Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you? (66)
yeah you don't want your wife taking advise from others mate
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dazzling87: is it important ?
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This is religion(again), it should be posted under religion.
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yubba: .
This is religion(again), it should be posted under religion.
This is religion(again), it should be posted under religion.
Maybe he's a new member.
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dazzling87: is it important ?
if you are in love with each other and its all roses. Who gives a wonker about religion. Your in love. That's how religion started.------ This poll is Archived ------
it probably would help!
Enough tensions arise,without having disagreements in the most fundamental issues!
Enough tensions arise,without having disagreements in the most fundamental issues!
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It would be important to me that they are not extreme, fundamental or over-religious in the first place.
We would then not be compatible in our views.
We would then not be compatible in our views.
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tomcatwarne: Maybe he's a new member.
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Yes you are right to side with him, its good you do like all others will, if people always stay on the side of the majority they are always right, when l am right l am always wrong. As l think he speaks English l would have thought that he would read to post in religion, but there again l am wrong about that too, hope you are having yet another happy day being correct.
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yubba: .
Yes you are right to side with him, its good you do like all others will, if people always stay on the side of the majority they are always right, when l am right l am always wrong. As l think he speaks English l would have thought that he would read to post in religion, but there again l am wrong about that too, hope you are having yet another happy day being correct.
Yes you are right to side with him, its good you do like all others will, if people always stay on the side of the majority they are always right, when l am right l am always wrong. As l think he speaks English l would have thought that he would read to post in religion, but there again l am wrong about that too, hope you are having yet another happy day being correct.
Maybe I was wrong being right
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tomcatwarne: Maybe I was wrong being right
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This is a blog and sums up another person feelings of how bad people have joined CS and changed it:
Heydays
CS was once a vibrant site offering the possibilities of finding romance among the copious volume of regularly active members. These days, the number of people online at any one time barely fills one page.
Has CS’s heyday come and gone?
Having said that there has always been plentiful heaps of filth on here with a bad mouth and l remember the first tart that posted something bad to me in about 2004 simply because l posted in an EU forum and she thought l was not entitled too. Recently you have foul mouthed American women that start threads and you can imagine that the way they post here is the way they run their lives and indeed treat the spouse, American, Foul Mouthed and religious too, what a lovely combination.
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dazzling87: is it important ?
It's only somewhat important for me if one religion or the other requires joint bank accounts and investing.....
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dazzling87: is it important ?
For me: yes. It's actually the main requirement for my partner - to belong to the same axiomatic system. You don't want to spend all time discussion subjects that are given from your point of view: as "same pay for same job" and the like.
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Crickey 2004 yubba. I gave myself 1 year here. Once that time is up. I'm out. Too many new things and places and people to see and meet
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Maybe you could try having a can of man or something before logging in and posting in CS Forums or blogs.
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dazzling87: is it important ?
As a reluctant atheist guarding against nihilism I'd prefer to have kids with somebody moderately religious.
I'm looking to grow and for my kids to be raised under the Goldilocks principle and for this I must have my complementary opposite to share certain fundamental disagreements. Man and woman or Mum and Dad must not be the same person.
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TheRedSquirrel87: As a reluctant atheist guarding against nihilism I'd prefer to have kids with somebody moderately religious.
I'm looking to grow and for my kids to be raised under the Goldilocks principle and for this I must have my complementary opposite to share certain fundamental disagreements. Man and woman or Mum and Dad must not be the same person.
I'm looking to grow and for my kids to be raised under the Goldilocks principle and for this I must have my complementary opposite to share certain fundamental disagreements. Man and woman or Mum and Dad must not be the same person.
I want her to be more emotional than me, less of a disciplinarian, and to be so deeply embedded in her social class that she scarcely recognises the existence of social class. Within certain cultural limits(e.g. I don't want a mother who believes in wearing the burqa)I want a wife and mother of my kids who has not seen the things that I have seen nor been the places that I have been. I want a love which transcends all walks of life.
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dazzling87: is it important ?
As long as I don't have to participate in any witchcraft or voodoo , I'm pretty flexible.
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allthegoodnamest: As long as I don't have to participate in any witchcraft or voodoo , I'm pretty flexible.
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I think most of us know how flexible you are, Tru told me some things.
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Spells and potions are more used for cures and healings. The other side you have to be really ready. A bad spell cast returns tenfold. So if even you wish some bad thing. It comes back many times more. Even if only in your thoughts. So if you think bad things for someone. The spirits are listening.
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yubba: .
I think most of us know how flexible you are, Tru told me some things.
I think most of us know how flexible you are, Tru told me some things.
If it was something bad , then he's a liar but if it was something that made me look good, then he's probably telling the truth.
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TheRedSquirrel87: I want her to be more emotional than me, less of a disciplinarian, and to be so deeply embedded in her social class that she scarcely recognises the existence of social class. Within certain cultural limits(e.g. I don't want a mother who believes in wearing the burqa)I want a wife and mother of my kids who has not seen the things that I have seen nor been the places that I have been. I want a love which transcends all walks of life.
