Lack of desire in a relationship? ( Archived) (24)

Jul 4, 2015 8:44 AM CSTLack of desire in a relationship?
roselilac111
roselilac111roselilac111venice, Veneto, Italy8 Threads 8 Polls 39 Posts

Lack of desire in a relationship?(Vote Below)

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Possible
19
32%
Impossible, but it may happen
2
3%
Not enough love
8
13%
No chemistry
23
38%
A strange relationship
8
13%
Total Votes
60
Always two for a "tango", but sometimes the man is often " too tired"
and sometimes the woman has frequent "head aches"?
What is happening?

Thank you.
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Jul 4, 2015 8:51 AM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
roselilac111: Always two for a "tango", but sometimes the man is often " too tired"
and sometimes the woman has frequent "head aches"?
What is happening?

Thank you.


She's got fat, he's got unemployed. Or conversely, she's got more attractive and he's got a new secretary. Either these or good old-fashioned sick of the sight of one another.
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Jul 4, 2015 8:54 AM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
Dreamcatcher99
Dreamcatcher99Dreamcatcher99Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia5 Threads 1 Polls 1,074 Posts
Trouble on the horizon....the beginning of the end sad flower sad flower sad flower
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Jul 4, 2015 8:59 AM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
CapNemo
CapNemoCapNemoLongview, Texas USA6 Threads 599 Posts
Maybe they ran out of alcohol? dunno
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Jul 4, 2015 9:00 AM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
In happens in every relationship, marriage...sooner or later...
Too much routine, lack of excitement, as OW said one or both got fat and lazy to groom themselves...
No communication, no romance and time spend away from everyday obligations...
wine
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Jul 4, 2015 9:03 AM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
Obstinance_Works: She's got fat, he's got unemployed. Or conversely, she's got more attractive and he's got a new secretary. Either these or good old-fashioned sick of the sight of one another.
caveman marriage lasted 7 yrs.lucky to live to 30/7 yr.itch?
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Jul 4, 2015 9:11 AM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Maybe out of boredom.dunno
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Jul 4, 2015 9:14 AM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
roselilac111: Always two for a "tango", but sometimes the man is often " too tired"
and sometimes the woman has frequent "head aches"?
What is happening?

Thank you.



What is your opinion on this Roselilac?
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Jul 4, 2015 9:26 AM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
roselilac111
roselilac111roselilac111venice, Veneto Italy8 Threads 8 Polls 39 Posts
KremaP: What is your opinion on this Roselilac?



In the first years of a relationship, lack of chemistry, with the years, routine, boredom and lack of communication, troubles at work,etc
Anyway for me : lack of proper chemistry
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Jul 4, 2015 9:31 AM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
roselilac111: In the first years of a relationship, lack of chemistry, with the years, routine, boredom and lack of communication, troubles at work,etc
Anyway for me : lack of proper chemistry





Can you please explain your last comment?

What do you mean by proper chemistry?
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Jul 4, 2015 9:55 AM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
roselilac111
roselilac111roselilac111venice, Veneto Italy8 Threads 8 Polls 39 Posts
Ccincy: Can you please explain your last comment?

What do you mean by proper chemistry?


Reciprocal attraction, shared need of intimacy and not the last the desire of rinvigorating the magical between the two partners, both have to contribute. Without desire love is becoming routinal.
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Aug 20, 2015 12:17 PM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
I think you have to work at keepinG the romance alive..remember what attracted you to your partner in the first place..before life Got in the way
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Aug 20, 2015 1:27 PM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
roselilac111: Always two for a "tango", but sometimes the man is often " too tired"
and sometimes the woman has frequent "head aches"?
What is happening?

Thank you.


It's never happened to me so I've no ideadunno


joy
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Aug 20, 2015 7:47 PM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
rolling on the floor laughing Oh that's saddoh
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Aug 20, 2015 7:48 PM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
Ccincy: Can you please explain your last comment?

What do you mean by proper chemistry?


right Cincy. professor we prefer Improper chemistrydrink pouring giggle
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Aug 20, 2015 7:54 PM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
serena123: I think you have to work at keepinG the romance alive..remember what attracted you to your partner in the first place..before life Got in the way


I like this answer. thumbs up Open, honest communication and keeping the romance alive is key. wave
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Aug 20, 2015 7:55 PM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
LoveRanger52
LoveRanger52LoveRanger52Bolivar, Missouri USA8 Threads 5 Polls 91 Posts
Negative Vibes and lack of interest
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Aug 20, 2015 7:58 PM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
communication is important if someone feels liked they are not valued or being smothered, criticized ....it will kill the romancesad flower
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Aug 20, 2015 7:59 PM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
LoveRanger52
LoveRanger52LoveRanger52Bolivar, Missouri USA8 Threads 5 Polls 91 Posts
Sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality and sometimes the person isn't really who we thought they were, as time moves along mumbling
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Aug 20, 2015 8:05 PM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
LoveRanger52: Sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality and sometimes the person isn't really who we thought they were, as time moves along


do you blame the other person? , or is it nor our responsibility to get to know someone before getting into a relationship? I have found that people really do not change all that muchdunno
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Aug 20, 2015 8:24 PM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
LoveRanger52
LoveRanger52LoveRanger52Bolivar, Missouri USA8 Threads 5 Polls 91 Posts
felixis99: do you blame the other person? , or is it nor our responsibility to get to know someone before getting into a relationship? I have found that people really do not change all that much


I have found that people are deceptive and always hold things back, which for me is the point of no return...,the deal breaker
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Aug 20, 2015 8:37 PM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
twazzle70
twazzle70twazzle70THE GORGOYNES......, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK1 Threads 689 Posts
roselilac111: Always two for a "tango", but sometimes the man is often " too tired"
and sometimes the woman has frequent "head aches"?
What is happening?

Thank you.


What is happening at this point is that the relationship requires communication,work,maturity and effort from both parties if it is to survive..

Or it will go pear shaped,,if it hasnt already....perhaps.hole violin
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Aug 20, 2015 9:51 PM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
butterrum
butterrumbutterrumkalispell, Montana USA7 Threads 23 Posts
There is two person, that got together, because they need each other. one person can not live along, with out the friend ship of another person. Then one day they were realizing that they were not meant for each other and lived there life, to found out that down the road they found there soul mate and some never found there soul mate. That is why I believe there is lack of desire in a relationship.
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Aug 21, 2015 5:39 AM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
Lindzi
LindziLindziManama, Bahrain12 Threads 191 Posts
LoveRanger52: Sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality and sometimes the person isn't really who we thought they were, as time moves along


I think we all keep growing, and sometimes our interests change and friends and style and before we know it we've grown apart
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Aug 21, 2015 5:50 AM CST Lack of desire in a relationship?
Cocheta
CochetaCochetaunknown, Western Cape South Africa1 Threads 2,021 Posts
Lack of interest combined with lack of effort normally result in lack of desire. It takes hard work and mutual respect to make a relationship work. It's a two-way street...
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Created: Jul 2015
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