how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result? ( Archived) (75)

Apr 13, 2015 4:45 AM CSThow long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine, France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts

how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?(Vote Below)

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1 month
9
15%
2 months
2
3%
6 months
8
14%
a year
3
5%
forever
21
36%
no result wanted
3
5%
everything is a result
13
22%
Total Votes
59
well, i haven't posted a poll in almost a year, so i thought i might have the right to post something again without falling in the same routine.

was wondering this cause a lot of paying dating sites have offers for a one year contract.
i always feel thats bad advertisement, cause they if you need to stay that long, they cant be much good.

being on here for about 3 years now, cant say i blame CS. its mostly my lack of working this site.
plus its more difficult connecting international singles.
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Apr 13, 2015 4:56 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
What do you mean by a result? Like scoring a goal at football?

And why would you expect a time parameter?

Is it true men have to measure everything?

laugh
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Apr 13, 2015 4:58 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Rogerzoekt: well, i haven't posted a poll in almost a year, so i thought i might have the right to post something again without falling in the same routine.

was wondering this cause a lot of paying dating sites have offers for a one year contract.
i always feel thats bad advertisement, cause they if you need to stay that long, they cant be much good.

being on here for about 3 years now, cant say i blame CS. its mostly my lack of working this site.
plus its more difficult connecting international singles.



I was lucky I found someone, but 99% of people om here are clickish and unfriendly, I only come on now to mail a few friends, however good luckgrin grin grin cheers
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Apr 13, 2015 5:00 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
jac_the_gripper: What do you mean by a result? Like scoring a goal at football?

And why would you expect a time parameter?

Is it true men have to measure everything?



ha ha,,, go jac ,, time is gold ,, seems everybody is in hurry to break a nose ,, how long ,,, depends on what kind of measuring unit is used ,,
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Apr 13, 2015 5:02 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
tomcatwarne: I was lucky I found someone, but 99% of people om here are clickish and unfriendly, I only come on now to mail a few friends, however good luck




because you're an agent ,, others aren'thandshake they count on luck like a poker ,,
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Apr 13, 2015 5:06 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
yes i might need to explain myself further for the regulars who have lost the purpose of a DATING site a bit maybe.
??

for me a result would be to actually have found a partner.

and yes a time frame would be quite nice, for the sooner the better no?
I don't register on a dating site to find a partner in 10 years. (or chat with total strangers for that matter)


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Apr 13, 2015 5:08 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Lolette: because you're an agent ,, others aren't they count on luck like a poker ,,


The name is Bond, Basildon Bond (English joke)bouquet
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Apr 13, 2015 5:14 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
Rogerzoekt: yes i might need to explain myself further for the regulars who have lost the purpose of a DATING site a bit maybe.
??

for me a result would be to actually have found a partner.

and yes a time frame would be quite nice, for the sooner the better no?
I don't register on a dating site to find a partner in 10 years. (or chat with total strangers for that matter)??


well, seriously speaking ,,, a time frame is not easy to picture out,, so many thing depends,, how to manage the distance, since this is planetary, Your capacity to assume whatever expenses there might be to see if your found partner is relly existing ,, so many have found, and they wished to change your planet (both sides) to be together,, who will give up his/her post? who is not afraid/hesitant of re-adaptation? ?handshake
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Apr 13, 2015 5:17 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
tomcatwarne: The name is Bond, Basildon Bond (English joke)



a bonding Bond? I hope,, so many bonds are empty behind specially nowadays ,, lol ,,
i appreciate your humor,,handshake
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Apr 13, 2015 5:19 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Rogerzoekt: yes i might need to explain myself further for the regulars who have lost the purpose of a DATING site a bit maybe.
??

for me a result would be to actually have found a partner.

and yes a time frame would be quite nice, for the sooner the better no?
I don't register on a dating site to find a partner in 10 years. (or chat with total strangers for that matter)??


Yes, well have to say I registered with the same intent as yourself. That was 15 months ago now.

Success? Potentially there was, but it never got off the ground, unfortunately. Distance is the big factor.

I think if you're prepared to put the effort in, things may happen for you. Having said that, it can also happen at the most unexpected times.

Perhaps if you were to concentrate on your local area. Just a suggestion.
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Apr 13, 2015 5:29 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Yes, well have to say I registered with the same intent as yourself. That was 15 months ago now.

Success? Potentially there was, but it never got off the ground, unfortunately. Distance is the big factor.

I think if you're prepared to put the effort in, things may happen for you. Having said that, it can also happen at the most unexpected times.

Perhaps if you were to concentrate on your local area. Just a suggestion.



good suggestion Berry ,,, there must be someone out there ,,just some few miles a drive ,,,rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 13, 2015 5:43 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
CapNemo
CapNemoCapNemoLongview, Texas USA6 Threads 599 Posts
jac_the_gripper: What do you mean by a result? Like scoring a goal at football?

And why would you expect a time parameter?

