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I always look at exes as just that, exes.

I would if I could turn back the hands of time.

Not only would I go back but, hell, I'd go waaaaaayyy back and not even meet that person

Why has hell frozen over.

No really my wife did want to work things out, problem was it was after the person she cheated on with dumped her, than the her boyfriend after we separated dumped her. then again she will never find anyone as good as me, right? Right

I will not be anyone's third choice, ever.

I think whatever happens, its not very attractive to go back to a stale situation.

If he had "the urge" to move away and live a different life, logic would have it that he doesnt want the "old life" back.

So I think in any case you are well advised to move on and get on with your life, take it where it might lead you now.. and then if he regrets leaving you he might be pleasantly surprised about the "new and improved" person you have become..

or not,

in which case you have risen to the opportunity and made he best out of a bad situation,- you took the opportunity to grow and become a better you despite this set back.

It a win-win.

All the best dear. Sometimes people just dont appreciate a person. That doesnt devalue you in any way., it might simply be their inability to appreciate..

thanks for the advice it was really a great help I know I need to move on and I am but I want to move on and make my life better and not hve to worry that he might pop up one day and say Im sorry will you take me back. But I don't think he will The main problem is that I have never had to live alone since I was 16 I was married the first time for 15 years and he left for the one he is married to now but we are friends now. I had our kids then for 4 1/2 years before I remarried and this time I was married for 10 years so my kids have left the nest all grown and now I feel abandon lol I guess you could say because he was all I had until now so I guess I will have to learn to be alone and take care of my self my income isnt the greatest either so without his money its going to be rough for a awhile any way I know God will provide for me so I plan on msking the bedt of this situation and move on.


Thanks again,

lucy2863

I would never go back to my ex. She showed her true colors after I underwent by-pass surgery. Ten years down the tubes. The only good thing out of that marriage were our two boys







Earl

Nope I like it the way it is.

It always takes two to tango

do you want to go back and would the other person have them back

For me i am living my life the way i want it to be

just look to the future not the past she burned the bridges,glad i can't swim no i have looked ahead and love what i see she was the loser not me, i hold no ill will but am glad with the outcome....she don't compare to what lies ahead

ah...absolutely not!

Nope, too many bridges were burned. I have forgiven him and myself and moved on. Even if I wanted to go back, I'm not sure we are compatible now. My life has changed, I'm not the same person I use to be. From the looks of it, he is still the same person, still has the same bad habits.

Besides, I don't like re-runs...

Not on your best day. With either of them. We are much happier apart.

life goes on

Goes on a lot beyyer without them. Hi Cherrie

hey you sorry i dumped u yesterday so u CANT come back

Oh, Im heart broken.

oh didnt u know i dumped u?i CC u when i wrote to my new cyber lover

Can your monitor hug you like I can?