If you were approached by someone of another ethnicity that your family would disapprove of would u

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Diamond789 Fort Worth , Texas USA
tropikalkween: Interracial Dating

Sorry I didn't check your poll.
I could find no place that would match my decision caused from my experiences and time honored traditions.
Ex. My home was built with my assistance in 1983. Since that time three families started out buying the house next door which was also built with my assistance in 1983.
The first family was of mixed race.The man was of Irish and German decent. His wife Mexican or Hispanic.Simply put, he was Anglo-Saxon, a white man while she, a brown woman.
I was always involved in separating them when fighting. He was always busting something to pieces.( Except me).He was the typical electrician baddass.
They always argued about bills and whether or not to have tanned kids or what color they'd turn out to be.In short they had stepped out of their generic codes. They weren't happy.His family didn't like her for her genes and her family was disgusted with him.
A real mess.
After he had practically demolished their home,they divoced and abandoned the property which grew over in weeds until I began maintaining it for the new owner or whoever.
The next couple. She Spanish Mex. mixed.He, Anglo-Saxon. Both have different colored children but get along.They moved away 3 years ago. He was nuts. Packed a loaded .38 in his back pocket everywhere he went.
Third couple moved in 2-1/2 years ago.
Woman beautiful heart stopping blonde. A real heart attacker.He,Mulatto with golden eyes. Big man. One child by him. She a Mulatto as well.
The woman had,has three Anglo Saxon girls.
House falling apart. Lintles and exterior trim bending backwards from rot.Desperate for repair.The man,wouldn't care for the children. I was there fixing and mending the kids bikes. I was there to help the Anglo-Saxon kids.
There was always people coming and going.Bickering here and there over their interracial differences.
One color group thought things should be this way or that.
I would rake the leaves from my yard.He would expect me to rake his yard as well. I would tell him to get screwed.
His fence fell down. I put up a new one. He wouldn't attach his side to the new posts so he got pissed off when it fell over into his yard..His and her fault since the woman wouldn't get him to attach it.
The problems I have been thru'with couples who were interracially married have been simply put as, incredible. I haven't added any advice or personal opinions here,just what hell I have been thru' since 1983 with racially obvious marriages.
I have yet to see one that lasted any length of time.
I have seen all different colors of kids who can barely associate with others.Quite often the children are lonely. the parents fight and bicker.
I'm talking all races mingling. Historically, Chinese and Japanese fought each other for centuries.I never heard of many marriages lasting.I have seen American service Anglo-Saxons marry Vietnamese women and have beautiful children only to be scorned by their grandparents.Those children are called," Amerasians".Many children were born in Asia and when the troops pulled out,,,many were left without support and scorned.
I have only written about what I have seen and gone thur'.
I'm not against people marrying and forming a lasting union.They need to consider the implications of that union no matter what race they are. Remember one generation will effect the next and so on.

Now for my opinion:
A couple needs to abandon a sexual attraction as the sole purpose of living together for a long period of time.There's so many other things to consider in forming a union.


I'm no racist. By the same token I will never marry or date a woman who has stepped outside of her bloodline.I have many, many friends of different color we hang out and have discussed things like this before and we all feel the same way.
Merry Christmas All !redclown santa waving



Sparks541 Big Rapids, Michigan USA
Personally, I would refuse the person outright. I would love to be friends, but if my family disapproves, even for something as stupid as race, I would lose too much. Perhaps in a few years when I'm able to stand without the support of my family, I'll choose differently. But because my family pays all of my college funding so I don't have debt, I would lose too much to disobey. I suppose that's their way of leashing me, everything is controlled by my dad.
cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands

Diamond

It looks like you've been in the wrong neighbourhood to me...
They all look uneducated...their types of arguments...Gosh!

How about you? Have you dated women with kids and all? How long did it last? How many women did you date?



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
mike69spain: He is not kidding, what he writes is what often real in this world. Another thing entirely if one wants to heed the advice, but not doing it may very well mean you are loosing one or more of the mentioned parties.

Sad but true, and I know it from my personal life, since I could never "choose with a calculated mind".



I forget how lucky i am, because my family would never make me chose between love and family. None of them!


