What a hell do most women mean when they say, they are looking for a man who can make them laugh? Does it mean, most women are looking only for men who can hit hard on them?, or men who got financial security, or better still to make men cry so that they can laugh?
The reason I want a man who laughs at times ----not a though---is I want someone who is emotionally healthy who does not take life too seriously, is not depressed, negative, abusive or cynical. If he cannot I'm not interested! When I look at a profile photo, I need to see a smile or at least a contented look and kind eyes.....a "bad", hard, weird, gloomy, tired or dull expression repels me
smalldutchgirl: I dont think a woman asking for a man that can make her laugh is saying she wants a man that gives financial security, billionaires are not usually known for their GSOH
This contradict,many facts.First from what you read from most women's profile, secondly, if billionaires are not known for their GSOH, then why not take a normal guy? I work sometimes in the court, and i know women are not so easy with men. You don't read from men who say they want a woman who should make them laugh do you?
Men say this as well sometimes, maybe not as much, I don't know I don't read women's profiles. I would not meet up with anyone who wants this in a partner anyway, it makes me think they have a boring life without laughter or that they feel they are very funny themselves and people that think they are funny usually are not. Laughing is not something that can be forced, if you click you will laugh a lot but a good joke will not make a difference if there is nothing else there.
Didier15: i think British humour lack respect,i think it's hard to judge a book from it's cover but that's what you drunker prefer! next try to think before responding to polls.
PrettyPrescious: The reason I want a man who laughs at times ----not a though---is I want someone who is emotionally healthy who does not take life too seriously, is not depressed, negative, abusive or cynical. If he cannot I'm not interested! When I look at a profile photo, I need to see a smile or at least a contented look and kind eyes.....a "bad", hard, weird, gloomy, tired or dull expression repels me
All the funniest people are a little bit screwed up and comedy is the saving grace of mental illness.
Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,174 posts
sloboda: As I read the posts, one question for the men here : Doesn't one man / any man a woman with which he could smile ? To smile with someone 1st u have to feel relaxed, to be relaxed u need to trust, to feel safe. I've never heard a man who would say nop, I don't want the thins above so why are women such a mystery 4 u
My best friend is ex british ex zimbabwean. He knows just how to make a women feel good. He make u feel like a woman and yes laugh. He is great but not relationship material.
When a woman says that she is looking for a man who can make them laugh, it means, she wants a "clown". And if she wants a clown, she better needs to go to a circus
Didier15: i think British humour lack respect,i think it's hard to judge a book from it's cover but that's what you drunker prefer! next try to think before responding to polls.
Now, now...take it easy... People who can not laugh at themselves are definitely not my cup of tea... Ah, and British humour is not for everyone...
Obstinance_Works: Or simply the working class. The poor are funnier than the middle and the rich because they're more dysfunctional and screwed up. Unless it's the Black poor. Black people aren't funny. Chris Rock and Eddie Murphy? Not terrible, but is that the best they can do? And you know I can't think of a single English Black guy who is funny.
Although this is just them taking themselves too seriously. I notice many a Black man can't walk down a street without self-consciously strutting in a desperate attempt to look cool. I really have no idea why middle class Whites think/thought that Black is cool, I can only blame the media garbage box and the fact that people don't get out much.
Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,174 posts
sloboda: At least he's a material 4 a friend, imagine someone that doesn't smile and laugh all u'll have are these reactions and u'll leave, the sooner the better. We're talking about smiles, simple things not some non sense.
Laughing is so much better than just a smile though. Not so?
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WHAT DO MOST WOMEN MEAN BY LOOKING FOR A MAN WHO CAN MAKE THEM LAUGH?(Vote Below)
Does it mean, most women are looking only for men who can hit hard on them?, or men who got financial security, or better still to make men cry so that they can laugh?