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Sep 1, 2015 4:25 AM CSTwould you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
djteel
djteeldjteelSeagoville, Texas, USA3 Threads 3 Polls 7 Posts

would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o(Vote Below)

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no
4
5%
yes
44
53%
maybe
7
8%
If he or she has a lot of money
4
5%
only if he or she at least does diners/fast food
1
1%
no-i'm not a homebody-i like clubs
1
1%
yes-i love movies and music and don't do clubs.
6
7%
NO! id eat a possum before i'd date that person
0
0%
omg ,that's not much money-NO WAY
3
4%
sure i would-why not?
13
16%
Total Votes
83
I was talking to a couple people online and have found that many people especially women would not date a laid back person who is comfortable with life and has no desire for bars,clubs or liquor at all.A lot of men are past that stage of partying and enjoy Coffee shops and flea markets as opposed to the high maintenance environment of social gatherings where loud music and drinking are involved..Ie, they prefer movies at home on wide screen tv and music at home on the surround sound system and inside grilling and BBQ-ing and more home oriented than doing the social scene.family oreiented but without kids and desire women of the same ilk.
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Sep 1, 2015 4:53 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
redmolly
redmollyredmollySwinford, Mayo Ireland1 Threads 775 Posts
Maybe you're just talking to the wrong women dunno confused
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Sep 1, 2015 10:42 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
pennining
penniningpenniningHalifax, West Yorkshire, England UK1 Threads 1 Polls 54 Posts
I thought they didn't like too much liquor (booze) either.
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Sep 1, 2015 10:56 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Would you be prepared to move those boundaries just a little as a matter of compromise?

I'm pretty insular, but even I like to sit in a pub garden with a lemonade and a bag of crisps after a long, muddy walk. laugh

I'm thinking you've got quite a lot of requirements which narrow your chances of finding a partner. The spending time with family, but 'no kids' is especially confusing.

Maybe it's a matter of finding a different way of expressing your needs?

Welcome to the forums, btw. wave
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Sep 1, 2015 11:02 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
I would have to answer yes, having given up smoking some time ago and alcohol for fitness purposes.

But be prepared for foreign travel and exploring new places.

I haven't lost the will to live, just more selectively and with excitementcheering cheering cheering cool grin
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Sep 1, 2015 11:07 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
twazzle70
twazzle70twazzle70THE GORGOYNES......, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK1 Threads 689 Posts
jac_the_gripper: Would you be prepared to move those boundaries just a little as a matter of compromise?

I'm pretty insular, but even I like to sit in a pub garden with a lemonade and a bag of crisps after a long, muddy walk.

I'm thinking you've got quite a lot of requirements which narrow your chances of finding a partner. The spending time with family, but 'no kids' is especially confusing.

Maybe it's a matter of finding a different way of expressing your needs?

Welcome to the forums, btw.


Love the sound of youre muddy walk followed by lemonade and crisps in the pub garden Jac..laugh
Have been there before i think..banana

In response to the thread..
I would have no problem at all dating a "homebody"..
Though compromise and an open mind to change are important also..
Possibly.
dunno cheers
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Sep 1, 2015 1:14 PM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
pennining
penniningpenniningHalifax, West Yorkshire, England UK1 Threads 1 Polls 54 Posts
redmolly: Maybe you're just talking to the wrong women


Don't you mean grunt?uh oh
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Sep 1, 2015 1:20 PM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
i draw the line at sweat pants......laugh

ps

jac, save me a seat at the pub, will ya?
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Sep 1, 2015 1:27 PM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
Yes.....as long as they can do stimulating conversation.
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Sep 1, 2015 8:54 PM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
jono7: i draw the line at sweat pants......

ps

jac, save me a seat at the pub, will ya?

Will on the other side of Twazz do ya?

We can point to non-existent things on the horizon and then pinch his crisps. giggle
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Sep 1, 2015 9:13 PM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
jac_the_gripper: .... pinch his crisps.
So is that what y'all call the male bits? Crisps?

Any special pinching technique involved? grin
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Sep 2, 2015 2:56 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
djteel: I was talking to a couple people online and have found that many people especially women would not date a laid back person who is comfortable with life and has no desire for bars,clubs or liquor at all.A lot of men are past that stage of partying and enjoy Coffee shops and flea markets as opposed to the high maintenance environment of social gatherings where loud music and drinking are involved..Ie, they prefer movies at home on wide screen tv and music at home on the surround sound system and inside grilling and BBQ-ing and more home oriented than doing the social scene.family oreiented but without kids and desire women of the same ilk.


