wouldn't bother me because I'm just grateful to have money period. There are many women who love their money regardless of how much money he does or doesn't have but instead for the man he really is.
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Mar 26, 2015 7:03 PM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
Friskyone: I see nothing wrong with women spending money on their man is wrong. Personally, when I'm in a relationship, I enjoy splurging on my partner, whether it be simple or not, it may be dinner & drinks of me tonight, etc.

On the other hand I enjoy when my partner splurges on me as well. It gives me a warm feeling inside.

With that being said, if I made more money than my partner/husband it wouldn't bother me because I'm just grateful to have money period. There are many women who love their money regardless of how much money he does or doesn't have but instead for the man he really is.


Correction: there are plenty of women who love their MEN...
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Mar 27, 2015 3:01 AM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
SCB1076
SCB1076SCB1076Metairie, Louisiana USA1 Threads 13 Posts
Good God, I SO agree with you. I don't want to have to be dependent on ANYONE for ANYTHING. But, I concede, there is a real need for give and take and if you are married or in a relationship and you're a woman and your man has just lost his job, I believe it ought to be your responsibility to help him look after his needs. If you don't then you are shallow and hollow. Similarly, if you are a man in a relationship or marriage and your woman has lost her job, the the aforementioned rules still should apply. My own opinion is those women who reject a man because he is broke or unemployed (like me) or simply not very successful in a way that the woman wants him to be, those women ARE NOT WORTH ANYONE'S ATTENTION.
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Mar 27, 2015 3:02 AM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
Aphaea
AphaeaAphaeaAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands2 Threads 55 Posts
Obstinance_Works: Irrespective of how much money either partner has the girl will usually prefer to take the passive, supportive and more submissive role.

Women are not really attracted to money per se(unless it's LOADS of money). What they're really attracted to is confidence, manhood and stability of nature - everything that she isn't - which she then refines with her woman's touch. What she really wants is a personality stronger than her own to rely on in many senses.





ehem.... edit this into "SOME WOMEN" without being insulting ...i have to wholeheartedly disagree
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Mar 27, 2015 3:34 AM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
funke3
funke3funke3London, Greater London, England UK191 Posts
SCB1076: Good God, I SO agree with you. I don't want to have to be dependent on ANYONE for ANYTHING. But, I concede, there is a real need for give and take and if you are married or in a relationship and you're a woman and your man has just lost his job, I believe it ought to be your responsibility to help him look after his needs. If you don't then you are shallow and hollow. Similarly, if you are a man in a relationship or marriage and your woman has lost her job, the the aforementioned rules still should apply. My own opinion is those women who reject a man because he is broke or unemployed (like me) or simply not very successful in a way that the woman wants him to be, those women ARE NOT WORTH ANYONE'S ATTENTION.
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Mar 27, 2015 3:39 AM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
funke3
funke3funke3London, Greater London, England UK191 Posts
They are DEFINITELY NOT WORTH ANY POOR MAN'S ATTENTiON for they will definitely reject him ! lots of laugh.
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Mar 27, 2015 3:48 AM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
noeleena
noeleenanoeleenawaimate, Canterbury New Zealand2 Threads 251 Posts
Hi,

Oh dear , this is a can of worms in our country we have whats know as a fund for those who are worse off because of not being able to work both men and women ,

through our tax fund we surport those who are on a benifit because of disabilitys or mental disorders or the like ,

i know of many because of the work i do and have done , and out side of this we through our groups get help money and goods = food and help others at different time,s of the year im involved because im incharge of food cooking and getting others to help me so we have different groups departments that offer help .

Now who should pay those of us who can work ,
so from this we dont seperate any difference between men or women or children we give to those who have a need ,

Now in a relastionship should it be any different ,depends on who is working for the good of the unit = family , ,

For us Jos and i , i worked Jos did not need to she gave birth to our children so she had a full time all on with our children not a 8 hour a day 9 to 5 it was 24 hours a day 7 days a week . yes i helped just not the same as Jos had to ,

So who should pay Jos payed and worked hard ,

So look beyound the all about the myself and money and who spends what on who there never will be an equal how best to work out things is you do it together ,

In our case i did the money because i was in bussness and contracting so knew the income and out going Jos did not wont to do the accounts so i had to ,

So youll gather from this i pay and ill pay again if in a relastionship if and a big IF a man comes into my life ill talk about what we do before the who pays on a night out or what ever,

women depend on men as i said because they are the home keeper and baby care,er ,

...noeleena...
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Mar 27, 2015 4:15 AM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
funke3
funke3funke3London, Greater London, England UK191 Posts
Didier15: Mostly women depend much on men to take care of them, and relationship has become something for the super rich.A poor man don't have right to have a woman, that is the norm of the new world order!

My question to this is, why do most women depends much on men to take care of them? Women wanted emancipation, they had it, women work and earn incomes, women have as much rights as men, but most women are still depending on men.
Should our pretty women start thinking of taking care of their men also?Is it not time that women think that, they fought for equality, and everything suppose to be equal? The world is changing, mentality must change also.I think most men will hate to depend on a woman.

Yes,your statements is full of contradictions.If most men hate to depend on men,no wonder most women don't bother to take care of them.!
It is not the norm of the new world that relationship became something for the super rich.It is in fact better for poor people/men these days to have relationship.
Some women would refrain from spending their money especially on men they meet on sites because some men don't want to spend their money on women,because they don't want one woman,they want many women,and it surely will cost them far more than they can afford to keep spending their money.
They are a lot of women who will support their men financially when the men are treating them right..Most women will help their men financially and emotionally if the men satisfy their emotional needs.Money is not really what most women need in relationship,but it helps if u have it.
There are some women who is supporting their men but those men take those women's money and spend it on other girls,even in some cases they laugh at the women who supports them behind their back.Also some poor men as soon as they become rich leave their good women for some other females.
Women's emancipation has nothing to do with depending on their men.A good man will always work and provide for his family,and most good women will contribute financially.
The world is changing and I am sure women knew that,that is why most women go to work and contribute in their households.
Most rich women will not start spending their money on men they just met but will start spending money on them when they know the men are good to them.
Also most clever women will keep clear of a man who moans and blame the women because he can't afford to take them out,or pay his bills.
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Mar 27, 2015 4:20 AM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
funke3
funke3funke3London, Greater London, England UK191 Posts
Didier15: Mostly women depend much on men to take care of them, and relationship has become something for the super rich.A poor man don't have right to have a woman, that is the norm of the new world order!

My question to this is, why do most women depends much on men to take care of them? Women wanted emancipation, they had it, women work and earn incomes, women have as much rights as men, but most women are still depending on men.
Should our pretty women start thinking of taking care of their men also?Is it not time that women think that, they fought for equality, and everything suppose to be equal? The world is changing, mentality must change also.I think most men will hate to depend on a woman.

Correction.My earlier statement should have read 'If most men hate to depend on women'.
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Mar 27, 2015 11:36 AM CST WHO SHOULD SPEND MONEY ON THE OTHER PERSON?
Didier15
Didier15Didier15Metz ville, Grand Est France22 Threads 22 Polls 77 Posts
xxDandelionxx: Your post seems full of contradictions, my friend. But one thing is clear, you have a very jaded view of women and what they want (in a sweeping generalised kinda way).

...... Bad experience(s)?


No, no bad experience, you haven't point out to any contradictions, secondly these are modern trends.Check the result of this poll, you will see that people still believe that women cannot spend their money on their men.
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