Do you find it uncomfortable when your partner ask what your most intament likes and dislikes are?

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descretshyguy London, Ontario Canada

Do you find it uncomfortable when your partner ask what your most intament likes and dislikes are?

created by: descretshyguy | Oct 8, 2009
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I personally think that it is important to know. When you love someone you want to please them to the best of your ability.
Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA
I have no secrets from a partner when I am involved in a relationship.
mjames napa, California USA
If you love someone I would say no way. If it's just a sleazy one nighter I'd say it shouldn't be hard either,
I say it depends on where the relationship is. I've had a guy ask me where my "pleasure spots" are (as he tried to politely phrase them) after he gave me a good night kiss at the door on our first date. These subjects are by no-means taboo ( and if they are I feel like that just makes things that much more ackward for everyone) just at an appropriate time is all us "silly" females askgrin
nickyoungguns auckland, Auckland New Zealand
more like ..."dont we all wish we had a partner so we could find it uncomfortable when our partners ask us what our most intament likes and dislikes are"?
this is a qustion to be answered not by words.actually time will show it if we are not showing off in a relationship.
err77 dormont (pittsburgh), Pennsylvania USA
descretshyguy: I personally think that it is important to know. When you love someone you want to please them to the best of your ability.


holy crap man, learn how to spell.

intimate.
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
err77: holy crap man, learn how to spell.

intimate.
Does it really matter, you know what he meant
I'm prepared to talk about anything except my collection of tangas....cool
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
Odysseus101: I'm prepared to talk about anything except my collection of tangas....
Just tell me you don't have Speedo's the men here are obsessed with them
Well, I'm not surprised....speedos make your dick look bigger....it's a little bit like a woman wearing a push-up bra...cool

morgan5: Just tell me you don't have Speedo's the men here are obsessed with them
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
Odysseus101: Well, I'm not surprised....speedos make your dick look bigger....it's a little bit like a woman wearing a push-up bra...
laugh you didn't answer the question
batting

morgan5: you didn't answer the question
kitty01 Morinville, Alberta Canada
morgan5: you didn't answer the question


well if it would make it look bigger..how would he know unless he wears them.rolling on the floor laughing
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
kitty01: well if it would make it look bigger..how would he know unless he wears them.
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lovely4u7da chicago, Illinois USA
descretshyguy: I personally think that it is important to know. When you love someone you want to please them to the best of your ability.
I agree I would even go as far as to ask before being intimate so you will know where you both stand on your experience's`s and if his pride and ego may feel bruise because you are or not may be telling him something he thinks he knows already
sassy49senior Itty Bitty, Nebraska USA
If I am truly in a long term relationship of course it would not be uncomfortable. I would want to know the same about him.

What I would find very uncomfortable is if he wants to know in expilcit detail the way I and my previous partner made love. scold thumbs down
x1xAngelx1x San Diego, California USA
I've had the experience of having a guy want me to fill out a checklist! Pfft! Way to kill the romance, dude.

Honestly, I don't want to be asked directly what my intimate likes and dislikes are. Be in tune with me and gauge my reactions.

How do I respond when you stick your big, thick tongue down my throat for a goodnight kiss? Am I pulling away from you? Duh! Get that tongue back in your own mouth. THEN try the kiss again. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmuch better. See? Wasn't so hard to figure out my "intimate likes and dislikes" now, was it?
nottoo2525 Edmonton, Alberta Canada
descretshyguy: I personally think that it is important to know. When you love someone you want to please them to the best of your ability.

If you find yourself uncomfortable talking to them about anything then your "partnership" isn't functioning as it should.
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