For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man? ( Archived) (56)

Jul 24, 2015 8:41 AM CSTFor relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
always_besides
always_besidesalways_besidesMumbai, Maharashtra, India1 Threads 1 Polls 12 Posts

For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?(Vote Below)

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It depends who is blindly interested in love.
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30%
First friendship is required mutually, then love.
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70%
Total Votes
54
Dear Members,
This is the most important question I feel is posted on this site.No one knows how a relationship between man and woman develops.It may be love at first sight, through an acquaintance, friend, whatever reason, mystery of two opposite sexes coming together in love is mind boggling.
I have created this poll to know exactly the one and only reason, how the two individuals are attracted to each other and then go on to marry, have children and start a family.
I want the members to give their responce most honestly so that the larger audience over here know the outcome.
Thanls and with regards,
always_besides.
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Jul 24, 2015 8:56 AM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Traditionally the man does the chasing until the woman lets him catch her.

But I was approached one summer, in a holiday setting, by a woman who asked me to have a drink. I of course accepted, hoping she was trying to get me drunk and have her way with me.

She was an extrovert and the evening was great.

She was on holiday with her 12 year old daughter, no husband in sight.

After a great holiday with her, I as invited to stay in her house in Southamton.

So it can work both ways, in England.

I don't know what your customs are.
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Jul 24, 2015 9:02 AM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
always_besides
always_besidesalways_besidesMumbai, Maharashtra India1 Threads 1 Polls 12 Posts
tomcatwarne: Traditionally the man does the chasing until the woman lets him catch her.

But I was approached one summer, in a holiday setting, by a woman who asked me to have a drink. I of course accepted, hoping she was trying to get me drunk and have her way with me.

She was an extrovert and the evening was great.

She was on holiday with her 12 year old daughter, no husband in sight.

After a great holiday with her, I as invited to stay in her house in Southamton.

So it can work both ways, in England.

I don't know what your customs are.


Dear Tom,
Thanks Tom for your responce.India is a highly introverted traditional country, where marriages are mostly {arranged} by the parents of the boy and the girl.However, there are some couples who find love themselves and get married through their parents.
Coming to my question, I feel the woman must make the {first} move to get the man interested in a relationships.
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Jul 24, 2015 9:02 AM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
always_besides
always_besidesalways_besidesMumbai, Maharashtra India1 Threads 1 Polls 12 Posts
tomcatwarne: Traditionally the man does the chasing until the woman lets him catch her.

But I was approached one summer, in a holiday setting, by a woman who asked me to have a drink. I of course accepted, hoping she was trying to get me drunk and have her way with me.

She was an extrovert and the evening was great.

She was on holiday with her 12 year old daughter, no husband in sight.

After a great holiday with her, I as invited to stay in her house in Southamton.

So it can work both ways, in England.

I don't know what your customs are.


Dear Tom,
Thanks Tom for your responce.India is a highly introverted traditional country, where marriages are mostly {arranged} by the parents of the boy and the girl.However, there are some couples who find love themselves and get married through their parents.
Coming to my question, I feel the woman must make the {first} move to get the man interested in a relationships.
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Jul 24, 2015 9:23 AM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
avias
aviasaviasSoutheast, Missouri USA23 Posts
Really doesn't matter...equally okay for woman to show her interest and see what develops.grin
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Jul 24, 2015 9:37 AM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
RainComeShine
RainComeShineRainComeShineDevon, England UK22 Threads 22 Polls 425 Posts
avias: Really doesn't matter...equally okay for woman to show her interest and see what develops.
A shy man may blame you for noting progressing in the relationship. I struggle with being the instigator of intimacy.

I like a man to approach me once he knows I'm keen on him. Some men ask you this outright so you get the opportunity to flash your eyes or what ever you may do to give him the come on!

blushing flirty shimmy
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Jul 24, 2015 9:39 AM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
RainComeShine
RainComeShineRainComeShineDevon, England UK22 Threads 22 Polls 425 Posts
RainComeShine: A shy man may blame you for noting progressing in the relationship. I struggle with being the instigator of intimacy.

I like a man to approach me once he knows I'm keen on him. Some men ask you this outright so you get the opportunity to flash your eyes or what ever you may do to give him the come on!
What is 'noting'? I meant 'not'.
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Jul 24, 2015 9:39 AM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
RainComeShine: A shy man may blame you for noting progressing in the relationship. I struggle with being the instigator of intimacy.

I like a man to approach me once he knows I'm keen on him. Some men ask you this outright so you get the opportunity to flash your eyes or what ever you may do to give him the come on!


Oh you know it sooo well.laugh
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Jul 24, 2015 9:44 AM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
pedalguy59: Oh you know it sooo well.


Yeh I usually move in after getting the signals from her.

Believe me you will know if she fancies you. Most of the time.
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Jul 24, 2015 9:48 AM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
It not a competition so why should it matter who makes the first move.


My late husband and I both made the first move.

I slowed down so he could catch me.giggle giggle
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Jul 24, 2015 9:49 AM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
tomcatwarne: Yeh I usually move in after getting the signals from her.