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cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
Ethicity issues are no issue if the society is silent about it. There is nothing, no characteristics attached to ethnicity per se.



ahfb07 Birmingham, Alabama USA
It's my life and I date who I want to.. As long as I am happy and treated with respect, my family should be happy for me..... If my family sees that I am truly happy an treated well they will eventually come around... peace heart wings



Hope that my kids would never ever have to go through hell like I did...hell in which I was condemned and forced by governmnent of United States of America where our lives are uterly raped...forced into desperate decision making even when it comes to dating...


No, I have never ever felt any mutual attraction toward other races other than odiousnes toward system itself to compell me in those as I already mentioned...


If individual is abused long enough with suficient severity, he/she will eventaully pervert !


Now, what was the question again !???



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
bushbun: Hope that my kids would never ever have to go through hell like I did...hell in which I was condemned and forced by governmnent of United States of America where our lives are uterly raped...forced into desperate decision making even when it comes to dating...No, I have never ever felt any mutual attraction toward other races other than odiousnes toward system itself to compell me in those as I already mentioned...If individual is abused long enough with suficient severity, he/she will eventaully pervert !Now, what was the question again !???


Are you ok?

dunno



bushbun: Hope that my kids would never ever have to go through hell like I did...hell in which I was condemned and forced by governmnent of United States of America where our lives are uterly raped...forced into desperate decision making even when it comes to dating...No, I have never ever felt any mutual attraction toward other races other than odiousnes toward system itself to compell me in those as I already mentioned...If individual is abused long enough with suficient severity, he/she will eventaully pervert !Now, what was the question again !???






RobbieM Hertford, Hertfordshire, England UK
lusciousmile: Are you ok?


This bloke isn't even consistent in his bile.

The other day he was saying he couldn't have kids.

The only thing i'll add to that is thank god he hasn't found anyone mad enough to try to breed.

Jesus can you imagine the warped way he would bring them up?



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
RobbieM: This bloke isn't even consistent in his bile.

The other day he was saying he couldn't have kids.

The only thing i'll add to that is thank god he hasn't found anyone mad enough to try to breed.

Jesus can you imagine the warped way he would bring them up?



He scares me. Imagine being his neighbour. doh
mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA
lusciousmile: He scares me. Imagine being his neighbour.
Please now I might have night mareshug doh rolling on the floor laughing
RobbieM Hertford, Hertfordshire, England UK
lusciousmile: He scares me. Imagine being his neighbour.


Well he seems to have taken an unhealthy obsession with my son!

I'd like to meet him, for obvious reasons.

He wont be able to breed after, i'd see to thatlaugh
RobbieM Hertford, Hertfordshire, England UK
mylifewithu: Please now I might have night mares


Phone your nearest radio station or newspaper in the morning and ask if they employ journalists who cant write in coherent English, but specialise in writing up their reports in crayon, with mixed venom and bile.

I bet you won't find one, especially with an anti American theme running through them.



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
mylifewithu: Please now I might have night mares


He started this thread, saying he loved everyone on Cs. The rest of the time, he doesn't hide his racism and obsession with Robbie's kid.

Multiple personality disorder, maybe. dunno doh sigh



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Robbie, i'm sure you would be on the news, if you met him.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
RobbieM Hertford, Hertfordshire, England UK
lusciousmile: He started this thread, saying he loved everyone on Cs. The rest of the time, he doesn't hide his racism and obsession with Robbie's kid.

Multiple personality disorder, maybe.
Robbie, i'm sure you would be on the news, if you met him.


Yeah, i could show him how to defend himself against all those bad Americans that might want to string him up!

Ironically i may have need to visit Florida and Germany on business shortly, and i am sure i could make a diversion to see him.
mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA
RobbieM: Phone your nearest radio station or newspaper in the morning and ask if they employ journalists who cant write in coherent English, but specialise in writing up their reports in crayon, with mixed venom and bile.

I bet you won't find one, especially with an anti American theme running through them.
thumbs up rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing I know I have seen his crap before.rolling on the floor laughing



lusciousmile: He scares me. Imagine being his neighbour.










Beleive me, I do pay money...for not being your neighborthumbs up

Am sure you'll figure out...



Robbie, no comment for you other than to see ya physician...gosh it seems to e as if ran away from Jerry Springer's show...laugh



Through this thread alone, people can see maliciousness and mind behind those who desire change or perversion of society these days.


I have also never seen one single thread on this forum that would upon publishing and receiving honest comments be afterwords hidden(new threads thrown on top) away as fast as possible by its authors alone...


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