No, I don't think this is a problem. I have male friends who don't drink and are not into the club scene either.

How old are the women you're approaching? If they don't have kids and are a good bit younger, they might simply still be in their "clubbing years". You have an age range between 18-45, it could keep women around your own age from getting in contact if you would consider someone your daughters age.

Just look for someone compatible, some profiles give a good idea what someone is into.
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Sep 2, 2015 3:41 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,954 Posts
I read on your profile that you like to sleep during the day and wander the aisles of Walmart between 12 and 6am.


It takes a special lady to appreciate that, I hope you find her wine
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Sep 2, 2015 4:33 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
serene56: I read on your profile that you like to sleep during the day and wander the aisles of Walmart between 12 and 6am.It takes a special lady to appreciate that, I hope you find her


Mornin' Serene hug
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Sep 2, 2015 4:33 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
serene56: I read on your profile that you like to sleep during the day and wander the aisles of Walmart between 12 and 6am.It takes a special lady to appreciate that, I hope you find her


Mornin' Serene hug
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Sep 2, 2015 4:38 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,954 Posts
tomcatwarne: Mornin' Serene




Evening sweetpea lips
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Sep 2, 2015 4:40 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
serene56: Evening sweetpea


Gotta go for lunch catch ya laterteddybear lips bouquet
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Sep 2, 2015 4:44 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,954 Posts
tomcatwarne: Gotta go for lunch catch ya later



Enjoy hug
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Sep 2, 2015 5:10 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
ianrees
ianreesianreesMaesteg, Mid Glamorgan, Wales UK5 Threads 42 Posts
Well done girl you tell them
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Sep 2, 2015 7:44 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
serene56: I read on your profile that you like to sleep during the day and wander the aisles of Walmart between 12 and 6am.It takes a special lady to appreciate that, I hope you find her



OMG I almost spit out my coffee laughingcoffee rolling on the floor laughing


methinks you are kind in your advice :)
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Sep 2, 2015 7:48 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
freetobeme3
freetobeme3freetobeme3Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa8 Posts
djteel: I was talking to a couple people online and have found that many people especially women would not date a laid back person who is comfortable with life and has no desire for bars,clubs or liquor at all.A lot of men are past that stage of partying and enjoy Coffee shops and flea markets as opposed to the high maintenance environment of social gatherings where loud music and drinking are involved..Ie, they prefer movies at home on wide screen tv and music at home on the surround sound system and inside grilling and BBQ-ing and more home oriented than doing the social scene.family oreiented but without kids and desire women of the same ilk.


Sure I would. I don't drink and don't hang out at clubs. I would like some social interaction though, neighbours and friends coming over occasionally. I wouldn't want to be a total recluse.
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Sep 2, 2015 7:52 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Aaahh...I've just read your profile. I get the hypersensitivity thing. Your OP makes more sense now. tip hat
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Sep 2, 2015 10:55 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I am not into the bar scene so being with a homebody wouldn't bother me.
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Sep 2, 2015 11:26 AM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
pogo07
pogo07pogo07dubliin, Dublin Ireland4 Threads 74 Posts
I think most people are home bodies now anyway. I know for me there is no comparison, I love my nights in, iv done all the pubs clubs and out stuff. I think it runs its course. I only do one night out occasionally now and quite happy with that.
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Sep 2, 2015 12:23 PM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
I wouldn't like a couch-potato.

I like going out for meals, and going to the occasional drink to a pub also, and would obviously like if my partner accompanied me!
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Sep 2, 2015 12:52 PM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
No, I wouldn't like to stay at home watching movies, I barely watch television and listening to music is much better in a concert hall... I am a social person and enjoy meeting people, long conversations over diner in a small cosy restaurant...
I hate browsing supermarkets, I get what I need and out... Same applies for other shops, but I like bookstores...
But that's just me, we are all different after all wine
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Sep 2, 2015 1:08 PM CST would you date someone that is a homebody(movies and music at home) and doesn't do social drinking o
Toger1234
Toger1234Toger1234Kerry, Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 20 Posts
I think there is nothing wrong with not wanting to be in nightclubs all the time and wanting to live a quite life but get a woman that wants the same . Its just a matter of finding a woman that wants the same lifestyle I like meals and having a few drinks but would not be into clubs every weekend so it would turn me of meeting a man that wanted to be clubbing every weekend its all about what you want and finding a partner that wants a similar lifestyle.
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