Believe me you will know if she fancies you. Most of the time.


I can tell with just one look, and then sadly do nothing.....moping
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Jul 24, 2015 9:51 AM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
Ccincy: It not a competition so why should it matter who makes the first move.My late husband and I both made the first move.

I slowed down so he could catch me.


Were you driving the Model T.rolling on the floor laughing






....(just kidding)sad flower ........super
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Jul 24, 2015 9:54 AM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
pedalguy59: Were you driving the Model T.
....(just kidding) ........





Hey now I'm not that old.


HaHA you can't hide my post.tongue laugh
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Jul 24, 2015 9:57 AM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
Ccincy: Hey now I'm not that old.HaHA you can't hide my post.


Oh oh.cheers
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Jul 24, 2015 11:09 AM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
Foxworth
FoxworthFoxworthYes, Blekinge Sweden24 Threads 2 Polls 295 Posts
The woman first passes by,
looking hot and available,
the man sees her,
she notices shes been watched,
so she looks back at him,
her eyes teasing him,
then she walks away,
that's when the guys stops her
from leaving, gives her his number.
Later that day she texts him,
he calls her
arrange for coffee
next time a movie
third date
they get laid
and if there's sparks
he might keep her
otherwise
he might dispose of her
or recycle her for a friend grin

Keep it green people! laugh
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Jul 24, 2015 11:11 AM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Foxworth: The woman first passes by,
looking hot and available,
the man sees her,
she notices shes been watched,
so she looks back at him,
her eyes teasing him,
then she walks away,
that's when the guys stops her
from leaving, gives her his number.
Later that day she texts him,
he calls her
arrange for coffee
next time a movie
third date
they get laid
and if there's sparks
he might keep her
otherwise
he might dispose of her
or recycle her for a friend

Keep it green people!





Fox there is some truth in your post.

Dispose, and recycle
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Jul 24, 2015 11:16 AM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Ccincy: My late husband and I both made the first move.

.


Heads on???

laugh laugh laugh
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Jul 24, 2015 12:29 PM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
Toger1234
Toger1234Toger1234Kerry, Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 20 Posts
To be honest i do not think it makes a difference if two people want to be together they will be together if they really want each other. If one doesnt want it will never go ahead because they wont get them self into it either male or female.
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Jul 24, 2015 12:32 PM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
pedalguy59: I can tell with just one look, and then sadly do nothing.....


Just one look,, you remind me of this,,

laugh
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Jul 24, 2015 12:33 PM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
Lolette: Just one look,, you remind me of this,,


head banger Loved that Band, the song Bus Stop was sooo good.thumbs up
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Jul 24, 2015 12:51 PM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
pedalguy59: Loved that Band, the song Bus Stop was sooo good.



yup,, 60's, 70's 80's ,,, those were golden years in notes & lyrics ,,wave
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Jul 24, 2015 12:51 PM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Embedded image from another site
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Jul 24, 2015 12:53 PM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=
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Jul 24, 2015 1:04 PM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
warne,,, hi,, dommage ! i can't open it,, tell me the title if you don't mind, so i can listen to it,,teddybear
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Jul 24, 2015 1:33 PM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Lolette: warne,,, hi,, dommage ! i can't open it,, tell me the title if you don't mind, so i can listen to it,,


He aint heavy he's my brother.
This new laptop isn't playing ball!!!!!!
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Jul 24, 2015 1:38 PM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
tomcatwarne: He aint heavy he's my brother.
This new laptop isn't playing ball!!!!!!


Thanks warne,, one of my fav, though it touches up to my spine everytime i listen to this,, now i know your taste in music,, or have an idea,,thumbs up thumbs up teddybear
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Jul 24, 2015 1:43 PM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Lolette: Thanks warne,, one of my fav, though it touches up to my spine everytime i listen to this,, now i know your taste in music,, or have an idea,,


Yeh, guess I revealedgrin grin grin grin teddybear
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Jul 24, 2015 1:49 PM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
tomcatwarne: Yeh, guess I revealed



For you my baby !!!,,,grin grin grin

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Jul 24, 2015 2:00 PM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Lolette: For you my baby !!!,,,


So cool Lol.hug teddybear
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Jul 24, 2015 2:09 PM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
tomcatwarne: So cool Lol.


hug hug happy you appreciate it,, raining so hard here,, keyboard/music at it's best ,,,grin
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Jul 25, 2015 5:09 AM CST For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?
sunsmile007
sunsmile007sunsmile007Trier, Rhineland-Palatinate Germany1 Threads 1 Polls 26 Posts
Ah, that's the problem with the shy man. I am shy too, but if I really like the man, I can ask him few times. But if he keeps reject me, then I will not move forward. Have some dignity ladies!

RainComeShine: A shy man may blame you for noting progressing in the relationship. I struggle with being the instigator of intimacy.

I like a man to approach me once he knows I'm keen on him. Some men ask you this outright so you get the opportunity to flash your eyes or what ever you may do to give him the come on!
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