Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...? ( Archived) (95)

Jul 27, 2016 7:11 PM CSTDo we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario, Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts

Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?(Vote Below)

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Loves veggies...but not corn or lettuce?
11
13%
Loves people...but not that race?
14
16%
Loves dogs..but not Dobermans or Pit Bulls?
19
22%
Loves fish...but not Snapper or Cod?
8
9%
Loves shoes...but not slippers or pumps?
12
14%
Loves God..but not that one...or that one?
8
9%
Loves countries..but nobody from 'there'?
14
16%
Total Votes
86
Inquiring minds wants to knowconversing

I think not. laugh
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Jul 27, 2016 7:54 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Lonely1: What does your comment have to do with the topic? or the price of bread, for that matter?
not a lot.....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wave
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Jul 27, 2016 7:55 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
truheart1941: not a lot.....
I,m a baker.
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Jul 27, 2016 8:01 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Lonely1: Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
I've heard of selective tastes, selective desires and selective wants...

...But I've never heard of any selective love.

"Love is the power to see similarity in the dissimilar." ~Theodor Adorno
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Jul 27, 2016 8:02 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Lonely1: Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?


Being (insanely) selective might reflect personal interests, so no that is not Love.




wine
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Jul 27, 2016 8:05 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I won't consider that being love.
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Jul 27, 2016 8:06 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
YouMeUs: I've heard of selective tastes, selective desires and selective wants...

...But I've never heard of any selective love.

"Love is the power to see similarity in the dissimilar." ~Theodor Adorno
another baker....??????giggle giggle
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Jul 27, 2016 8:10 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Ccincy: I won't consider that being love.
..I would....grin
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Jul 27, 2016 8:11 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
truheart1941: another baker....??????
And the thirteenth one is what really matters. professor

laugh
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Jul 27, 2016 8:12 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
I love my neighbors on the left but not the one on the right because..well because..they are just different.laugh
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Jul 27, 2016 8:13 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
YouMeUs: And the thirteenth one is what really matters.
WHA....???????laugh
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Jul 27, 2016 8:14 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Lonely1: I love my neighbors on the left but not the one on the right because..well because..they are just different.

Which shoes were you talking about???





laugh
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Jul 27, 2016 8:15 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Lonely1: I love my neighbors on the left but not the one on the right because..well because..they are just different.
how about the one upstairs....??????grin
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Jul 27, 2016 8:15 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
YouMeUs: I've heard of selective tastes, selective desires and selective wants...

...But I've never heard of any selective love.

"Love is the power to see similarity in the dissimilar." ~Theodor Adorno


You would be surprised.cheers
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Jul 27, 2016 8:18 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
truheart1941: ..I would....



You would what call it totally insane?
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Jul 27, 2016 8:18 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
truheart1941: WHA....???????
A baker's dozen? 13? laugh
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Jul 27, 2016 8:19 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
truheart1941: how about the one upstairs....??????

Those I like..but the ones downstairs..uh oh


lifeisadream: Which shoes were you talking about???

Well, you know...as long as I don't have to walk bare feet.grin
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Jul 27, 2016 8:21 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Ccincy: You would what call it totally insane?
no.grin
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Jul 27, 2016 8:23 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Lonely1: Those I like..but the ones downstairs..
Well, you know...as long as I don't have to walk bare feet.
so whats wrong withe the ones downstairs......??????/grin
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Jul 27, 2016 8:24 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Ccincy: I won't consider that being love.


It just dawned on me the other day: can I truly say I know how to love or that I love something or someone if I am very selective and find faults with a lot of things that they do, or like? I think Not!doh
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Jul 27, 2016 8:26 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
truheart1941: so whats wrong withe the ones downstairs......??????/


They don't eat the types of foods that I like.blues
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Jul 27, 2016 8:29 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Lonely1: It just dawned on me the other day: can I truly say I know how to love or that I love something or someone if I am very selective and find faults with a lot of things that they do, or like? I think Not!
....yes, i can see your point.......what is your point.....??????....do you like prunes..??????giggle
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Jul 27, 2016 8:30 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
truheart1941: ....yes, i can see your point.......what is your point.....??????....do you like prunes..??????


Yes, actually I do. I will eat anything rather than go hungry. As you can see: I love food.buddies pizza burger
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Jul 27, 2016 8:37 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Lonely1: Yes, actually I do. I will eat anything rather than go hungry. As you can see: I love food.
its nice to see a man that enjoys his food....so how many kilos of prunes do you eat aday....???????
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Jul 27, 2016 9:12 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
truheart1941: its nice to see a man that enjoys his food....so how many kilos of prunes do you eat aday....???????


I don't go out of my way to eat them, but If they are available I will. What, do you trade in them?laugh
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Jul 27, 2016 9:21 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Lonely1: I don't go out of my way to eat them, but If they are available I will. What, do you trade in them?
toilet rolls.....grin laugh
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Jul 27, 2016 10:10 PM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Earthheart
EarthheartEarthheartMy Town, New Mexico USA23 Posts
The question is :what is your Love?
The question is :what is your preference?
The question is :what is your truth?

Respect all ,even if it is beyond ones own awareness, to grasp its meaning.
When one can live in grace,and respect, one can live with out the entanglements of conflict..


Hotep-Peace
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Jul 28, 2016 8:59 AM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
TheRedSquirrel87
TheRedSquirrel87TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 1,107 Posts
I love you bacon sandwich, I love you person I don't know, I love you pavement. Wouldn't love be devalued if it wasn't selective?
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Jul 28, 2016 9:27 AM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
tomcatwarne: Out of the mouths of babes and old men
rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 28, 2016 9:32 AM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
Happygolucky4uonline today!
Happygolucky4uonline today!Happygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
Lonely1: It just dawned on me the other day: can I truly say I know how to love or that I love something or someone if I am very selective and find faults with a lot of things that they do, or like? I think Not!


You will never find someone with out faults as I will always have faults. It is called being human. When you truly love someone you will love them more than you see their faults. And even some of those faults will bring a crinkle to your eyes when you smile while they are doing them. Love is wanting to stay with someone thru thick and thin, thru good and bad. Love is accepting a person for who they are and yet still loving them. beer Just how I see things. tip hat joy
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Jul 28, 2016 9:35 AM CST Do we truly have the ability to love if our love is insanely selective...?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Happygolucky4u: You will never find someone with out faults as I will always have faults. It is called being human. When you truly love someone you will love them more than you see their faults. And even some of those faults will bring a crinkle to your eyes when you smile while they are doing them. Love is wanting to stay with someone thru thick and thin, thru good and bad. Love is accepting a person for who they are and yet still loving them. Just how I see things.


What she saidgrin
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