On paper this shouldn't be too difficult. Seldom do I meet a woman who is less emotional, more of a disciplinarian, with an upbringing and life less eclectic than my own.
On paper I'm looking for the bog standard, middle class and pee-cee woman of the enclaves. As an oddball made weird by life and eccentric parents I want the run-of-the-mill snowflake entranced by her own uniqueness and raised by sensible and generic parents. I want a woman who talks a lot about not being like everybody else seen as being like everybody else is extremely difficult for me.
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TheRedSquirrel87: On paper this shouldn't be too difficult. Seldom do I meet a woman who is less emotional, more of a disciplinarian, with an upbringing and life less eclectic than my own.
On paper I'm looking for the bog standard, middle class and pee-cee woman of the enclaves. As an oddball made weird by life and eccentric parents I want the run-of-the-mill snowflake entranced by her own uniqueness and raised by sensible and generic parents. I want a woman who talks a lot about not being like everybody else seen as being like everybody else is extremely difficult for me.
On paper I'm looking for the bog standard, middle class and pee-cee woman of the enclaves. As an oddball made weird by life and eccentric parents I want the run-of-the-mill snowflake entranced by her own uniqueness and raised by sensible and generic parents. I want a woman who talks a lot about not being like everybody else seen as being like everybody else is extremely difficult for me.
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TheRedSquirrel87: On paper this shouldn't be too difficult. Seldom do I meet a woman who is less emotional, more of a disciplinarian, with an upbringing and life less eclectic than my own.
On paper I'm looking for the bog standard, middle class and pee-cee woman of the enclaves. As an oddball made weird by life and eccentric parents I want the run-of-the-mill snowflake entranced by her own uniqueness and raised by sensible and generic parents. I want a woman who talks a lot about not being like everybody else seen as being like everybody else is extremely difficult for me.
On paper I'm looking for the bog standard, middle class and pee-cee woman of the enclaves. As an oddball made weird by life and eccentric parents I want the run-of-the-mill snowflake entranced by her own uniqueness and raised by sensible and generic parents. I want a woman who talks a lot about not being like everybody else seen as being like everybody else is extremely difficult for me.
However, in addition to these differences which complement a love also requires having things in common.
When I've worked out all the ways in which clashing with a woman is in fact matching with a woman and matching with a woman is in fact clashing with a woman then I'll write a book.
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My late husband and I had different beliefs rather they be religious or not to which I showed respect for his.Maybe that is why our marriage lasted so long as it did cause we both had respect for one another.
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TheRedSquirrel87: However, in addition to these differences which complement a love also requires having things in common.
When I've worked out all the ways in which clashing with a woman is in fact matching with a woman and matching with a woman is in fact clashing with a woman then I'll write a book.
When I've worked out all the ways in which clashing with a woman is in fact matching with a woman and matching with a woman is in fact clashing with a woman then I'll write a book.
Somebody should write a book on it if they've not already. Some of the more sophisticated cliches on those little pictures girls put up on their instagram are expressing the very same thing.
Unfortunately girls don't want to explain the truth of themselves in any great detail - hence the cliches - and thus it needs to be a man to write the how, when and why of being obstinate.
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I think a relationship has a better chance of being successful if both have the same idea about religion.
I'm not religious at all. If I was in a relationship with someone who went to church on Sunday and never spoke a word about the bible, god, the virgin mary or anything of that nature in our home I would respect his choice but don't annoy me with religious chatter.
I'm not religious at all. If I was in a relationship with someone who went to church on Sunday and never spoke a word about the bible, god, the virgin mary or anything of that nature in our home I would respect his choice but don't annoy me with religious chatter.
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secretagent09: I think a relationship has a better chance of being successful if both have the same idea about religion.
I'm not religious at all. If I was in a relationship with someone who went to church on Sunday and never spoke a word about the bible, god, the virgin mary or anything of that nature in our home I would respect his choice but don't annoy me with religious chatter.
i,m a quaker...who likes his oats..(quaker oats.).....I'm not religious at all. If I was in a relationship with someone who went to church on Sunday and never spoke a word about the bible, god, the virgin mary or anything of that nature in our home I would respect his choice but don't annoy me with religious chatter.
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Forgive me for accidentally on purpose hijacking your thread.
I don't necessarily apply this to religion, but my point is that a couple works best when they are, in some respects, savagely different. It is vitally important to be able to disagree with and hurt the other person. Love soothes the burn and to feel the love she must first feel the burn.
I don't necessarily apply this to religion, but my point is that a couple works best when they are, in some respects, savagely different. It is vitally important to be able to disagree with and hurt the other person. Love soothes the burn and to feel the love she must first feel the burn.
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as everybody makes god look like himself and his own values, i suppose it doesn't matter much.
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dazzling87: is it important ?
any religion is fine as long as i think the person is rational. not important, but I wouldn't date a puritanical or dogmatic religious person in the first place.
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Conrad73: it probably would help!
Enough tensions arise,without having disagreements in the most fundamental issues!
Enough tensions arise,without having disagreements in the most fundamental issues!
"This is my simple religion. There is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the philosophy is kindness." ~Dalai Lama
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