hathor: I won't offense you, but if you don't find on CS what you are looking for, then it is because of your profile.
Your profile is too strict.
Sourround yourself with two or three friends, and let them rewrite your profile. That should do the trick
Hahaha! But then people will be interested in my friends point of view and not mine...thanks for the advice but if anyone writes me they will just have to take me as I come...which is exactly that way...bold, direct, stern and to the point....
Plus I also had a lot of good feedback on it...many people saw the humour hidden in there and appreciated the direct, honest approach...so Im not worried about lack of interest..., more whether or not I can actually follow up on any of it practically speaking.