Dear Members, This is the most important question I feel is posted on this site.No one knows how a relationship between man and woman develops.It may be love at first sight, through an acquaintance, friend, whatever reason, mystery of two opposite sexes coming together in love is mind boggling. I have created this poll to know exactly the one and only reason, how the two individuals are attracted to each other and then go on to marry, have children and start a family. I want the members to give their responce most honestly so that the larger audience over here know the outcome. Thanls and with regards, always_besides.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Traditionally the man does the chasing until the woman lets him catch her.
But I was approached one summer, in a holiday setting, by a woman who asked me to have a drink. I of course accepted, hoping she was trying to get me drunk and have her way with me.
She was an extrovert and the evening was great.
She was on holiday with her 12 year old daughter, no husband in sight.
After a great holiday with her, I as invited to stay in her house in Southamton.
tomcatwarne: Traditionally the man does the chasing until the woman lets him catch her.
But I was approached one summer, in a holiday setting, by a woman who asked me to have a drink. I of course accepted, hoping she was trying to get me drunk and have her way with me.
She was an extrovert and the evening was great.
She was on holiday with her 12 year old daughter, no husband in sight.
After a great holiday with her, I as invited to stay in her house in Southamton.
So it can work both ways, in England.
I don't know what your customs are.
Dear Tom, Thanks Tom for your responce.India is a highly introverted traditional country, where marriages are mostly {arranged} by the parents of the boy and the girl.However, there are some couples who find love themselves and get married through their parents. Coming to my question, I feel the woman must make the {first} move to get the man interested in a relationships.
tomcatwarne: Traditionally the man does the chasing until the woman lets him catch her.
But I was approached one summer, in a holiday setting, by a woman who asked me to have a drink. I of course accepted, hoping she was trying to get me drunk and have her way with me.
She was an extrovert and the evening was great.
She was on holiday with her 12 year old daughter, no husband in sight.
After a great holiday with her, I as invited to stay in her house in Southamton.
So it can work both ways, in England.
I don't know what your customs are.
Dear Tom, Thanks Tom for your responce.India is a highly introverted traditional country, where marriages are mostly {arranged} by the parents of the boy and the girl.However, there are some couples who find love themselves and get married through their parents. Coming to my question, I feel the woman must make the {first} move to get the man interested in a relationships.
avias: Really doesn't matter...equally okay for woman to show her interest and see what develops.
A shy man may blame you for noting progressing in the relationship. I struggle with being the instigator of intimacy.
I like a man to approach me once he knows I'm keen on him. Some men ask you this outright so you get the opportunity to flash your eyes or what ever you may do to give him the come on!
RainComeShine: A shy man may blame you for noting progressing in the relationship. I struggle with being the instigator of intimacy.
I like a man to approach me once he knows I'm keen on him. Some men ask you this outright so you get the opportunity to flash your eyes or what ever you may do to give him the come on!
RainComeShine: A shy man may blame you for noting progressing in the relationship. I struggle with being the instigator of intimacy.
I like a man to approach me once he knows I'm keen on him. Some men ask you this outright so you get the opportunity to flash your eyes or what ever you may do to give him the come on!
The woman first passes by, looking hot and available, the man sees her, she notices shes been watched, so she looks back at him, her eyes teasing him, then she walks away, that's when the guys stops her from leaving, gives her his number. Later that day she texts him, he calls her arrange for coffee next time a movie third date they get laid and if there's sparks he might keep her otherwise he might dispose of her or recycle her for a friend
Foxworth: The woman first passes by, looking hot and available, the man sees her, she notices shes been watched, so she looks back at him, her eyes teasing him, then she walks away, that's when the guys stops her from leaving, gives her his number. Later that day she texts him, he calls her arrange for coffee next time a movie third date they get laid and if there's sparks he might keep her otherwise he might dispose of her or recycle her for a friend
To be honest i do not think it makes a difference if two people want to be together they will be together if they really want each other. If one doesnt want it will never go ahead because they wont get them self into it either male or female.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Lolette: Thanks warne,, one of my fav, though it touches up to my spine everytime i listen to this,, now i know your taste in music,, or have an idea,,
Ah, that's the problem with the shy man. I am shy too, but if I really like the man, I can ask him few times. But if he keeps reject me, then I will not move forward. Have some dignity ladies!
RainComeShine: A shy man may blame you for noting progressing in the relationship. I struggle with being the instigator of intimacy.
I like a man to approach me once he knows I'm keen on him. Some men ask you this outright so you get the opportunity to flash your eyes or what ever you may do to give him the come on!
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For relationship to take off, who makes the {first} move ____ Woman Or Man?(Vote Below)
This is the most important question I feel is posted on this site.No one knows how a relationship between man and woman develops.It may be love at first sight, through an acquaintance, friend, whatever reason, mystery of two opposite sexes coming together in love is mind boggling.
I have created this poll to know exactly the one and only reason, how the two individuals are attracted to each other and then go on to marry, have children and start a family.
I want the members to give their responce most honestly so that the larger audience over here know the outcome.
Thanls and with regards,
always_besides.