Is it true men have to measure everything?
Jac! laugh
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Apr 13, 2015 6:21 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
RainComeShine
RainComeShineRainComeShineDevon, England UK22 Threads 22 Polls 425 Posts
It could be your first contact or equally it could never happen so don't waste too much time hoping. Look for other avenues also.

good luck!

yay
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Apr 13, 2015 6:25 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
I've been here on CS about five years and online dating for about ten. I have met some great friends, aquantainces, and a few short term relationships. I guess it depends on what you're looking for.
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Apr 13, 2015 6:30 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
,,,ever hopefull........been on here......35 years.......rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 13, 2015 6:39 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
jac_the_gripper: What do you mean by a result? Like scoring a goal at football?

And why would you expect a time parameter?

Is it true men have to measure everything?

That was exactly my thought-what kind of result are we talking about. I had plenty of results when I joined CS-attracted all the freaks, stepped on the wrong toes... made friends, had lots of fun and also headaches... one way or another, they're all results grin
As for the measurements, I think you might be onto something
wink
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Apr 13, 2015 6:43 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
Rogerzoekt: yes i might need to explain myself further for the regulars who have lost the purpose of a DATING site a bit maybe.
??

for me a result would be to actually have found a partner.

and yes a time frame would be quite nice, for the sooner the better no?
I don't register on a dating site to find a partner in 10 years. (or chat with total strangers for that matter)??

Sorry, I do not meet your butt standards blues
rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 13, 2015 6:47 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Rogerzoekt: yes i might need to explain myself further for the regulars who have lost the purpose of a DATING site a bit maybe.
??

for me a result would be to actually have found a partner.

and yes a time frame would be quite nice, for the sooner the better no?
I don't register on a dating site to find a partner in 10 years. (or chat with total strangers for that matter)??

Well, I kind of interpret Connecting Singles as a singles site. I'm not sure how I came to that conclusion. confused

Maybe it's got something to do with the name and all the different options which people may seek inclusive of, but not exclusive to dating. dunno
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Apr 13, 2015 6:53 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Liebe2: That was exactly my thought-what kind of result are we talking about. I had plenty of results when I joined CS-attracted all the freaks, stepped on the wrong toes... made friends, had lots of fun and also headaches... one way or another, they're all results
As for the measurements, I think you might be onto something

Now I don't know whether to answer the question with a 1-0 score, or 6 inches. sigh

Damn, am I in the freak category...? uh oh

giggle
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Apr 13, 2015 6:54 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
truheart1941: ,,,ever hopefull........been on here......35 years.......

All the sheep will be dead by now. Sorry.

laugh
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Apr 13, 2015 6:56 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
jac_the_gripper: Now I don't know whether to answer the question with a 1-0 score, or 6 inches.

Damn, am I in the freak category...?

I think sizes is a more desired answer on CS. devil
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Apr 13, 2015 6:59 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
jac_the_gripper: Now I don't know whether to answer the question with a 1-0 score, or 6 inches.

Damn, am I in the freak category...?


I was about to book a flight to France, but my butt I'm too petite for the OP. What to do, what to do? crying
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Apr 13, 2015 6:59 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Liebe2: I think sizes is a more desired answer on CS.

Are we back to butt standards?

Sometimes I catch sight of my side reflection and think I'm looking at a caricature butt profile. sigh laugh
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Apr 13, 2015 6:59 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
Liebe2: I was about to book a flight to France, but I'm too petite for the OP. What to do, what to do?

Oops!
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Apr 13, 2015 7:02 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
jac_the_gripper: Are we back to butt standards?

Sometimes I catch sight of my side reflection and think I'm looking at a caricature butt profile.

Butts, hot dogs, noses, feet, everything that can be measured. grin
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Apr 13, 2015 7:06 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
Liebe2: I was about to book a flight to France, but my butt I'm too petite for the OP. What to do, what to do?


hahaha.

eat more croissants au beurre.

??
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Apr 13, 2015 7:12 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
Rogerzoekt: hahaha.

eat more croissants au beurre.

??

Oh but that means changing myself to please someone else at the risk of altering my health.
Phew! That's not going to happen. I believe I'm awesome the way I am and in no need of validation from anyone wink
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Apr 13, 2015 7:23 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Oh, I come on just to see what adverts the robot has to offer..

I quite like some actually... grin
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Apr 13, 2015 8:17 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
tomcatwarne: I was lucky I found someone, but 99% of people om here are clickish and unfriendly, I only come on now to mail a few friends, however good luck





Goody I'm the 1% who is friendly and not clickish.giggle
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Apr 13, 2015 8:23 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
sloboda
slobodaslobodaSkopje, Macedonia23 Posts
I don't think anyone can give a mathematical answer to this ... who knows what can or will or wont happen, that cannot be done in reality not to talk about it on net.
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Apr 13, 2015 8:33 AM CST how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
moud86
moud86moud86kingston, Ontario Canada1 Posts
it takes the time it deserves
put in the effort to get a result
you are looking for a life partner right?
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