What is worse: to love and lose or having never loved at all? (26)
It seems to have never loved at all is worse.
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To love or not to love...that is the question!
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Many clergy who have lived committed celibate lives might disagree ...
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roselilac111: There are people who fall in love but something is going wrong and they consider themselves " losers", and there are people who are afraid to love, resting only on -lookers, or they are not finding the proper person for them.Thank you!
To have never loved at all...I would rather have beautiful memories of love and laughter...though some hurtful memories may linger...than to have had no love memories at all..
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What’s worse than knowing you want something,
besides knowing you can never have it?
besides knowing you can never have it?
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To have never loved at all would be an injustice.
I have photographs and wonderful memories I treasure.
NB: some memories I'd like to erase completely, but I guess they are there for a reason. Hopefully I have learnt a thing or two, but then again, have been known to make the same mistake more than once....several times, in fact.
I have photographs and wonderful memories I treasure.
NB: some memories I'd like to erase completely, but I guess they are there for a reason. Hopefully I have learnt a thing or two, but then again, have been known to make the same mistake more than once....several times, in fact.
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BerrySmoothie: To have never loved at all would be an injustice.
I have photographs and wonderful memories I treasure.
NB: some memories I'd like to erase completely, but I guess they are there for a reason. Hopefully I have learnt a thing or two, but then again, have been known to make the same mistake more than once....several times, in fact.
I have photographs and wonderful memories I treasure.
NB: some memories I'd like to erase completely, but I guess they are there for a reason. Hopefully I have learnt a thing or two, but then again, have been known to make the same mistake more than once....several times, in fact.
To have loved and not lost is obviously better. But love is sometimes a gamble and sometimes you do lose. The hurt gets less with time, and you can try again a wiser and smarter bunny.
Love is without a doubt the most powerful force in the universe, so unless you completely isolate and insulate yourself you will live again
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What's worse: to try and fail or having never tried at all?
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I agree with you here.
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Obstinance_Works: What's worse: to try and fail or having never tried at all?
Worst, having never tried at all,, i always do a try when it's worth it,,
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BerrySmoothie: To have never loved at all would be an injustice.
I have photographs and wonderful memories I treasure.
NB: some memories I'd like to erase completely, but I guess they are there for a reason. Hopefully I have learnt a thing or two, but then again, have been known to make the same mistake more than once....several times, in fact.
I have photographs and wonderful memories I treasure.
NB: some memories I'd like to erase completely, but I guess they are there for a reason. Hopefully I have learnt a thing or two, but then again, have been known to make the same mistake more than once....several times, in fact.
We stumble, we fall, but we did it all ,, we make mistakes because we believe that in trying there's something good that will come out of it or else life/hope is to it's end ,,
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Foxworth: What’s worse than knowing you want something,
besides knowing you can never have it?
besides knowing you can never have it?
Yes you can ,,, have it ,, Obama says,,
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I'm a widower who was married to the love of my life. I lost her to breast cancer 9 years ago. I feel like I was a very lucky man. I've experienced what so many others never have and maybe never will. I had a woman who was my best friend and my lover.
Because of her, I've developed a new definition of love:
Love is when someone knows everything there is to know about you, and stays with you anyway. The memories are bittersweet. But as I sit here, I can say that. at the ripe ol' age of 64, I'm a man who knows what it means to love someone with his whole heart and soul, and know that she loved me the same. Nothing can ever take that from me. We did everything together: shopping, games, movies..etc.
We used to joke that we were fated to be together because nobody else would have us. So far, that has turned out to be prophetic. But even if I must stay alone till the end of my days. I have her memory and the short 10 years we had together. They seemed like 30.
So, I sincerely believe it is much worse to have never known real love than to have lost it.
Because of her, I've developed a new definition of love:
Love is when someone knows everything there is to know about you, and stays with you anyway. The memories are bittersweet. But as I sit here, I can say that. at the ripe ol' age of 64, I'm a man who knows what it means to love someone with his whole heart and soul, and know that she loved me the same. Nothing can ever take that from me. We did everything together: shopping, games, movies..etc.
We used to joke that we were fated to be together because nobody else would have us. So far, that has turned out to be prophetic. But even if I must stay alone till the end of my days. I have her memory and the short 10 years we had together. They seemed like 30.
So, I sincerely believe it is much worse to have never known real love than to have lost it.
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"Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm.” – Winston Churchill....
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uptall: "Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm.” – Winston Churchill....
Are you still enthusiastic?
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mollybaby: Are you still enthusiastic?
I will be when I come back to life, more tea needed yet
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uptall: I will be when I come back to life, more tea needed yet
I thought that might be the case alright!
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mollybaby: Put on your professional face, and dream of the next toke
I just wanna stay on the couch, and it's peeing down here
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uptall: I just wanna stay on the couch, and it's peeing down here
It's sunny here (for a change!)
We've had nearly a week of it now
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mollybaby: It's sunny here (for a change!)
We've had nearly a week of it now
We've had nearly a week of it now
Oh thanks for that info Molly
Gotta go shower now, you wanna jump in
....Enjoy your sun
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roselilac111: There are people who fall in love but something is going wrong and they consider themselves " losers", and there are people who are afraid to love, resting only on -lookers, or they are not finding the proper person for them.Thank you!
I've spent my life loving, I've lived and learned.
Right or wrong, I wouldn't change a thing as it's made me who I am, an insightful, empathetic and resilient person
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serene56: I've spent my life loving, I've lived and learned.Right or wrong, I wouldn't change a thing as it's made me who I am, an insightful, empathetic and resilient person
I don't see any mention of also very experienced?
Can I come calling
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uptall: I don't see any mention of also very experienced? Can I come calling
Ok yeah, I'm also very experienced.
Please take a number
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serene56: Ok yeah, I'm also very experienced.
Please take a number
Please take a number
I always like to see that on a ladies profile
I'll have number 7 it's my lucky number
Evening Serene
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roselilac111: There are people who fall in love but something is going wrong and they consider themselves " losers", and there are people who are afraid to love, resting only on -lookers, or they are not finding the proper person for them.Thank you!
Out of the 4 options I would rather have loved and lost than never to have experienced that amazing feeling of loving another human being who is not related to you.
Though the heart ache is absolutely frigging awful, to never have experienced that and know how amazing it can feel, I would have missed out on something in life.
I experienced this later in life and I look forward to experiencing it again whenever fate brings it my way, in the future and no hurry. lol
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From Alfred Lord Tennyson's poem In Memoriam:27, 1850:
I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.
I respectfully disagree. I'll take the love without the loss and if that cannot be so, then I'll take
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I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.
I respectfully disagree. I'll take the love without the loss and if that cannot be so, then I'll take
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Created: Jul 2015
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